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Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Maybe kinks we're interested in but haven't gotten the chance to try?

Some of mine are ( as mentioned ) watersports, but I also want to try scarification and play piercings. Ritualized Pony Play is something I want to delve into as ... more
I have a friend that tried the pony play and just couldn't get into it. She has the tail/plug and just bought herself a crop. I demanded pictures
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Maybe kinks we're interested in but haven't gotten the chance to try?

Some of mine are ( as mentioned ) watersports, but I also want to try scarification and play piercings. Ritualized Pony Play is something I want to delve into as ... more
I might get a chance for play piercings soon. I'm just not ready for scarification. My Mistress that I've been playing with is a pro piercer and does branding and scarification as well. Her play piercings are beautiful as she adds fake flowers and ribbons to the needles.
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
I wish I could 'like' posts. This one's got great ideas, especially wearing the collar.
-blush-
Aww, thank you.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by SmutGeek
Location location location.

Where do you like to have kinky sex?
I am a proud member of the Arboreal club! (It is seriously worth it to find a tree you can both climb. Seriously.)

I also had really excellent sex (well, I gave a blowjob, but that still counts as sex because it was still amazing) in one of those experience-museums.

Rooftops (so people can maybe hear but not see...)
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sapphire Pet Sapphire Pet
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Originally posted by SmutGeek
Book form. I haven't seen much of her stuff online. Also haven't read Douglas' books past Book 4 and shes past #12 now I think >.< need a sugar momma to buy me books lol
Taking notes!!!
02/23/2012
Contributor: shellbelle23 shellbelle23
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I will have to look into them! I actually found that short story kink erotica just DOESN'T do it for me. I need something more substantial, a longer more involved scene.... I love Anne Rice, because I love that she feels the need to build the ... more
love all of laurell k hamiltons books!! j.r. ward is another one that has a good series. they're really just written porn with a story line thrown in.
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Serenesub
I have a friend that tried the pony play and just couldn't get into it. She has the tail/plug and just bought herself a crop. I demanded pictures
I'd love to do pony play! I blame my desire to earn an Equine Science degree. haha. Horse are the love of my life.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Serenesub
If you're on fetlife find your group and look for the group leaders/owners and contact them and tell them you're new and interested but intimidated. THey're generally pretty good about making sure you fall into the right hands, not the creepy ones.
The creepy ones are also usually relatively easy to identify from the get-go, too. So long as you have enough self-confidence to politely decline their overtures, you'll make it into safe hands
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I will have to look into them! I actually found that short story kink erotica just DOESN'T do it for me. I need something more substantial, a longer more involved scene.... I love Anne Rice, because I love that she feels the need to build the ... more
Well, this series I'm talking about has 20 books I believe and start off being written in the 80's. If starts as a vampire killer book and turns into her living and fucking vampires and coming to terms with liking to be hurt during sex and so on. Liek I said, it's the last few books that she starts to introduce this.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
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Originally posted by Serenesub
I have a friend that tried the pony play and just couldn't get into it. She has the tail/plug and just bought herself a crop. I demanded pictures
Hahaa! I'm saving up for a lot of gear for it - saddles, the crops, reigns/bits, the pony shoes, etc. My M has a fairly extensive knowledge of it ( consider it a major kink ) so she's my go-to point for all my pony-play needs.

Though, from what I understand it's not just about the gear - it's about falling into an animalistic 'role', complete with training and showmanship, etc. Hmmm.


I'm also really interested in puppy play - to be more specific, the caging aspects of it.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
I wish we could find a place around here to camp that's private enough to play a lot instead of quick stolen moments at night when no one will come into the site. Lol. That's the thing I'd most like to try, right now, I think.
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Sapphire Pet
Taking notes!!!
lols awesomes.


Well if you're into werewolves Douglas is best in my opinion. She really goes into detail about pack formations and all that. Um it also has LGTB sex as well as het.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
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Originally posted by SmutGeek
Location location location.

Where do you like to have kinky sex?
We did it in the car once...

lol thats probably the craziest place we've done it so far
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Hahaa! I'm saving up for a lot of gear for it - saddles, the crops, reigns/bits, the pony shoes, etc. My M has a fairly extensive knowledge of it ( consider it a major kink ) so she's my go-to point for all my pony-play needs.

Though, ... more
I've done a little puppy play. My play collar is a dog collar in fact, which helps. It's really interesting to try and 'step into'.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by glassdoll
I'd love to do pony play! I blame my desire to earn an Equine Science degree. haha. Horse are the love of my life.
I love riding them. Thing is, she couldn't get into the headspace but thought a crop would be a good hitty toy. Because.. ya know.. she's not engaged to a sadist that totally wouldn't make her put the tail in and hit her with her toy just to embarrass her. I'm here to remind her of these things. She's thankful for it even if she does swear at me
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
I wish we could find a place around here to camp that's private enough to play a lot instead of quick stolen moments at night when no one will come into the site. Lol. That's the thing I'd most like to try, right now, I think.
Funny story

went camping at a public camp ground with my hubby and our girlfriend at the time. Left a flashlight on to make sure we didn't run into things during sex. Afterwards me and gf went to the bathroom and saw 3 teenage boys staring at us in awe...they had been watching our shadows the whole time >.< Hubs said leave them out there and let them learn something
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
I wish we could find a place around here to camp that's private enough to play a lot instead of quick stolen moments at night when no one will come into the site. Lol. That's the thing I'd most like to try, right now, I think.
State Forests are usually next-to-abandoned, especially mid-week. Also ski trails in the summer, and mountain bike trails in the winter.

(can you tell from my video reviews I try to seek out places I won't be noticed pretty frequently?)
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
I wish we could find a place around here to camp that's private enough to play a lot instead of quick stolen moments at night when no one will come into the site. Lol. That's the thing I'd most like to try, right now, I think.
Have you looked into the kinky camping events that are held?
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
We did it in the car once...

lol thats probably the craziest place we've done it so far
Oh I missed that question. Outside. Definitely.
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
We did it in the car once...

lol thats probably the craziest place we've done it so far
If you ever do it in a cemetery, try for warm weather. January in the cemetery left me frozen in all the wrong places
02/23/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Hahaa! I'm saving up for a lot of gear for it - saddles, the crops, reigns/bits, the pony shoes, etc. My M has a fairly extensive knowledge of it ( consider it a major kink ) so she's my go-to point for all my pony-play needs.

Though, ... more
Are you allowed to wear spurs during pony play?
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Have you looked into the kinky camping events that are held?
Most of them are too far away. :/ Someday, though!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
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Originally posted by SmutGeek
I might get a chance for play piercings soon. I'm just not ready for scarification. My Mistress that I've been playing with is a pro piercer and does branding and scarification as well. Her play piercings are beautiful as she adds fake ... more
Wow, that sounds amazing! I'd never even thought of adding stuff like ribbons or flowers - I always thought metal was just about the only thing that could go in there, for some reason...

@MiMi - I haven't yet had the chance to expand the places I have sex in to anything but the home, but the places I've masturbated.... oh man. In a plane, on a train, in a car, near and far.

Whoops, I'm going Dr. Seuss on you guys. But really, the places I've masturbated involve quite a lot of public settings, including a bus and some public bathrooms as well as the top bunk at a friend's house.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
Most of them are too far away. :/ Someday, though!
I haven't heard of one in Canada yet.. so get it. Even though I want to go to one with Kaya (under his hand) I so owe her a busing or two.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
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Originally posted by Incendiaire
Are you allowed to wear spurs during pony play?
I'm not sure. I'd think yes, since everyone's got their own things they do/don't do - it sounds like something you'd have to ask your partner about to see if they wanted to, or if you're the trainer, to see if they'd be okay with it. :3
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sapphire Pet Sapphire Pet
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Originally posted by SmutGeek
lols awesomes.


Well if you're into werewolves Douglas is best in my opinion. She really goes into detail about pack formations and all that. Um it also has LGTB sex as well as het.
I do fox play from time to time so yeah I have that written down in BIG BOLD letters!!!!!!
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Wow, that sounds amazing! I'd never even thought of adding stuff like ribbons or flowers - I always thought metal was just about the only thing that could go in there, for some reason...

@MiMi - I haven't yet had the chance to expand ... more
lol that sounds crazy! and fun
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Wow, that sounds amazing! I'd never even thought of adding stuff like ribbons or flowers - I always thought metal was just about the only thing that could go in there, for some reason...

@MiMi - I haven't yet had the chance to expand ... more
Oh don't stick anything other metal in there!
Let me clarify, she puts the fake flowers and ribbons on the head of the needles after the piercings are inserted. This is just for photographic effect.

and yes masturbation in new places is always fun
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
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Originally posted by glassdoll
I've done a little puppy play. My play collar is a dog collar in fact, which helps. It's really interesting to try and 'step into'.
I've actually been delving into kitten play, which is surprisingly fun! It feels more light-hearted and less discipline-based than puppy/pony, while still retaining the 'pet' aspect.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
I wish we could find a place around here to camp that's private enough to play a lot instead of quick stolen moments at night when no one will come into the site. Lol. That's the thing I'd most like to try, right now, I think.
When I buy my empty forest lot of 50 acres or so... I will invite you to come whenever you want!
02/23/2012