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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: The Power of WOW A Guide to Unleashing the Confident, Sexy You by Lori Bryant-Woolridge (November 8, 8-10 PM EST)

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Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Sacchi
I've been falling behind here on helloes and goodbyes! Trying to write too much myself. But I have two more bits from Lori that I really want to post, so here they are before anybody else needs to leave.


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That's so awesome! I can't wait to get my copy in the mail (hopefully on Wednesday)
11/08/2011
Contributor: Sacchi Sacchi
I'll tell you one thing about the Silver Vixen stage; you don't need to worry about tampons versus whatever any more. To tell the truth, I kinda missed it for a while, but no more.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
anybody,man or woman who has to knock someone down so they feel good about themselves isn't worth the second thought it takes to address them. Always keep the power! We need to stop being the moth and start being the flame. I never take it as ... more
I think that's something people forget a lot, there are different "brands of sexy" that some are attracted to and some aren't, and to each his or her own.
11/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
I love my menstrual cup too, I even forget I have my periods.
me too! but be careful with that! be sure to empty it at LEAST once a day and rinse well with hot water or the like. i got a bacterial infection up there for leaving it in recently.
11/08/2011
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Discreet Lover
Im a tampons girl all the way. I haven't used pads in years.
I only use liners now when I need it with the tampons but I still seem to mess up panties and it pisses me off. I got my tubes tied and I still have to have a period. Seems really unfair to me.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Sacchi
I'll tell you one thing about the Silver Vixen stage; you don't need to worry about tampons versus whatever any more. To tell the truth, I kinda missed it for a while, but no more.
grin! I've got a whole lot of Moon Cuppin' to do before I make it there, though...
11/08/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Sacchi
I'll tell you one thing about the Silver Vixen stage; you don't need to worry about tampons versus whatever any more. To tell the truth, I kinda missed it for a while, but no more.
I don't even want to ask what age group that stage is. LOL! I'm too afraid I may be in it.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Lori Bryant Woolridge Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just log on to stilettou.com, hit the chat icon on the upper right hand side, and sign in.

Thanks again so much, everyone. Be charming. Be sexy. Be YOU!
11/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by wrmbreze
Can you feel that it is there. Thats what I hate about both pads and tampons.
no. sometimes you can if it's not in right, like a tampon. it does take a learning curve for some people but once you get the hang of it.. i even masturbate and have sex with it in. no problem.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
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Originally posted by wrmbreze
Can you feel that it is there. Thats what I hate about both pads and tampons.
Not at ALL!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Sacchi Sacchi
It's been great to have Lori here. Thanks, Lori! I hope to try your other books at some point.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
me too! but be careful with that! be sure to empty it at LEAST once a day and rinse well with hot water or the like. i got a bacterial infection up there for leaving it in recently.
Aaack! That seems like a problem! Luckily you can also boil them!
11/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Sacchi
I've been falling behind here on helloes and goodbyes! Trying to write too much myself. But I have two more bits from Lori that I really want to post, so here they are before anybody else needs to leave.


The reaction to it has been ... more
thank you so much for your contributions! you've been a marvelous part of this discussion. and thank you to lori as well. can't wait to read your book. how inspirational.
11/08/2011
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
Thanks for a great chat!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
Thank you, Lori!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
Thanks for joining us tonight, Lori!
11/08/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
Thank you so much for joining us! It was such a pleasure to have you here. I just may stop by your site next week to learn more. I know I'm definitely going to get both of your books.
11/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Ryuson
That's so awesome! I can't wait to get my copy in the mail (hopefully on Wednesday)
same here!
11/08/2011
Contributor: LoveDove LoveDove
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
Thanks for the discussion! It was really interesting.
11/08/2011
Contributor: wrmbreze wrmbreze
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
no. sometimes you can if it's not in right, like a tampon. it does take a learning curve for some people but once you get the hang of it.. i even masturbate and have sex with it in. no problem.
I so have to look into this, SOON!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Discreet Lover Discreet Lover
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
It was great talking to you! Can't wait to finish reading the book. Thanks for coming to talk to us.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Willow Wand Willow Wand
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Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
Thanks so much!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Lori Bryant Woolridge Lori Bryant Woolridge
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
thank you so much for your contributions! you've been a marvelous part of this discussion. and thank you to lori as well. can't wait to read your book. how inspirational.
Thank you!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Ryuson Ryuson
(Review Program Mentor)
Quote:
Originally posted by Lori Bryant Woolridge
Thank you all so much for such a fabulous discussion. Sacchi, you have been a wonderful and accommodating moderator. I invite anyone who'd like to ask more questions to join me during my office hours, Tuesday, Nov. 15 from 8-9:30 PM EST. Just ... more
Thank you so much for coming!
11/08/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
All right! I'm going to head out, everyone, I've got some mentoring to do and maybe I'll get past chapter 9 before my lover makes it home from work.
11/08/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
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Originally posted by Ryuson
Aaack! That seems like a problem! Luckily you can also boil them!
yes. it was my own fault for leaving it in a whole 24 or 36 hrs at a time.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Sacchi Sacchi
This has been one of the most interesting discussions I've seen. I wondered beforehand how it would go--I'd had the impression that most of the regular posters here were sexy, confident women with little need for improvement. It's really good to share our insecurities sometimes, and be more "real" to others and ourselves in a safe space.
11/08/2011
Contributor: removedacnt removedacnt
And before everyone leaves...

Our next meeting will be Tuesday, November 22 at 8pm EST. We will be discussiong the book: Women in Lust edited by Rachel Kramer Bussel.

Thank you Sacchi! Thank you Brendada, Top Kat, Lori, and all our members and new people. It was a wonderful and seriously educational evening.

Feel free to continue talking on here. But I am going to say good night.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by aliceinthehole
me too! but be careful with that! be sure to empty it at LEAST once a day and rinse well with hot water or the like. i got a bacterial infection up there for leaving it in recently.
I know, I usually empty it twice a day. And if I really really forget, it would be once on that day. But I didn't get any infection so far, and I've been using it for 6 years. I'm 28 and I purchased the upgrade version for women over 30, sometimes I do need it or I get leaks, but it's not every time. It's not like we can expect our bodies to change overnight.
11/08/2011
Contributor: Discreet Lover Discreet Lover
I have to say goodnight to everyone. This has been a lot of fun, can't wait for the next meeting in two week!
11/08/2011