Me too. Every time.
Do you have a better orgasm by yourself or with your lover?
12/19/2010
By myself - generally more physically satisfying, but with my partner it's a more holistic sort of satisfaction.
12/23/2010
Mine are completely different. They are both great in their own ways. My Clit O's are really strong and deep and shake my whole body. I can only have one and then I need a rest. My Sex O's are great, but not as strong. However, I can have multiple orgasms when I have sex. I prefer sex with my Hubby. Both are enjoyable though.
12/29/2010
Defiantly with my girlfriend
12/29/2010
They are much more rare, but when I can get there with my man; they are a million times better.
12/29/2010
Psychically speaking, better by myself. Getting the positions and pressures just right is easier.
But emotionally and mentally its so much more satisfying to achieve one with someone else.
But emotionally and mentally its so much more satisfying to achieve one with someone else.
01/08/2011
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I have more intense/longer lasting orgasms when I am with my partner, as he demands my full attention.
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
But... it is harder to have orgasms when with him.
01/12/2011
changes sometimes i'm just not into sex
01/14/2011
I take care of business pretty well myself but some of the best toe-curling, mind blowing sex has been with others.
01/14/2011
My husband is a pro
01/22/2011
My gf by far
01/22/2011
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I also agree. My wife takes me to other worlds!
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
01/26/2011
unfortunately, I usually have a better orgasm by myself.
01/26/2011
Better by myself, but I haven't been in a relationship since I got into toys
01/27/2011
Better with my partner. Just hearing his voice can do it to me sometimes.
01/27/2011
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as far as hand goes.. myself.. (altho i LOVR her hand stroking me, it usually results in her hand cramping.. her hands aren't as used to it as mine are :p) anything else she does is waaaaay beyond what i could do for myself.
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
01/27/2011
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so true
Originally posted by
Tuesday
I remember in a psychology class the professor telling us that research shows that women can give themselves more/better orgasms than when they're with men but that they prefer partner sex to masturbation.
Actually the professor said ... more
Actually the professor said ... more
I remember in a psychology class the professor telling us that research shows that women can give themselves more/better orgasms than when they're with men but that they prefer partner sex to masturbation.
Actually the professor said women prefer to be with men. I reworded to be more inclusive. less
Actually the professor said women prefer to be with men. I reworded to be more inclusive. less
01/29/2011
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I certainly cannot satisfy myself like a lover can.
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
02/01/2011
By myself, or when I'm doing my own clit while we fuck.
02/11/2011
The best are with my partner. He can do things to me that don't work when I try them myself, for some reason. I'm convinced that he's magic.
02/11/2011
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Your wife and I might be soul mates, Gunsmoke! I can definitely give myself multiple clit orgasms very easily, but I want my hubby for the earth shattering kind!
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
My wife has told me this many times before - she tends to be a little lazy - a clit orgasm is so easy to have. But if she wants a full body - earth shaking - toe curling orgasm - I get the call!
02/11/2011
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Kitt Katt - thanks, I'm guessing your husband and I have much in commons as well - like all men we're trying to stay relevant!
Originally posted by
Kitt Katt
Your wife and I might be soul mates, Gunsmoke! I can definitely give myself multiple clit orgasms very easily, but I want my hubby for the earth shattering kind!
02/12/2011
Typically, it's pretty awesome when I'm with my boyfriend, but he can't always find my most sensitive spots. If I can pull off some of the tricks he does with my toys, I can have a pretty intense orgasm without him, although I'll always pick him over myself.
02/14/2011
I like both...there's different types of orgasms by myself and with a partner. They both rock, I just crave one over the other at times.
02/14/2011
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Always more intense with lover, but easily anytime by myself!
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
02/18/2011
No Contest, It's always better with Daddy
02/19/2011
Always much better with my lover. I can't make it so intensive myself, even with a use of sex toys.
02/20/2011
I've had great ones with a partner and great ones alone. Also had crummy ones with both too. They're both different kinds though so it's hard to compare them directly.
02/21/2011
it is quicker by myself, but much better with husband.
03/08/2011
Better with lover but definitely harder to come by
03/08/2011