Eden Bloggers – May 26, 2011 at 7pm: Blogger's Club

Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Dusk
Ooh, that's beautiful.
I know! its my wish, I need to save for that one though, its $60 plus shipping. So I am getting a cheaper one first

05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Dusk
Yeah, it's a tough one. I decided to start on Wordpress.com (but I've heard a few issues lately with new sex blogs being shut down) and then I got my own domain name and hosting a few months ago. I wanted to gauge things first to make sure I ... more
Yeah; we both do use the same host: link She allows adult blogs, so it's a great place to go.

I hated getting all of my links changed over. I think some of my pictures might still be broken from the old website.
05/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Teagan Shepard
*sneaks in* sorry i'm late, kiddo had a nightmare...
Hi....we'll be quiet so we don't wake the kiddo....
05/26/2011
Contributor: xxpollypocket xxpollypocket
I wrote for eden cafe a few times myself
05/26/2011
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kayla
Yeah; you work way too much! I think review blogs are neat just because I like to look for reviews before I buy stuff, so I imagine people do the same thing, and it's good to have honest opinions out there.
I do work way too much, but I love the people I work with the most, so it all washes out for me, lol. I try to give an honest opinion of everything I write a review on because I don't like having to sift through so many reviews that don't tell me anything about the product itself, and that's a general statement. There are some really awful product reviews floating around the internet, lol
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
I am still in the baby stages, just started it and with the kids all doing their award banquets and school getting out I am dragging ass.
Dragging ass is better than nothing! I'm sure you'll get it done when things slow down. Why not try to take it small-piece-by-small-p iece?
05/26/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Wondermom
a shirt or tunic, like this

Oh! I see makes sense to wear one and this one is beautiful. Thanks for answering me sweetie.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by UrNaughtyaAngel
well post a link on your old blog to your new one, and congrats on getting your own domain.
Congrats! If you've had anyone subscribe to a feed or just plain tell you they've been reading your blog, send them an e-mail and let them know! It helped guide a few of my old readers to the new place.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Teagan Shepard
*sneaks in* sorry i'm late, kiddo had a nightmare...
Better late than never. Welcome!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Kayla
Blogging about homeschooling would be neat! It's amazing how many blogging communities are out there. How's the adult blog coming along?
I haven't really focused on blogging for it, so I need to start. I am going to try joining in with TMI tuesday and wonton wed, and use some of the blog prompts that are in the thread here.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Pixel
I just bought a domain today! Am so excited to get it all prettied up and ready to use...the only downside to it is that I had my old blog just starting to get good traffic. Boo.
That is sad. The new domain sounds awesome though. I remember buying mine. IT was definitely an exciting step!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Teagan Shepard Teagan Shepard
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Originally posted by sexyintexas
Hi....we'll be quiet so we don't wake the kiddo....
heh. this is a sight. he's curled up in my lap in bed, i'm leaned over here on the laptop...
05/26/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
I wrote for eden cafe a few times myself
Hey there!! *hugs* glad you're here, too.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Teagan Shepard Teagan Shepard
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Originally posted by Kayla
Better late than never. Welcome!
thanks!
05/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Dusk
^^ I do, once in a while. I actually have a Word of the Week on "Consensual Nonconsent" that should be popping up there in the next few weeks.
Cool I will look for you on there, I have a few as well.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Donagothika Donagothika
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Originally posted by Dusk
Yeah, it's a tough one. I decided to start on Wordpress.com (but I've heard a few issues lately with new sex blogs being shut down) and then I got my own domain name and hosting a few months ago. I wanted to gauge things first to make sure I ... more
I signed up for type pad (even though I thought Wordpress was nifty). It was just Wordpress had a discussion thread that mentioned what you said about new adult related blog shut downs--and the staff never gave an "exact" answer (they talked around the issue). . .
05/26/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Kayla
Yeah; we both do use the same host: link She allows adult blogs, so it's a great place to go.

I hated getting all of my links changed over. I think some of my pictures might still be broken from the old website.
I'm using them as well. *grin* I put you down as my referrer, hope that's cool!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Teagan Shepard Teagan Shepard
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
I wrote for eden cafe a few times myself
i've got a couple posts that should be coming up soon as well.
05/26/2011
Contributor: UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
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Originally posted by Wondermom
I used to have long curly hair down to my butt now its a pixie cut
did you go from super long to pixie in one drastic hair cut or did little by little did your hair length get shorter? I once had my hair long but not down my booty and got it got to my shoulder ( the hair stylist cut way too much) and I just so annoyed every time I would brush my hair or play with it.
05/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Donagothika
Very true. . .I might also bore everyone to tears as well LOL!
Thats why Im starting with a free one, if I find it goes good once I start paying more attention to it then I will move to a better one.
05/26/2011
Contributor: xxpollypocket xxpollypocket
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Originally posted by Dusk
Hey there!! *hugs* glad you're here, too.
*hugs* i didnt realize what time it was till i saw ur tweet
05/26/2011
Contributor: Donagothika Donagothika
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Originally posted by Pixel
I just bought a domain today! Am so excited to get it all prettied up and ready to use...the only downside to it is that I had my old blog just starting to get good traffic. Boo.
Awwww well is there a way you can redirect traffic perhaps so a visitor auto-redirects?
05/26/2011
Contributor: Wondermom Wondermom
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Originally posted by Kayla
Yeah; you work way too much! I think review blogs are neat just because I like to look for reviews before I buy stuff, so I imagine people do the same thing, and it's good to have honest opinions out there.
yeah, I love reading and doing reviews, so far apart from my first here I've only done family friendly things like cleaning products, toys etc. But for my main blogs focus thats what is popular, I am glad I made the adult one though because now I can review my erotica and romance books without offending my other audience.
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Dusk
I learned a lot in the two sexual health courses I took in school, so I usually consult my textbook, the Good Vibrations Guide to Sex, and any other kink-related books I have around. Often I consult articles others have written as well to see if ... more
Have you considered doing college sexology programs for education?
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
howdy!! I made it..i almost forgot lol *waves*
Glad you could make it!
05/26/2011
Contributor: Dusk Dusk
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Originally posted by xxpollypocket
*hugs* i didnt realize what time it was till i saw ur tweet
Haha nice, I've honestly been waiting for this all day! The luxuries of summer....XD
05/26/2011
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
I think the biggest thing about wanting to get new visitors is that you need to remember who you're writing for! After all, these people have hundreds of blogs and thousands of websites vying for their attention. Why should they read yours? What do you have to offer them?

This doesn't mean that you have to change every single one of your posts, but you should definitely try to remember that you have readers! If you write a review blog, a post about your dog is most-likely not why they continue to visit. If you go from talking about your kids daily to just jumping in with sponsored content, you're not likely to keep those readers who came in to see you talk about your kids.

On that same vein, try to provide useful content from your own life experiences. With the invention of social media, a lot of us (myself included, on my personal blog) fall into the habit of saying “Well, I have nothing to write, so I'm going to ramble about what I ate last night!” Try to make posts when you think they'd be appeal to your writer. It's okay to make the random rambling post, but if you do it too often, your readers aren't going to want to come back every day. Blog posts can provide useful content as well. Instead of talking about why you liked what you ate last night, maybe you should review the restaurant? Give the recipe of the food you ate? Talk about the diet you're on? Talk about how you found ways to reorganize your kitchen to make it easier to cook? Things like that can definitely make a returning audience rather than talking about small details of your life all the time.

On that same vein, be careful about what you ask your audience to do. If a lot of your posts are asking your readers to purchase or do something for you, readers may become annoyed by it and stop following. Readers are there for a good experience, and especially if you're a review blog, they love recommendations, but asking for frequent donations or talking about how desperate you are for money and their donations may not win you return followers.

What type of content do you try to stick to?
05/26/2011
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
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Originally posted by Donagothika
Awwww well is there a way you can redirect traffic perhaps so a visitor auto-redirects?
I hope so! Am going to look into finding a way to export previous posts/comments, and redirect the links.
05/26/2011
Contributor: xxpollypocket xxpollypocket
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Originally posted by Teagan Shepard
i've got a couple posts that should be coming up soon as well.
I ran out of inspiration on my litte "freak" series and then didn't know what else to write lol
05/26/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by Kayla
Dragging ass is better than nothing! I'm sure you'll get it done when things slow down. Why not try to take it small-piece-by-small-p iece?
I started it and made one blog last month, once these kids get things settled down and we get back from vacation the middle of June I will have a lot more time.
05/26/2011