Porn is a great way to get ideas for playtime, especially if you're both watching together
Do you think you should be upset if your lover watches porn?
07/25/2012
I think it depends on if its all the time or once and a while, if it's being hidden, or if they are doing that and nothing with you.
07/25/2012
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nope! its ok to look at the menu, just don't order anything
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
07/25/2012
I usually don't have a problem with porn at all. We watch it together and we watch it separately. However, I have gotten upset with my fiance for watching live web cams. To me, it's very different to watch a girl live performing specifically for his pleasure than to watch recorded mainstream porn.
08/06/2012
I watch porn more then my hubby does. I don't have any issues with him watching porn
08/07/2012
I only like it if he watches with me. But, my husband isn't really that in to porn. So he generally doesn't want to watch it at all.
09/21/2012
Not at all. i'd watch it with him!
11/08/2012
Nope
11/08/2012
Not into controlling my partner's personal decisions about what he wants to look at...besides, I don't compare myself to porn stars or my sex life to pornography. My relationship to him is totally separate from that. Porn gives good ideas in the bedroom, anyway, and I watch it myself. I'll watch it with him.
If it was an addiction, that would be different. But I'd be concerned about his happiness and well being, not upset because he's a guy and he likes to look at sexy images.
If it was an addiction, that would be different. But I'd be concerned about his happiness and well being, not upset because he's a guy and he likes to look at sexy images.
11/08/2012
It depends.
11/09/2012
Definitely not, I'd be a little pissed if they were hiding it (to me, it's nothing shameful!), but if they told me or I caught them, I'd have no problem at all. No harm in a little porn.
11/09/2012
No, I'd be turned on
11/09/2012
I Don't Think Porn Is A Problem, Unless He's Watching It Instead Of Playing With Me! Then I May Be Mad. xD
11/09/2012
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I think that it is natural and everyone has watched porn.
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
11/09/2012
no we watch it together unless he is just lying about it
11/18/2012
No. This has never bothered me.
11/18/2012
No issues with porn here!
11/18/2012
nope
11/18/2012
Hell, I'm pleased if my partner watches porn and masturbates particularly if/when it increases that partner's desire for sex with me.
11/18/2012
All my gf didnt care if I watched porn
11/18/2012
I would not.....since I do it when I'm alone!
11/18/2012
There's no reason to be upset.
11/19/2012
I'd be upset if he doesn't share it with me, or hides it or uses it as a replace to me. Otherwise I wouldn't be upset at all.
11/30/2012
It wouldn't bother me at all
12/07/2012
Not at all.
02/11/2013
I think I would be a little bothered by it, simply because I would feel like I would do my best to arouse him without it and I would feel like I'm not good enough or pretty enough to get him aroused.
02/15/2013
No, because we always watch it together.
02/15/2013
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I agree, Nirelan.
Originally posted by
Nirelan
idc what he watches.....as long as its not a recorded porn by someone we know...its all good
02/15/2013
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Nah. As long as it's not child pornography or anything like that.
Originally posted by
Anne
Just wondering.
02/15/2013
Lol. No. Not at all. Unless they're hiding it from you, then that would be a problem. I won't settle for being lied to.
02/15/2013