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Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Incendiaire
The hair there is so soft, and sometimes there's a nice manly musk coming from the area.
Yes! The natural body smell is amazing. I'm jealous of the musk.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Antipova
I seriously blankface occasionally, I'll be talking about sex with someone and realize that they think whatever I'm talking about is WAY OUTSIDE THE NORM, and I'll be like, "what? What's unusual about that?"
Heh. Yeah. Lucky for me I tend to be outside the norm anyways so it's just another "Serene thing" to everybody else.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
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Originally posted by glassdoll
It's definitely all about the trust for me. The concept of "I could seriously hurt or kill you right now while I'm on top of you" is both terrifying and turns me on horribly.
I like being the one on top when he's chocking me
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
We've sort of been playing around with choking too. Nothing too intense, but I kinda like having his hand on my throat
Love this. We used to do more extreme choking, but have found that a hand applying light pressure will also do the trick. Power play is just...ugh. So good.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Heh. Yeah. Lucky for me I tend to be outside the norm anyways so it's just another "Serene thing" to everybody else.
I get this too, though I've found out it can make conversations awkward VERY quickly... aha. XD
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Antipova
I seriously blankface occasionally, I'll be talking about sex with someone and realize that they think whatever I'm talking about is WAY OUTSIDE THE NORM, and I'll be like, "what? What's unusual about that?"
Haha, I do that too. My boyfriend and I have to curb out tongues around our "vanilla" friends because we just forget that not everyone gets off while being tied down after a good spanking.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by ellejay
Yes! The natural body smell is amazing. I'm jealous of the musk.
Have to say, I'm not a fan of the man musk.. maybe I just haven't found the right muskyness yet.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
I've been trying to think of fetishes that I have, and do regularly, and I am so damn boring I can't think of anything other than I like hearing him talk dirty, but he doesn't do it very often because he feels silly (although admittedly so do I when I try to do it, lol).
02/23/2012
Contributor: shellbelle23 shellbelle23
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Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
I like being the one on top when he's chocking me
ooo haven't tried the choking while on top but moved to top of list!!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Haha, thanks! I've secretly got a thing for cars involved in sex to, so maybe that's why that ended up in there... 8D

That's an interesting take on it! I've never thought of that but it actually sounds like a really awesome ... more
If you like it in fantasy, odds are you'll like it in action. So warm and comforting.

I still feel like that's one "that shouldn't be talked about in public," but we're among tolerant friends, right? Try it.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I've been trying to think of fetishes that I have, and do regularly, and I am so damn boring I can't think of anything other than I like hearing him talk dirty, but he doesn't do it very often because he feels silly (although admittedly ... more
That doesn't sound boring at all! Hopefully the silly-feeling will wear off. Really, I'm hoping for it. I feel like a dunce when I do it.
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Antipova
I seriously blankface occasionally, I'll be talking about sex with someone and realize that they think whatever I'm talking about is WAY OUTSIDE THE NORM, and I'll be like, "what? What's unusual about that?"
I do that a lot when I get used to talking to people in the kink community or BDSM groups I belong to then talk to a friend outside of that and they give me mildly horrified expression...I have to stop and rehash what I've just said that offended them.

Ironically the person most shocked by what I was talking about kink wise and sex was a stripper at the bar haha
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
I get this too, though I've found out it can make conversations awkward VERY quickly... aha. XD
Most of my conversations have awkwards moments if the person isn't on the same freaky wave length. For the most part though, most people know not to ask too much because I WILL tell them whether they're vanilla or not. I see it as "It's my life, if you don't like it fine." If they're digging for answers they will find them, all a matter as to whether or not they can handle them.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I've been trying to think of fetishes that I have, and do regularly, and I am so damn boring I can't think of anything other than I like hearing him talk dirty, but he doesn't do it very often because he feels silly (although admittedly ... more
Oh I lied! I like the hands on my throat thing too, although we're very careful not to really restrict air flow at all. When I do it to him I compress the sides of his throat to mess with blood flow, but I always avoid the windpipe, and he does the same for me if he squeezes at all.
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
I like being the one on top when he's chocking me
Unfortunately we can't do that cause I'm over six foot and he's, well, not. It just doesn't work out too well. =/
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
I haven't. I saw there was a spanking group in town, but my guy and I haven't tried to attend any meetings. Joining the scene would be a big move for us!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ellejay
That doesn't sound boring at all! Hopefully the silly-feeling will wear off. Really, I'm hoping for it. I feel like a dunce when I do it.
Haha, it's always nice to know that I'm not the only one who feels silly then.
02/23/2012
Contributor: shellbelle23 shellbelle23
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Originally posted by ellejay
That doesn't sound boring at all! Hopefully the silly-feeling will wear off. Really, I'm hoping for it. I feel like a dunce when I do it.
not alone there. i feel super silly trying to pull of the dirty talk.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
I have a friend that's after me to go to munches and play parties all the time. I haven't yet but it's starting to sound really appealing.
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
Yes I love BDSM munches, play parties and bdsm clubs. My fav event has got to be watching hook suspension at Pandemonium in Louisville, KY. I wanted to spank his butt like a human pinata.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
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Originally posted by Antipova
If you like it in fantasy, odds are you'll like it in action. So warm and comforting.

I still feel like that's one "that shouldn't be talked about in public," but we're among tolerant friends, right? Try it.
I hope so. I actually want to try it as an internal thing - like being used as a urinal I guess? Not drinking it wise but anally or vaginally, though the health risks are something I'm heavily aware of.

Same here, too. I was kind of iffy about mentioning it ( same with stuff like sounding ) since I haven't quite figured out the level of 'acceptable' but I guess you're right, we're among tolerant buddies.
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
Munches! And rope classes! And bookclubs!

Unfortunately, I can't go to our local groups' parties just yet because they do it in a swinger's bar and I won't be 21 until November and they can't/won't make an exception for me even though no one in our group drinks while there. So I have to wait and go to stuff in private homes instead.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
I've been to a couple, I get kind of intimidated since I am really shy. It's been fun to watch people though. I've been to two that were private and a public one. We are going to a big convention called Beat Me in St. Louis next month. I think it will be really exciting.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by SmutGeek
Yes I love BDSM munches, play parties and bdsm clubs. My fav event has got to be watching hook suspension at Pandemonium in Louisville, KY. I wanted to spank his butt like a human pinata.
Haha! That's awesome! I'm not sure I could handle the hook suspension but suspension in general is a huge turn on.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
I haven't yet. I know there's a munch near me but I'm kind of nervous about going because I've heard stuff about like.... Predatory doms who look at subs like conquests? ): I don't know how true this is, though.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
I haven't. Since I discovered there were kinky communities, I've either been in relationships with men who didn't want to share (even looks), or we've been too busy by ourselves to leave the house

It's definitely high on my list of priorities as I move my life forward, though. I would love to be involved in a community that hosted events.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Have you been to any events? Which did you enjoy the most and why?

I haven't. We really need to find one near us.
No. The closest event I've seen in my area is for erotic writers, but that's not really my thing.

My Canadian friend went to some sort of sex toy exhibition recently, and I was so jealous.
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by glassdoll
Munches! And rope classes! And bookclubs!

Unfortunately, I can't go to our local groups' parties just yet because they do it in a swinger's bar and I won't be 21 until November and they can't/won't make an exception for ... more
BDSM book clubs? That. Sounds. Awesome.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
I hope so. I actually want to try it as an internal thing - like being used as a urinal I guess? Not drinking it wise but anally or vaginally, though the health risks are something I'm heavily aware of.

Same here, too. I was kind of iffy ... more
M pees on me occasionally. His new thing is making me wet myself. Luckily, only in private so far.
02/23/2012