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#Workshop - October 26th: "Influences and Goals"

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Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Beck
I'm just popping in to say hello all.
Howdy!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Hello Beck!!!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by oldhippy
Thanks, Sam. I'm not sure that will come about for a while.
Take your time on it, seriously. We love that people are willing to do the videos, but I don't want anybody feeling like they're being forced into it too soon
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Beck
I'm just popping in to say hello all.
hey beck, how goes it?
10/26/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Beck
I'm just popping in to say hello all.
Hey pretty lady!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
amen sister.
Have you guys seen those videos where the stack food on animals. Like bananas around a chimp and treats on a dog. They seriously crack me up. They are from a japanese tv show. So so funny.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
ha!

I remember that one video you put a phone number in. I had to call it to check it out...I still get strange texts on my tracphone!
lmao 1-800-FOOK-ME
10/26/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
yep - been married 31 years now - just added toys a month ago and WOW.
That's like us, been together for 22 years and the wife's first sex toy (Other than a cock strap) was one I got for review from here a year ago.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
hey beck, how goes it?
Good, hubby took me out to dinner tonight. Went out for Mexican, it was awesome.

How about you?
10/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Beck
I'm just popping in to say hello all.
Heya!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Beck
I'm just popping in to say hello all.
Hiya!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Thanks for the lead in, H&S Momma:

Have your significant others helped you with your reviews willingly?

How about the single folks, how have you brought this up to new people?
My husband is awesome. After we're done trying out new toys (he tends to handle them more - long story) - he will sit down with me and go over the features he noticed of each one - what he noticed as far as how it reacted to my body shape - how I maybe needed more length on an item - or there was one that I pulled in so much that he said cleaning the button would be hard.

I guess I'm a size queen.

He loves it when I get new "toys" for us to play with.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Thanks for the lead in, H&S Momma:

Have your significant others helped you with your reviews willingly?

How about the single folks, how have you brought this up to new people?
Yes! My husband is always willing to try out just about anything I get. It's gotten him more interested in anal play on himself too, which I think is great. He's been slow to get into it, but I bought him a few toys that I know he's used a few times on his own.
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
my first 2 orders were $100 worth of ALOT of stuff. i remember opening them at my boyfriend's house and the look on his face. he's pretty straight-laced and shy to boot.

he told me a few months later in the middle of an argument that he secretly thought i was NUTS when i busted out all that shit... like 'who is this chick?'

but now he encourages me and will try out just about anything at least once.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Hey pretty lady!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
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Originally posted by Antipova
Hiya!
Congrats on your win!
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Have you guys seen those videos where the stack food on animals. Like bananas around a chimp and treats on a dog. They seriously crack me up. They are from a japanese tv show. So so funny.
you mean like this?

10/26/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
Have you guys seen those videos where the stack food on animals. Like bananas around a chimp and treats on a dog. They seriously crack me up. They are from a japanese tv show. So so funny.
Japanese tv shows come up with some pretty cooky stuff. My dad recently emailed me a "hidden camera" type show... where they put an emu in the men's room!

Somehow this emu was perfect at craning over people's shoulders at the urinal... hilarious. I would never have thought of it.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
My husband is awesome. After we're done trying out new toys (he tends to handle them more - long story) - he will sit down with me and go over the features he noticed of each one - what he noticed as far as how it reacted to my body shape - how ... more
My daughter (27 years old)and I also talk about stuff a lot and she's on here too under her own account.

When she checked the mail the other day for my package (7 vibes to try) - she came in with the box behind her back and said, "Nope. No mail..I'm going to my room now for several hours. See ya later."

We laughed and then went into the bedroom to put batteries in them all and try playing with them against our noses or hands, etc. to see what the motors were like.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Thanks for the lead in, H&S Momma:

Have your significant others helped you with your reviews willingly?

How about the single folks, how have you brought this up to new people?
My wife helps me in terms of testing toys when it can be used with female anatomy. She's also been good about being in my adult videos. It took a little convincing, but after she realized we weren't making porn and that they were artistic (at least I hope they are), she decided to participate more and more. It definitely opens up more options for me in terms of videos.
10/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
My girlfriend got me into toys and lubes about 3 years ago. This is her first review for one.

Starting off learning about toys at the same time has been a great experience for us. I don't think out relationship would've been the same without them!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
my first 2 orders were $100 worth of ALOT of stuff. i remember opening them at my boyfriend's house and the look on his face. he's pretty straight-laced and shy to boot.

he told me a few months later in the middle of an argument that ... more
That is crazy. I think my boyfriend bought me my first vibrator a little over 3 years ago. I forgot why, I think it was because he was working late at the school and didn't want me to be lonely. lol.

Now he tells me what he wants to try. I really need to get something for pegging; weve been talking about a harness for ages. But hes only done plugs so far.
10/26/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Thanks for the lead in, H&S Momma:

Have your significant others helped you with your reviews willingly?

How about the single folks, how have you brought this up to new people?
When we use a toy together she is always willing to give me feed back, as long as I don't ask her as we are using it. With strokers I try and get her to use them all on me so I have that POV since that is the funnest way to use them.
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Antipova
Japanese tv shows come up with some pretty cooky stuff. My dad recently emailed me a "hidden camera" type show... where they put an emu in the men's room!

Somehow this emu was perfect at craning over people's shoulders at the ... more
i saw a tv show about extreme restaurants...

one japanese restaurant had ice cream that looked like poop that was served in a toilet bowl cup.. and everything on the menu had something to do with poop, and looked like it. and people ate it! and loved it!

oh japan...
10/26/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
My daughter (27 years old)and I also talk about stuff a lot and she's on here too under her own account.

When she checked the mail the other day for my package (7 vibes to try) - she came in with the box behind her back and said, ... more
Y'all have to understand though - when I came here - I had no idea at all about most of the terminology. 51 years old and I had no idea what pegging was or...well - most of the other terms that I now blush at.

And threesomes and polyamory were pretty foreign to me too....this place has really opened my eyes.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
you mean like this?

link Like this.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Thanks for the lead in, H&S Momma:

Have your significant others helped you with your reviews willingly?

How about the single folks, how have you brought this up to new people?
My partner's on the shy side, so reviewing's more my thing than his. He's glad to help try out all the new things all the time, though!
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Y'all have to understand though - when I came here - I had no idea at all about most of the terminology. 51 years old and I had no idea what pegging was or...well - most of the other terms that I now blush at.

And threesomes and polyamory ... more
i hAd no idea bout pegging either till EF!
and i'm 25 and very sexually experienced. i mean nothing kinky but have had a few lovers in my day.

i discovered furries here, and the world of BDSM and kink and how prominent it was despite my previous idea of it.

ef's opened me up to all kinds of cool shit.
10/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
link Like this.
oh! I'm LOL'ing something fierce now! Poor dog and bacon!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Y'all have to understand though - when I came here - I had no idea at all about most of the terminology. 51 years old and I had no idea what pegging was or...well - most of the other terms that I now blush at.

And threesomes and polyamory ... more
There's nothing to be embarrassed about. We are all learning new things every day. I've learned about so many things since becoming a part of this community, and not just about sex.
10/26/2011