Eden Bloggers – May 26, 2011 at 7pm: Blogger's Club

Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Kayla
I think the biggest thing about wanting to get new visitors is that you need to remember who you're writing for! After all, these people have hundreds of blogs and thousands of websites vying for their attention. Why should they read yours? What ... more
I try to stick to focusing on homeschooling, parenting or autism/disability related stuff on my main blog, I do have random ramble thursday that I host for those random things you want to get out. I am thinking of creating a NSFW one on the adult blog.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Teagan Shepard Teagan Shepard
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Originally posted by Lady Venus
Hi! I'm SO late! LOL I'm trying to quickly catch up. *speed reads*
i had to do some speed reading, too...
05/26/2011
Contributor: Teagan Shepard Teagan Shepard
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Originally posted by Kayla
Yeah. The blog prompts are really helpful, and Wanton Wednesday is definitely some good traffic!
what are the blog prompts you've mentioned? is there a list or something?
05/26/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
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Originally posted by Dusk
Wanton Wednesday is a weekly thing run by Dangerous Lilly (here) which is a photo/erotica sharing each week. Basically, anything you think is sexy or wanton that you share on your blog, and everyone checks out each others. ... more
I've been meaning to participate in Wanton Wednesday.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Donagothika Donagothika
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Originally posted by Dusk
Wanton Wednesday is a weekly thing run by Dangerous Lilly (here) which is a photo/erotica sharing each week. Basically, anything you think is sexy or wanton that you share on your blog, and everyone checks out each others. ... more
Nice! That sounds like a good way to find other bloggers.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
I try to do personal blog about me and what not and try to just have fun with it. I try to shy away from marital & money problems unless its a private pw only post that i only share with certain trusted people because i have recieved alot of ... more
Wow! Was it a company who classified you like that? I don't know if doing adult toy reviews makes you an adult blog though.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
In order to get more followers, you need to get your name out there! After all, how can someone follow you if they don't even know that your website exists? That's right; they can't! A good way to start to get your name out there is through blog round-ups. These are sites that allow you to submit your posts in order to be included on their site in some capacity. They usually either require you to repost a list of links or add their link to your website, so make sure you read what their requirements are before you try to participate!

Here at EdenFantasys, the EdenBloggers forum includes a round-up for all non-review posts that you can submit to. Some any-adult post (review or otherwise) round-ups are AdultBlogHub and e-lust. Other sex toy review round-up sites include Grits Reviews, Real Sex Toy Reviews, and Pleasurists. If you enjoy taking suggestive pictures of yourself for your blog, you might consider submitting to the Wanton Wednesday round-up or the Half-Naked Thursday round-up for publicity. Participating in these round-ups will allow you to get your name out there and start getting involved in the community. If you have a non-sex blog, similar resources exist for most blogging communities.

Once you get your name out there, making blogger friends is definitely a step in the right direction. When you and another blogger become friends, you can list each other on your Blogroll. This allows people of your friend's blog to find YOUR blog and visa versa. Again, this helps with letting readers out there know that your blog exists. Because you can have amazing content, but if there's no one there to read it, then you still don't have any visitors! You have to draw the visitors yourself, but if everything works correctly, they'll stay regular readers because of your amazing content.

What types of round-ups do you submit to and why those?
05/26/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
I like to post my new posts on twitter. That's about it really, and my feed on Fetlife, it is very BDSM oriented. I still have only 25 followers.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Teagan Shepard Teagan Shepard
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Originally posted by Dusk
That sounds great. I don't have any kids, but I'm going to be a Resident Director next year and I'm hoping I can deal with drunk teenagers without any choking. -_-;
good luck w/ that honey! i had THE best RA & RD my freshman year...i had to hide the RA's liquor after she checked my room so the RD could check hers lmbo
05/26/2011
Contributor: Lady Venus Lady Venus
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
sqeee welcome
omg i am trying to type ontop of sam. he wants to sit on my lap so its an adventure
I know what you mean....I have my chihuahua on my lap! LOL
05/26/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
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Originally posted by Kayla
In order to get more followers, you need to get your name out there! After all, how can someone follow you if they don't even know that your website exists? That's right; they can't! A good way to start to get your name out there is ... more
None! Thank you for all the links!
05/26/2011
Contributor: xxpollypocket xxpollypocket
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Originally posted by Kayla
Wow! Was it a company who classified you like that? I don't know if doing adult toy reviews makes you an adult blog though.
it was a site that was similar to like payu2blog. they were really rude talking about how google penalizes adult sites (which they might i'm sure?)
i'm like omg i am 27 year old girl who blogs takes pics and ..review a few adult items..
they made it sound like i was getting naked and writing details or something!!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Teagan Shepard
Mostly my posts are articles from other websites w/ personal thoughts, and a good bit of reviews. Sometimes previews of what I'll be reviewing...I do a few articles here and there, too.
What types of articles? Sounds like a good variety of content though.
05/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kayla
In order to get more followers, you need to get your name out there! After all, how can someone follow you if they don't even know that your website exists? That's right; they can't! A good way to start to get your name out there is ... more
I need to do some research and find other family oriented ones to follow and hang out in.
05/26/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Wondermom
I first went from super long to a shoulder length bob, then since having my son my fibromyalgia and migraines started and it just got shorter and shorter
Well super long to should is a drastic change. Sorry to hear about your Fibromyalgia and migraines sweetie. Again i am glad to hear you saw the dr earlier today.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Teagan Shepard
oh, oh, oh! and i'm fixing to have some giveaways, too. June is bday month at my house, so we're sharing the love!
Giveaways are great! They can definitely bring in some new visitors, but those visitors may not be return visitors as they are just there for the prize.
05/26/2011
Contributor: xxpollypocket xxpollypocket
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Originally posted by Lady Venus
I know what you mean....I have my chihuahua on my lap! LOL
sam doesnt ever sit on my lap. i think he must be having an off day
05/26/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kayla
In order to get more followers, you need to get your name out there! After all, how can someone follow you if they don't even know that your website exists? That's right; they can't! A good way to start to get your name out there is ... more
None, because I suck and have no time to try and get it off the ground, lol. When I have the time to devote to giving people something to keep reading, then I will take the time to get it out there for people to see.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by Teagan Shepard
good luck w/ that honey! i had THE best RA & RD my freshman year...i had to hide the RA's liquor after she checked my room so the RD could check hers lmbo
Haha, oh wow. Yeah my residents and I have a love/hate relationship since I was a pretty strict RA for two years...it's okay, they gotta learn to be responsible eventually XD. Next year will certainly be fun! Apparently I'm going to be in a 24/7 quiet hour dorm.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Lady Venus
I've been meaning to participate in Wanton Wednesday.
Wanton Wednesday has been doing extra-well lately. I keep meaning to take pictures, but I'm lazy about it some times.
05/26/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Dusk
That sounds great. I don't have any kids, but I'm going to be a Resident Director next year and I'm hoping I can deal with drunk teenagers without any choking. -_-;
good luck with the RD job sweetie
05/26/2011
Contributor: xxpollypocket xxpollypocket
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Originally posted by Kayla
Giveaways are great! They can definitely bring in some new visitors, but those visitors may not be return visitors as they are just there for the prize.
yeah believe me i did really good on some giveaways met and retained alot of nice ppl but then..majority of them just want the freebie!
05/26/2011
Contributor: xxpollypocket xxpollypocket
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Originally posted by Kayla
Giveaways are great! They can definitely bring in some new visitors, but those visitors may not be return visitors as they are just there for the prize.
yeah believe me i did really good on some giveaways met and retained alot of nice ppl but then..majority of them just want the freebie!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Tart
I like to post my new posts on twitter. That's about it really, and my feed on Fetlife, it is very BDSM oriented. I still have only 25 followers.
Maybe try getting more involved on Twitter and Fetlife? When you make more friends on social networks, more people will know about your blog too!
05/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
it was a site that was similar to like payu2blog. they were really rude talking about how google penalizes adult sites (which they might i'm sure?)
i'm like omg i am 27 year old girl who blogs takes pics and ..review a few adult ... more
That sucks
05/26/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
Could I do give-aways with Eden toys for my personal blog?
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
it was a site that was similar to like payu2blog. they were really rude talking about how google penalizes adult sites (which they might i'm sure?)
i'm like omg i am 27 year old girl who blogs takes pics and ..review a few adult ... more
Some people like to do those blogs, but yes, I could see how companies could see it. I don't know if Google penalizes it, but maybe some companies don't like to work with a blogger who has any type of adult content?
05/26/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Donagothika
*Eden Newbie Alert*..........What is "Wanton Wednesday" and "The Blog Prompts"?
i didn't know you were a newbie sweetie welcome. Honestly I have never heard of "The Blog Prompts" but I have heard of WW on twitter.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Tart Tart
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Originally posted by Kayla
Maybe try getting more involved on Twitter and Fetlife? When you make more friends on social networks, more people will know about your blog too!
I just don't post much about it. I should do more, just to get my name out there. I'm so bad about that.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by Tart
I like to post my new posts on twitter. That's about it really, and my feed on Fetlife, it is very BDSM oriented. I still have only 25 followers.
You should find me on FetLife! I'm dusk_in_chains.

For my blog, I feel like I've been involved in everything at some point or another! I do Wanton Wednesday, Half-Nekked Thursday, and now TMI Tuesdays every few weeks or so. I'm also a member of Real Sex Toy Reviews and I submit my stuff to Grits Reviews pretty often. I use Pleasurists as well, especially when I'm running a giveaway.

I've found that everything counts and as long as a round-up is sex-positive, I'm all for being involved!
05/26/2011