The New Intimacy

Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: Best Bondage Erotica 2012, edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel (Thursday, March 15th, 2012 @ 8pm ET)

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Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Top Kat
I have had kind of a long day, so it's fun to hang out with everyone here!
Well I'm glad you could make it. It is fun and helps get your mind off the day, and on sex! lol
03/15/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Totally... also, GoodReads has some good discussion groups of that sort (kindle smut for one). Perhaps anyone on the site could add each other and we could start a dirty book club there?
I'm not a member there, but PM me some details if'fn you like!
03/15/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
What I really like about this book is that the dominant were not plain mean or disrespectful to their subs. I remember a few erotica stories on dominance where respect felt forgotten.
For some, that's part of the draw.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by wrmbreze
A tad off the subject... Inorite...when I first saw this word, I thought
e no ree tay, wonder what that means... I guess I was tired, it took my hubs looking at it before I knew what it was..I thought it was another language..
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Michele was telling me about it. She said it was more BD than SM. She said that she and Alan thought this was the best book they've read yet.
I'm more turned on by BD than SM, and it was just the perfect mix for me. One of the best books by Cleis I've read so far.
03/15/2012
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
I'm more turned on by BD than SM, and it was just the perfect mix for me. One of the best books by Cleis I've read so far.
Same here
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
For some, that's part of the draw.
I know, but for me, it's a turn off, so I'd be glad when those parts were over.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Top Kat
I think some really love it. A woman who values herself and demands respect.
Personally, there's something about a submissive man that's a huge turn-off to me but a bi or lesbian Domme is a huge turn-on to me. Idk, maybe it's all the creepy CBT devices (in general) or just the fact that, as a submissive, I want men to be strong, powerful, in control, etc. I know that many powerful men, just like many powerful women, are submissive at home but I always kind of wanna be like "man up, ffs!" to the sub guys. I know that's horrid but I can't change a purely emotional reaction. Well, I can, but not w/o yrs and yrs of therapy.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by specialKandL
I need of list of everyone's must-read books!
We should all post a top 10 list or something!
03/15/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Personally, there's something about a submissive man that's a huge turn-off to me but a bi or lesbian Domme is a huge turn-on to me. Idk, maybe it's all the creepy CBT devices (in general) or just the fact that, as a submissive, I want ... more
I personally LOVE a take charge guy, its a real turn-on.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
Finally here! Hello, everyone!
03/15/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
We should all post a top 10 list or something!
Mine tends to change, or get added to every time I get Cleis Press book. They do erotica well!
03/15/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Personally, there's something about a submissive man that's a huge turn-off to me but a bi or lesbian Domme is a huge turn-on to me. Idk, maybe it's all the creepy CBT devices (in general) or just the fact that, as a submissive, I want ... more
Were there any stories with CBT in this book? That's one thing that has just ... never really looked that sexy to me. Not really a turn-off, but more like puzzlement or 'what's hot about that, exactly?' I'd like to read a story that explained some of the thoughts behind it.
03/15/2012
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Sir
Finally here! Hello, everyone!
Hi!
03/15/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Sir
Finally here! Hello, everyone!
Hello, Sir!
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Kake aka PoeticErotica
Personally, there's something about a submissive man that's a huge turn-off to me but a bi or lesbian Domme is a huge turn-on to me. Idk, maybe it's all the creepy CBT devices (in general) or just the fact that, as a submissive, I want ... more
I can understand that, but for me, what I find sexy in a male sub is that he actually went against that image and submitted in order to please and get pleased as well. Be able to accept that's the mean to a great sex activity. Anything where people go all the way and assume what they want and do it, is sexy.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Sir
Finally here! Hello, everyone!
Hi! How's it going? Glad you could make it
03/15/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Hi! How's it going? Glad you could make it
Very good, Rayne, thank you!
03/15/2012
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Sir
Finally here! Hello, everyone!
Hi Sir! How are you? Long time no talk.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Antipova
Were there any stories with CBT in this book? That's one thing that has just ... never really looked that sexy to me. Not really a turn-off, but more like puzzlement or 'what's hot about that, exactly?' I'd like to read a story ... more
I remember a mention of a cock cage in one of the stories, but only because it was with a couple seen at the BDSM club.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by wrmbreze
A tad off the subject... Inorite...when I first saw this word, I thought
e no ree tay, wonder what that means... I guess I was tired, it took my hubs looking at it before I knew what it was..I thought it was another language..
it took me ages to figure it out too. i even had a friend who had a webstore called "Inorite" and I still didn't get it for months. <-- closest i could find to an eyeroll, lol.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Hi Sir! How are you? Long time no talk.
Good, good. It has been a while, how have you been?
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Sir
Finally here! Hello, everyone!
Welcome, Sir. It seems that we get you only on those special bondage book nights.
03/15/2012
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Michele was telling me about it. She said it was more BD than SM. She said that she and Alan thought this was the best book they've read yet.
Yep, I think that's a fair assessment.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Antipova
I'm not a member there, but PM me some details if'fn you like!
will do!
03/15/2012
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
Brenda and Kat,

The success of Fifty Shades of Gray... has that helped to increase your business, or do you think it will?
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
For some, that's part of the draw.
Precisely!
03/15/2012
Contributor: tim1724 tim1724
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Originally posted by Antipova
Were there any stories with CBT in this book? That's one thing that has just ... never really looked that sexy to me. Not really a turn-off, but more like puzzlement or 'what's hot about that, exactly?' I'd like to read a story ... more
I don't recall any. Really not my thing, either.
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Sir
Finally here! Hello, everyone!
Hey there, Sir!
03/15/2012
Contributor: Kake aka PoeticErotica Kake aka PoeticErotica
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Originally posted by Antipova
Were there any stories with CBT in this book? That's one thing that has just ... never really looked that sexy to me. Not really a turn-off, but more like puzzlement or 'what's hot about that, exactly?' I'd like to read a story ... more
No, I was just explaining more my general emotional reaction and the reasonings behind it. Sorry to confuse.
03/15/2012