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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Power of WOW A Guide to Unleashing the Confident, Sexy You by Lori Bryant-Woolridge (November 8, 8-10 PM EST)

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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Discreet Lover
I feel sexy when my hair is freshly done or whenever I wear a new outfit.
Ooh this, too!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
So, gently off topic..:

I'm one of those people who has a really hard time accepting compliments. I'm able to see, appreciate, and mention good qualities in others, but it's hard for me not to analyze the motives of anyone who's giving me a compliment.

You mention this briefly in the Power of Wow---but do you have any pointed tips for getting it to sink in, for me?
11/08/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
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Originally posted by winterseve
Hot but homey - Alyson Hannigan. She is a real woman who screams sexy to me. She seems very comfortable with herself which makes her all the sexier.
OMG ITA! She is SOOOO sexy! I have loved her since Buffy! Hubby calls me Willow cause he says I remind him of her, lol.
11/08/2011
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Willow Wand
I would LOVE to have a corset. Rocky Horror is like my FAVORITE movie and I drool every time I see Tim Curry in a corset. I want one! BUT what makes me feel sexy is when I'm in bed with hubby and he touches me GENTLY. Normally he paws at me and I ... more
I thought I was the only one who wanted a corset really bad. I think that is gonna be my present for next birthday.
11/08/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Sammi
When my husband looks at me - he gets that look in his eyes, and even if I didn't before I feel sexy when he's watching me, whatever I'm doing.
I think that's awesome!
11/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Willow Wand
I would LOVE to have a corset. Rocky Horror is like my FAVORITE movie and I drool every time I see Tim Curry in a corset. I want one! BUT what makes me feel sexy is when I'm in bed with hubby and he touches me GENTLY. Normally he paws at me and I ... more
ooh me too, same way. get a corset doll! they're fairly priced on here, and with some EF points you can get one free.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Front Page Freebies Front Page Freebies
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Originally posted by Willow Wand
HAHA, I KNEW we could drag you over here!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Brendada Brendada
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Originally posted by Antipova
I'm actually really hard-up for role models in the real world... I'm pretty clueless about celebrities, and most academics I only know of though pretty technical writing which doesn't give away much about personality.
What a great question, Top Kat! Helen Mirren rules. In the non real life, I kinda of like Lizbet, the girl who kicked the hornet's nest
11/08/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Brendada
did you guys read the news bit circulating around about the Victoria's Secret preshow diet? made me really sad...
No, I never heard about it until you just mentioned it now.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Front Page Freebies Front Page Freebies
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Originally posted by Willow Wand
HAHA, I KNEW we could drag you over here!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Brendada Brendada
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Originally posted by removedacnt
I think that's awesome!
I say congrats on that!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Lori Bryant Woolridge Lori Bryant Woolridge
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Originally posted by Top Kat
What is your favorite self-indulgence? Mine is creamy sweets like pudding or custard.
Mine is jewelry because it's natural, artistic, individual in expression, and is a tangible expression of love, whether it's given, self-bought and/or pass along.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Sacchi
One part that impressed me was the emphasis on physical exercise--no, don't worry, folks, I'm talking about the kegel series three times a day and the 20-60 minute walk emphasizing awareness on nature, people, and aspects of yourself. These ... more
I really need to do more Kegels, it's like other things, I keep forgetting.

But I can understand how exercise can make you feel more confident, since exercise make you feel happier in general too.
11/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Willow Wand
Could be that as well, I was raped twice. Once at 13 and once at 15. Sex never really was "fun" until I met my husband, but even so, I could do without it.
i know just what you're saying! for me, i've started taking anti depressants and am just starting therapy at a rape crisis counseling center and i'm very hopeful about the future.

you might look into one of those if you feel the need. there may be nothing 'wrong' with you physically. especially for women, alot of sensuality is mental.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Sacchi Sacchi
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i feel you.

for me it's more of a depression/ sexual trauma thing but. i understand! it's hard. i think erotica could help for sure. get your brain in the mood!
Some women find a boost in their sex drive when they get to "cougar" age, so you may have something to look forward to. I certainly went a bit wild at that stage.
11/08/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Willow Wand
Could be that as well, I was raped twice. Once at 13 and once at 15. Sex never really was "fun" until I met my husband, but even so, I could do without it.
I think we do things to make ourselves nonsexual or nonsexy after a terrible trauma like that.
11/08/2011
Contributor: winterseve winterseve
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Originally posted by Brendada
did you guys read the news bit circulating around about the Victoria's Secret preshow diet? made me really sad...
That's horrible. I guess that's why I tend to prefer men that are a bit heavier. They tend to like girls with more meat on their bones, and being a happy you (no matter what size you where) is the most important thing about happiness and feeling sexy to yourself. If a another person, male or female, thinks you look great being a bit heavier that reinforces that confidence. Some of the best confidence boosters are when other women give me the once over :-D
11/08/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
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Originally posted by Front Page Freebies
My friend, that's what I have to say to that.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Top Kat Top Kat
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
All birthdays are important because they are the one day of the year where YOU are the subject of love and celebration! I don't understand folks who hate celebrating themselves. Happy Birthday! Celebrate you!
I love that and it will definitely be a focus for the next one. I have goals for the upcoming year, such as more regular exercise that will boost physical fitness and attitude.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Brendada Brendada
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Originally posted by removedacnt
No, I never heard about it until you just mentioned it now.
egg powder, protein shakes, NO solid food and a minimum of a gallon of water a day. What think?
11/08/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i know just what you're saying! for me, i've started taking anti depressants and am just starting therapy at a rape crisis counseling center and i'm very hopeful about the future.

you might look into one of those if you feel the ... more
Wow, congratulations! I hope that the therapy helps! I hate hearing about how people have been so mistreated
11/08/2011
Contributor: bluekaren bluekaren
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Originally posted by Brendada
did you guys read the news bit circulating around about the Victoria's Secret preshow diet? made me really sad...
that was really sad!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Top Kat Top Kat
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Originally posted by Antipova
I'm actually really hard-up for role models in the real world... I'm pretty clueless about celebrities, and most academics I only know of though pretty technical writing which doesn't give away much about personality.
Doesn't have to be celebrities, just inspiring women.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i know just what you're saying! for me, i've started taking anti depressants and am just starting therapy at a rape crisis counseling center and i'm very hopeful about the future.

you might look into one of those if you feel the ... more
I've never been a "Therapy" kinda gal...well, cept for my website, but that's a whole different kinda therapy, lol. I do not want to be on any meds, and I feel that the first thing they do is push them on you. I feel weird talking face-to-face with people too.
11/08/2011
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Brendada
egg powder, protein shakes, NO solid food and a minimum of a gallon of water a day. What think?
Thats harsh. Precisely why girls have so much issue with weight.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by removedacnt
Congratulations Kynky Kytty! You won our second $25 Edenfantasys gift card of the night. Please email me at Liz @ Edenfantasys.com so I can get that out to you. And please include your ef name so I know who you are. LOL
Oh cool, thanks. I'm still trying to catch up on the discussion. Getting there.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Brusselsbrat Brusselsbrat
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Originally posted by Brendada
egg powder, protein shakes, NO solid food and a minimum of a gallon of water a day. What think?
I could never do that! I feel that is not confidence in your self! And Confidence is the Key to your Life!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Sacchi
Some women find a boost in their sex drive when they get to "cougar" age, so you may have something to look forward to. I certainly went a bit wild at that stage.
Mine didn't just boost, it exploded lol.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Top Kat
Doesn't have to be celebrities, just inspiring women.
...Kinda low in supply in my profession... I really don't interact with non-family females much.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Top Kat Top Kat
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Originally posted by Brusselsbrat
What makes you feel Sexy? I feel sexy when I get on a sexy corset and cute panties!
I feel sexy after a pampering bath.
11/08/2011