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Naked Reader Book Club Discussion: Opening Up and Three-Way Erotic Stories (December 28, 7-11 EST)

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Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Sammi
Last time that happened to us and the power went out, I realized I had no accessible flashlights, and only massage candles to burn.
That could be fun though...
12/28/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
That could be fun though...
It could have been, if no kiddos were home . As it was, I felt guilty burning them with no other use intended.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Sammi
It could have been, if no kiddos were home . As it was, I felt guilty burning them with no other use intended.
Awww. I'd probably feel bad too. I have tons of extra massage candles laying around though. I even have some regular candles here from EF too.
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Sammi
Last time that happened to us and the power went out, I realized I had no accessible flashlights, and only massage candles to burn.
Nice!
12/28/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by Kayla
Awww. I'd probably feel bad too. I have tons of extra massage candles laying around though. I even have some regular candles here from EF too.
I've only got a few. Now, though, I do have regular candles - I stocked up
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
I have never tried a massage candle.
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
When is the next Naked Reader Book Club Discussion?
12/28/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
I have never tried a massage candle.
They're pretty fun
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Sammi
They're pretty fun
Dumb question: I get the massage and candle part but how do they work together?
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
I hate when the power flickers on and off. Ours did the other night twice then we finally lost power. It sucked!
I'm in Virginia and we got a foot of snow-- very unusual for us. A lot of friends have lost power for hours, but we've been lucky. And we have gas heat, so we'll survive if it does go out.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Dumb question: I get the massage and candle part but how do they work together?
When the candle melts, it melts into massage oil. You blow out the candle, then the semi-warm "wax" can be poured onto the skin for a massage.
12/28/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
This is such wonderful advice, Laurel! You need to write your own book!!
heh... just personal experience talking.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Dumb question: I get the massage and candle part but how do they work together?
You light the candle and wait for the wax to melt across the top of the candle. Then you pour it into your hand or on your lover's skin. Begin massage!
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
I'm in Virginia and we got a foot of snow-- very unusual for us. A lot of friends have lost power for hours, but we've been lucky. And we have gas heat, so we'll survive if it does go out.
We have electric and it can suck at times! We've thought about buying a generator, but haven't.
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
You light the candle and wait for the wax to melt across the top of the candle. Then you pour it into your hand or on your lover's skin. Begin massage!
Does it not burn?
12/28/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Does it not burn?
It's not as hot as regular wax, so it's warm, but not burning.
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Kayla
When the candle melts, it melts into massage oil. You blow out the candle, then the semi-warm "wax" can be poured onto the skin for a massage.
Is this sticky?
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Sammi
It's not as hot as regular wax, so it's warm, but not burning.
I may need to buy one and try it. Any recommendations?
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
Is this sticky?
Some are, but most aren't too bad. The BWarm is just amazing. If you want to start somewhere, I highly recommend starting there. I think EF has a buy one, get one half off sale on the BWarm until the 31st. And no, it doesn't burn. It's slightly warm, but not burning. It's actually much more comfortable than regular massage oil.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Sammi Sammi
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
I may need to buy one and try it. Any recommendations?
Of the ones I've tried, I like the Afterglow. I have one of the Lelo ones here too, but I haven't tried it yet.
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Kayla
Some are, but most aren't too bad. The BWarm is just amazing. If you want to start somewhere, I highly recommend starting there. I think EF has a buy one, get one half off sale on the BWarm until the 31st. And no, it doesn't burn. It's ... more
I'll check it out. Thanks.
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Sammi
Of the ones I've tried, I like the Afterglow. I have one of the Lelo ones here too, but I haven't tried it yet.
Thanks. I'll check those out too.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
The BWarm has a little "pouring spout" that cools down the wax even more before it hits the body which is great if you're nervous. With the BWarm, we can actually leave the candle burning while we pour it without any pain, so it burns really cold. (I recommend blowing it out first though.)
12/28/2010
Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by staceejaxxx
When is the next Naked Reader Book Club Discussion?
Mid January.. January 11th!
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by Kayla
The BWarm has a little "pouring spout" that cools down the wax even more before it hits the body which is great if you're nervous. With the BWarm, we can actually leave the candle burning while we pour it without any pain, so it burns ... more
I can't seem to get the hot candle part off my mind. But I will test one out.
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Mid January.. January 11th!
Looking forward to it!
12/28/2010
Contributor: clp clp
I haven't tried the BWarm before... but it sounds like I'd like to!

I have the Afterglow in Pink Lotus. I really love the scent; I keep it close so I can smell it while I computer. I also rub my elbows in it when I feel dry.
I'm pretty sure having afterglow elbows makes me spoiled.
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
Mid January.. January 11th!
Oooh. What books are at that meeting?
12/28/2010
Contributor: staceejaxxx staceejaxxx
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Originally posted by clp
I haven't tried the BWarm before... but it sounds like I'd like to!

I have the Afterglow in Pink Lotus. I really love the scent; I keep it close so I can smell it while I computer. I also rub my elbows in it when I feel dry.
I'm ... more
I am definitely going to try a massage candle!

It's good to be spoiled!
12/28/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Sammi
Last time that happened to us and the power went out, I realized I had no accessible flashlights, and only massage candles to burn.
Ha! Well... hopefully you made the best of the power outage.
12/28/2010