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#Workshop - October 26th: "Influences and Goals"

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Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i hAd no idea bout pegging either till EF!
and i'm 25 and very sexually experienced. i mean nothing kinky but have had a few lovers in my day.

i discovered furries here, and the world of BDSM and kink and how prominent it was despite my ... more
I'm so grateful to my (former) partner who introduced me to pegging. Our second date I was cliche enough to say "What are you thinking?" when he had a faraway look in his eye... he said "I was wondering if you had a harness. You seem like the kind of chick who's probably pegged a guy."

I had to ask what it was, but I had a harness in the mail before the end of the week
10/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i hAd no idea bout pegging either till EF!
and i'm 25 and very sexually experienced. i mean nothing kinky but have had a few lovers in my day.

i discovered furries here, and the world of BDSM and kink and how prominent it was despite my ... more
I know what you mean!

I was into pegging before I knew what it was called.

Sir, Misha, Owl, and Britney St. Claire have really opened my eyes to more around me. Buck Angel is a great person too!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
Oh hey! My husband is home now, so we're gonna get ready to go to Denny's. I had a great time chatting with all of you tonight!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
oh! I'm LOL'ing something fierce now! Poor dog and bacon!
It cracks me up no matter how many times I see it. There are few of their game shows that really get me going. Like the one where they spank you if you laugh during a video. And the guy is trying to speak english and do the numbers. And he gets to 20 and hes like "10 10" and keeps going. It is soooo funny.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Oh hey! My husband is home now, so we're gonna get ready to go to Denny's. I had a great time chatting with all of you tonight!
Have fun!!!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by Kindred
There's nothing to be embarrassed about. We are all learning new things every day. I've learned about so many things since becoming a part of this community, and not just about sex.
Well...maybe I should explain my prior sexual experience this way.

I was 18 when I met my husband and we started dating. We were sitting at a table with some friends and there were M&M's there on the table. A comment was made about "don't eat the green m&ms cause they make you horny" and I turned and asked him, "What does horny mean?"

Of course as y'all know - I did marry him - my one and only - but what is hard is that my kids know more about sex, sex toys and sex terms than I do.

I thought I was supposed to teach them about sex - not vice versa!
10/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Oh hey! My husband is home now, so we're gonna get ready to go to Denny's. I had a great time chatting with all of you tonight!
Get the Rooty Tooty Fresh and Fruity for me!
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Oh hey! My husband is home now, so we're gonna get ready to go to Denny's. I had a great time chatting with all of you tonight!
ooh dennys. eat some pancakes and sausage links for me! ET fingers! ET phone home!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
It cracks me up no matter how many times I see it. There are few of their game shows that really get me going. Like the one where they spank you if you laugh during a video. And the guy is trying to speak english and do the numbers. And he gets to 20 ... more
Wow! What a patient dog, this is hilarious!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Antipova
Wow! What a patient dog, this is hilarious!
Aaah! He's not done yet!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Oh hey! My husband is home now, so we're gonna get ready to go to Denny's. I had a great time chatting with all of you tonight!
Night Sam!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Oooh....Denny's. We once were going into one and my husband reads the sign, "No Shirt, No Shoes, No Service" and said, "Shit - tonight they're out of everything!"
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
link This video makes me cry laughing every time I see it.
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
sam mentioned dennys and suddenly the breakfast hot pocket in the microwave for my lunch here at the office became less appealing...
10/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
Ok, one more question:

What are your goals for the review program? Are there products you're looking forward to review? Is there a certain number of products you're looking to have reviewed by the end of the year? A type of product you haven't reviewed yet, but would like to?
10/26/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Whoop, I've got duck out in a couple of minutes. This has been a really fun workshop, though! I've gotten a lot of great ideas.
10/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
Oooh....Denny's. We once were going into one and my husband reads the sign, "No Shirt, No Shoes, No Service" and said, "Shit - tonight they're out of everything!"
HA!
10/26/2011
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
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Originally posted by Antipova
Whoop, I've got duck out in a couple of minutes. This has been a really fun workshop, though! I've gotten a lot of great ideas.
YAY! Great ideas!
10/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Antipova
Whoop, I've got duck out in a couple of minutes. This has been a really fun workshop, though! I've gotten a lot of great ideas.
Night!
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Ok, one more question:

What are your goals for the review program? Are there products you're looking forward to review? Is there a certain number of products you're looking to have reviewed by the end of the year? A type of product you ... more
i'd like to hit 100 but since i'm only at like 40 that wont happen before the end of the year. i wanna do more vid reviews because they're so fun.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Ok, one more question:

What are your goals for the review program? Are there products you're looking forward to review? Is there a certain number of products you're looking to have reviewed by the end of the year? A type of product you ... more
I want to try each type of toy at least once. I can't wait to finally get liberator gear. I hope to at least hit 25 by the end of the year. And too many to list.
10/26/2011
Contributor: ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Oh hey! My husband is home now, so we're gonna get ready to go to Denny's. I had a great time chatting with all of you tonight!
Night Sam, take care.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Ok, one more question:

What are your goals for the review program? Are there products you're looking forward to review? Is there a certain number of products you're looking to have reviewed by the end of the year? A type of product you ... more
I so wanna make the 100 club. I'm 5% of the way there and I'm sitting here with 9 reviews to do for products we bought or I did a buy-out of.

I'd like to get to be a good enough reviewer where I'd get higher priced products offered to me (dying for the Jopen but don't have the $$ for it - or so many of the others).

I'd like to make 50 by the end of the year if I can earn enough gift cards with my writing for EdenCafe, EdenLit Blog, etc. - plus I just came up with a 5 part erotica story idea that I'm not sure where I'd publish it..but would like to do that.

I mainly do vibrators because the Vixskins scare me - I want one so badly but not sure if a dildo will do as much for me as a vibrator.

I would also love some LARGE LARGE LARGE women's lingerie - but I'm scared that I'd have to take pictures of myself in it.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Starkiller87 Starkiller87
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Originally posted by Starkiller87
I want to try each type of toy at least once. I can't wait to finally get liberator gear. I hope to at least hit 25 by the end of the year. And too many to list.
And I am aiming pretty low in review numbers. I hope I get more done but that is my minimum. I get busy sometimes.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
Ok, one more question:

What are your goals for the review program? Are there products you're looking forward to review? Is there a certain number of products you're looking to have reviewed by the end of the year? A type of product you ... more
I really want to work my way up to using and reviewing the Cowboy (but it'll take some TIME!)

I also want to try out some new harnesses now that my current partner's hopped on board---I just picked a very basic (nice, lifetime-lasting, but very basic) harness the first time, and now I want a pretty Aslan one and a sassy Outlaw one...


I want to learn about lingerie too, and I think reviewing's going to help me a lot with that. Keep your eyes peeled for a lingerie review from me in the next couple days, I'm going to need lots of feedback I expect...
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
ok on a COMPLETE side note... my coworker just walked out of the room and the RELIEF in the silence is immense.

stuck with this kid 30 hrs a week in the office, just me, her, and her endlessly working mouth.

yap yap yap yap yap yap yap! and none of it is even REMOTELY interesting. okay, she has her rare moments but sometimes she's even quite rude.

do any of you all have advice for this sort of sitch? or have you ever had to deal with it? this girl drives me nuts. cant wait till we can work out of the home.. but that will be a couple months until it's in place....
10/26/2011
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
Ok, one more question:

What are your goals for the review program? Are there products you're looking forward to review? Is there a certain number of products you're looking to have reviewed by the end of the year? A type of product you ... more
I don't ave any personal goal in terms of reviewing. I cut back on how many simply because I realized I couldn't realistically keep up. Now I just try to focus on new items that appeal to me meaning mostly dildos and anal/prostate toys. I guess the one other area I like to try is reviewing items I normally wouldn't use or outside my comfort zone, such as the packing underwear. I like to challenge myself. Those are mostly from assignments.
10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
and to top it off it's always sooo negative. i didnt hate my job til i started working with her.
10/26/2011
Contributor: Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I guess I want to get to the point where I'm asked to do descriptive reviews?

10/26/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Hot 'N Sexy TexasMama
I guess I want to get to the point where I'm asked to do descriptive reviews?

if you've emailed the appropriate person about getting on the list it shouldnt be long! just keep writing great reviews and they'll ask you in no time. it took me about 2-3 wks before i got my first desc. review.
10/26/2011