Nah, it's no big deal.
Do you think you should be upset if your lover watches porn?
02/15/2013
I like porn. I think it can add some kink to the bedroom, I know it gives me ideas that can be expanded upon (haha, unintentional pun, but I like it) However, never been much of a sound girl. I know it may sound strange, but I watch a lot of porn on mute.
02/19/2013
For normal porn I don't see why people would get upset. If it's something you view is wrong or even illegal you might have a problem though.
02/24/2013
It's just entertainment. Even fantasizing is better than cheating.
04/08/2013
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Sometimes porn can be fun. It can be incorporated into a relationship. I don't think that just because my partner watches porn that he doesn't want me anymore. Sometimes porn can just be FUN.
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Anne
Just wondering.
04/08/2013
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No way! He loves porn. That has nothing to do with me.
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
04/09/2013
Not at all. i'd watch it with my wife!
04/09/2013
If it's in excessive amounts, worrisome genres or he prefers it over me, then yes. Otherwise, it's all good.
04/09/2013
Nah. Only if they are open and honest about it.
04/23/2013
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If your partner likes porn, watch it with them!
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
04/23/2013
No but I would prefer that he invite me to watch with him.
05/11/2013
If they hide the fact they are watching then I would be upset. If they choose porn over a real willing person in front of them then I would be upset. I am saying is if it takes away from our relationship then it is wrong.
05/11/2013
I'm a cam girl and I make my own amateur porn, and I've gotten mad at a partner for over indulging in porn secretly. He had a horrible addiction though. He was getting on cam sites trying to get girls to do things for free and telling them he'd rather have them than me. I think that is what got me the most mad.
It was the secrets and the fact that he would go to my turf and tell these girls he'd rather have them.
It was the secrets and the fact that he would go to my turf and tell these girls he'd rather have them.
05/29/2013
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Sometimes I think porn can help a couple's sex life... You can get a lot of different ideas on new things to try
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
05/29/2013
No, that's ridiculous!
05/29/2013
i only got mad when he hid it, if he would just let me know, i would watch it with him! lol
05/29/2013
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I think if it's killing your sex lives than yea I would be but if it's just a passive thing, no big deal.
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
05/29/2013
not really. Seems a pretty normal thing to me.
05/29/2013
as long as the person doesnt become desensitized and has to get crazy to get off because of it I don't care. Also I'd rather not take a back seat to it either.
05/29/2013
I don't care if he watches porn, a lot of people do. Some stuff out there shouldn't exist but it does...that is the only time I would be upset.
05/29/2013
Generally speaking no, but certain types of porn would make me uneasy. For example, a supposedly homophobic bf watching gay male porn would raise a red flag, as a man with anger issues watching porn involving women being forced to perform sexual acts. I'm fine with fantasy, but I would need to know that it was just that, and nothing more in cases like that.
05/29/2013
Augustxsins
No, not at all. I watch porn when I feel like it; he can watch porn when he feels like it, too. I'm not the type to get jealous over porn (unless, of course, it were of someone we knew - then, there would be problems).
We watch porn together sometimes, but honestly it's a mostly solo activity for us. And I'm completely ok with that.
We watch porn together sometimes, but honestly it's a mostly solo activity for us. And I'm completely ok with that.
05/29/2013
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not at all. i would actually be pleased if i watched it with them
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
06/04/2013
Not unless they are hiding it or it is a definite interference with the relationships romance
06/16/2013
I think it is crazy to be upset about something like that. If anything watch it together.
07/09/2013