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Contributor: Courtney Trouble Courtney Trouble
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Originally posted by SaMiKaY
I am a size 18. I've only cammed for boy/girlfriends and never did full body shots. 20 years of hearing how ugly and fat I am took it's toll. *sigh* I'm working on it though!
can i tell you what i did to get really cozy with my fat body? i took photos of it, self portriats, like, every day for a year. eventually the stuff that stuck out and really bothered me, blended in, and i got to see the good stuff. you jsut have to find a way to oversaturate yourself with images of your own body - nobody else has to see them 0 and eventually the stuff you dont like just starts to feel normal, and then, sexy!
02/01/2012
Contributor: M121212 M121212
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Originally posted by Destri
Variety, yes... but also the welcoming feeling one gets when they go there. It doesn't make you feel as if all the site wants is your money and doesn't give a fig what you really want. This site has a warm feeling to it right off the bat.
Yes. I think that I'd choose the inclusivity of the site. It would be wonderful to see that transferred to other porn purveyors. The artistic quality comes in at a close second.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Tuesday Tuesday
An answer to Emma's question: I would transfer the option of wonderful photo sets. I found them to be very erotic. More so than the videos even.
02/01/2012
Contributor: SaMiKaY SaMiKaY
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
can i tell you what i did to get really cozy with my fat body? i took photos of it, self portriats, like, every day for a year. eventually the stuff that stuck out and really bothered me, blended in, and i got to see the good stuff. you jsut have to ... more
Thanks for the tip. I'll try that. =)
02/01/2012
Contributor: Courtney Trouble Courtney Trouble
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Originally posted by SaMiKaY
I am a size 18. I've only cammed for boy/girlfriends and never did full body shots. 20 years of hearing how ugly and fat I am took it's toll. *sigh* I'm working on it though!
also, if i can say one more thing.... you dont need anybody to tell you how sexy you are. the best thing in the world is to feel it YOURSELF, and that, in turns, makes you so fucking sexy to other people.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Courtney Trouble Courtney Trouble
Quote:
Originally posted by Destri
Variety, yes... but also the welcoming feeling one gets when they go there. It doesn't make you feel as if all the site wants is your money and doesn't give a fig what you really want. This site has a warm feeling to it right off the bat.
I am REALLY happy to hear that people like the warmth of the site and the design and layout and attitude. I redesigned the site when I found out that 50 of you would be reviewing it and afraid that I missed a lot of little bugs before my time to get reviewed was up. But I"m excited to hear that the idea of this warm welcoming place is working!!!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
also, if i can say one more thing.... you dont need anybody to tell you how sexy you are. the best thing in the world is to feel it YOURSELF, and that, in turns, makes you so fucking sexy to other people.
So true. I have been told by many that I ooze confidence and it is such a sexy trait.
02/01/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
also, if i can say one more thing.... you dont need anybody to tell you how sexy you are. the best thing in the world is to feel it YOURSELF, and that, in turns, makes you so fucking sexy to other people.
This!!

I have realized that I feel sexier when I am happy. My hubby even says so. So I work on being happy as much as possible..
02/01/2012
Contributor: M121212 M121212
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
I am REALLY happy to hear that people like the warmth of the site and the design and layout and attitude. I redesigned the site when I found out that 50 of you would be reviewing it and afraid that I missed a lot of little bugs before my time to get ... more
You did? Aww..
02/01/2012
Contributor: Courtney Trouble Courtney Trouble
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Originally posted by Tuesday
The photos and videos are really excellent. The one thing I would change though is to create categories or tags for the videos so it's easier to find the type of video you're looking for.
everything is being tagged as we speak. i'm anti-category as a whole, however, the search form should work for simple things like :masturbation" "Strap on" "trans" "fisting" "squirting" etc
02/01/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
I am REALLY happy to hear that people like the warmth of the site and the design and layout and attitude. I redesigned the site when I found out that 50 of you would be reviewing it and afraid that I missed a lot of little bugs before my time to get ... more
Oh that's good to know. I haven't written my review yet but I have to admit I was getting down a bit from all of the bugs and broken links. I have a hard time liking sites that are not user friendly.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Midway through Midway through
Sadly I have to go get dinner, so I'll have to wrap up and leave early. It was an absolute pleasure talking with you Courtney and thank you for answering the many (and probably not always intelligent) questions I've had. You truly are an exceptional person.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
Courtney,

Do you find that the people you film ever communicate a desire to have something specific (emotion/atmosphere/st ye/etc) come across while they are doing their scenes?
02/01/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
everything is being tagged as we speak. i'm anti-category as a whole, however, the search form should work for simple things like :masturbation" "Strap on" "trans" "fisting" "squirting" etc
One of I had the issues I had with the site were load times on some of the videos.. Also when using the search, I had trouble getting what I wanted to look at show up. I ended up browsing mostly which was a good way to see everything that you had to offer.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Courtney Trouble Courtney Trouble
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Originally posted by M121212
You did? Aww..
Yep. You were worth it! I really wanted to bring the site out into the public, as before the members area was really tucked away. You couldn't see what was on the site from the public side. So I really wanted to make sure the menus were availible to everyone!
02/01/2012
Contributor: M121212 M121212
Quote:
Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
can i tell you what i did to get really cozy with my fat body? i took photos of it, self portriats, like, every day for a year. eventually the stuff that stuck out and really bothered me, blended in, and i got to see the good stuff. you jsut have to ... more
I am gonna keep this in mind. Thank you.

Hey y'all, the time has come for me to hit the road. I have enjoyed this discussion HEAPS. It was so nice to connect with you all about all these genderqueer gorgeous sexy experiences.

Thank you for coming, Courtney, and thanks to Emma for making this happen!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Well, Folks, I need to go. Courtney, thank you for sharing your time, your site and your movies with us. This was the best Porn Club yet. I hope you all have a wonderful and playful night.
02/01/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by M121212
I am gonna keep this in mind. Thank you.

Hey y'all, the time has come for me to hit the road. I have enjoyed this discussion HEAPS. It was so nice to connect with you all about all these genderqueer gorgeous sexy experiences.

Thank ... more
G'night!
02/01/2012
Contributor: M121212 M121212
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
Yep. You were worth it! I really wanted to bring the site out into the public, as before the members area was really tucked away. You couldn't see what was on the site from the public side. So I really wanted to make sure the menus were ... more
Aw cool, yea. I did really appreciate how you could check out the site as a visitor and get a taste for what lies inside. You know, to suss out if it's your cup of tea.
02/01/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Midway through
Sadly I have to go get dinner, so I'll have to wrap up and leave early. It was an absolute pleasure talking with you Courtney and thank you for answering the many (and probably not always intelligent) questions I've had. You truly are an ... more
night!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Courtney Trouble Courtney Trouble
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Originally posted by Kindred
Oh that's good to know. I haven't written my review yet but I have to admit I was getting down a bit from all of the bugs and broken links. I have a hard time liking sites that are not user friendly.
if you can email me a list of the bugs you found, i will happily give you a membership as a thank you for doing that investigative work for me courtneytrouble @ gmail
02/01/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Well, Folks, I need to go. Courtney, thank you for sharing your time, your site and your movies with us. This was the best Porn Club yet. I hope you all have a wonderful and playful night.
See ya!!
02/01/2012
Contributor: M121212 M121212
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Originally posted by Midway through
Sadly I have to go get dinner, so I'll have to wrap up and leave early. It was an absolute pleasure talking with you Courtney and thank you for answering the many (and probably not always intelligent) questions I've had. You truly are an ... more
Bon apetit!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by M121212
I am gonna keep this in mind. Thank you.

Hey y'all, the time has come for me to hit the road. I have enjoyed this discussion HEAPS. It was so nice to connect with you all about all these genderqueer gorgeous sexy experiences.

Thank ... more
Night!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Mr. & Mrs. Peg
Well, Folks, I need to go. Courtney, thank you for sharing your time, your site and your movies with us. This was the best Porn Club yet. I hope you all have a wonderful and playful night.
Thanks for joining us!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Sapphire Pet Sapphire Pet
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Originally posted by M121212
Bon apetit!
It's cheesy fries with bacon and ranch dressing! Cause she lovvvveeessss me!
02/01/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
I didn't get a chance to view all of the videos, so I apologize if I missed any, but have you considered "performance" pieces? I appreciate that they have a more artistic quality, but I was thinking more along the lines of what April Flores an the Matador did? I'm not sure it was intentional, but I felt like that was a performance piece with a story. Something that explores a more artistic aspect?
02/01/2012
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
Oh Courtney, I don't know if you got any of my emails, I have been having issues with my email lately, not getting through. But, I joined as an affiliate for your site and was just hoping for some more info on that. Thanks! willow at awomanandherwand dot com
02/01/2012
Contributor: Kindred Kindred
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
if you can email me a list of the bugs you found, i will happily give you a membership as a thank you for doing that investigative work for me courtneytrouble @ gmail
I would be happy to email you a list.
02/01/2012
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
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Originally posted by Courtney Trouble
if you can email me a list of the bugs you found, i will happily give you a membership as a thank you for doing that investigative work for me courtneytrouble @ gmail
Whoa Kindred. You win!
02/01/2012