I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
Do you have a better orgasm by yourself or with your lover?
11/21/2010
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The best orgasms come when I am with the wife, hands down.
11/21/2010
My husband gives me whole body orgasms and that is something I certainly cannot do by myself.
11/21/2010
I remember in a psychology class the professor telling us that research shows that women can give themselves more/better orgasms than when they're with men but that they prefer partner sex to masturbation.
Actually the professor said women prefer to be with men. I reworded to be more inclusive.
Actually the professor said women prefer to be with men. I reworded to be more inclusive.
11/21/2010
I give myself better alone, but I use amazing toys.
11/21/2010
mandybeth
they are better by myself.
11/21/2010
Sometimes?
11/21/2010
They are usually better by myself but the ones I have with my partner are different... if that makes sense lol
11/21/2010
They're definitely better with my husband. I think it has a lot to do with his technique, he's a lot less lazy with the thrusting than I am, and he's unrelentless which pushes me past the point of a good orgasm into the "You could cut off my arm right now and I wouldn't even care" point. Another thing that makes them better with him is the build up, the anticipation and the teasing.
11/21/2010
The best are always when I'm with someone else... or at least have been so far.
11/22/2010
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My sentiments exactly!
Originally posted by
Alicia
They're definitely better with my husband. I think it has a lot to do with his technique, he's a lot less lazy with the thrusting than I am, and he's unrelentless which pushes me past the point of a good orgasm into the "You could
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They're definitely better with my husband. I think it has a lot to do with his technique, he's a lot less lazy with the thrusting than I am, and he's unrelentless which pushes me past the point of a good orgasm into the "You could cut off my arm right now and I wouldn't even care" point. Another thing that makes them better with him is the build up, the anticipation and the teasing.
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11/22/2010
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My wife has told me this many times before - she tends to be a little lazy - a clit orgasm is so easy to have. But if she wants a full body - earth shaking - toe curling orgasm - I get the call!
Originally posted by
Redboxbaby
My sentiments exactly!
11/22/2010
my better orgasms are deffenetly casued my hubbie. my toys can never replace the pleasure he gives me .
11/22/2010
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My experience as well. Alone I can take the time but I would never trade overall for sex with a guy!
Originally posted by
Waterfall
They are usually better by myself but the ones I have with my partner are different... if that makes sense lol
11/22/2010
I love by myself but my partner is fantastic... Besides anything I can do by myself she want to do with me in bed too ;-)
11/22/2010
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I could def agree to that.
Originally posted by
mjonah
I love by myself but my partner is fantastic... Besides anything I can do by myself she want to do with me in bed too ;-)
11/22/2010
Definitely better (and are actually guaranteed!) with myself. Who knows my body better than me? And I have had lots of practice ...
Although I agree with that psychology stat - I would rather have sex with a partner than orgasm alone.
Sex with a partner AND orgasm - brilliant (if elusive).
Although I agree with that psychology stat - I would rather have sex with a partner than orgasm alone.
Sex with a partner AND orgasm - brilliant (if elusive).
11/22/2010
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Couldn't agree more!
Originally posted by
crushemall
Definitely better (and are actually guaranteed!) with myself. Who knows my body better than me? And I have had lots of practice ...
Although I agree with that psychology stat - I would rather have sex with a partner than orgasm alone. ... more
Although I agree with that psychology stat - I would rather have sex with a partner than orgasm alone. ... more
Definitely better (and are actually guaranteed!) with myself. Who knows my body better than me? And I have had lots of practice ...
Although I agree with that psychology stat - I would rather have sex with a partner than orgasm alone.
Sex with a partner AND orgasm - brilliant (if elusive). less
Although I agree with that psychology stat - I would rather have sex with a partner than orgasm alone.
Sex with a partner AND orgasm - brilliant (if elusive). less
11/24/2010
Theyre just a little bit better when they're self-induced. Sometimes when I'm with someone else I get anxiety that throws my orgasm off
11/25/2010
I have better orgasms with my partner.
11/26/2010
I cannot give myself the amazing orgasms my man gives me when we make love. I wish, everytime would be amazing on my own. I get pretty good orgasms alone, but I have never been able to give myself an orgasm where I have gone in convulsions like my man gives me.
11/27/2010
Totally with my husband!
12/08/2010
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My hubbys oral is the BEST!!
Originally posted by
Stnjbe1021
I wonder if I'm the only one who has a better orgasm when I pleasure myself...or if maybe I'm just not giving my lover the chance to make me orgasm like I can...hmmm
12/09/2010
Definitely with the wife. The best one's are probably oral.
12/09/2010
I have crappy orgasms by myself - and it's not for lack of trying! The orgasms are weak and fleeting and usually don't do a damn thing to help with my sexual frustrations.
I need penetration - with hips behind it.
Even oral sex doesn't cut it. I CAN have an orgasm that way, but they're never awesome.
I need penetration - with hips behind it.
Even oral sex doesn't cut it. I CAN have an orgasm that way, but they're never awesome.
12/09/2010
I'm voting based upon my last partner, since I'm currently unattached. He was an extremely attentive lover and play time would last for 2 hours on average. I can't go that long by myself.
I think I missed him mostly because I had the best romps with him
I think I missed him mostly because I had the best romps with him
12/11/2010
I think they're just different types of orgasms. But in general, I'd say I like the ones I give myself better. I also have no trouble whatsoever giving myself multiple orgasms, but I find it near-impossible to do so with a partner.
12/19/2010
they are better by myself. I hope that will change someday though
12/19/2010
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Don't loose hope - there are few if any guys at your age that have a clue about how to make you feel great. But if you choose wisely, your luck should change. Someone who is curious and who doesn't think they know it all, are in a better position to learn what it takes.
Originally posted by
Epicurean
I think they're just different types of orgasms. But in general, I'd say I like the ones I give myself better. I also have no trouble whatsoever giving myself multiple orgasms, but I find it near-impossible to do so with a partner.
Some people wonder why women are attracted to older men - aside from being more financially stable - I'd say this plays a big part.
Lets say you have sex with a virile young stud - looks great but for him it's all about 'get'n it done'. You end up ravished but unsatisfied. Then the next weekend you go out with a guy 5-10 years older who knows how to take his time, bring you to full arousal - then knocks you over with a couple of body quaking orgasms.
The third week you have an offer from each for a follow up date. Do you go for the younger eye candy - or the guaranteed satisfaction?
You choose?!
12/19/2010
Always better with my wife
12/19/2010