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Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
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Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We've all got fetishes. What's the one you act on most often?
oh my, now for the most relieving thing i have ever said in public I swear ....

I love to be spanked on my clit with his penis...
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We've all got fetishes. What's the one you act on most often?
Hmm... this is almost kind of tough to answer? Because some I've just worked into my daily life such that I don't even know if I'd call it "acting on a fetish" so much as "this is my life"...
02/23/2012
Contributor: shellbelle23 shellbelle23
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Ohh! Nipple torture! Yes! That too! And I quite like public play as well. Even if it's just a serious groping in the middle of a mall.
public play sounds hot we just havent managed to do it. now the groping in public is right up there tho.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
We've sort of been playing around with choking too. Nothing too intense, but I kinda like having his hand on my throat
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Serenesub
An ex of mine tried to teach me because he loved it. I just couldn't get my head around it. Too bad too, it always looks so hot when others do it. My instinctive "Fuck you" reaction always gets in teh way for me.
I think it feeds back into my "desire to please" kink. Showing how much I really want X act or whatever.
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Whoops, I forgot! Humiliation is another one for me that I really like. Getting talked down to always gets my engine going.

Exhibitionism too ( though I haven't gotten to do that one yet. XD )
I was just about to post the exact same! I like your use of a car metaphor. My post wasn't going to be nearly as clever, lol.

I enjoy exhibitionism in the "I bet everyone in your house can hear what a (blank) you are and how much you deserve to be punished" kinda way.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Quote:
Originally posted by Rayne Millaray
We've all got fetishes. What's the one you act on most often?
M's got a major smoking fetish. I'm all about being tossed around.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sapphire Pet Sapphire Pet
Quote:
Originally posted by Jake'n'bake
Whoops, I forgot! Humiliation is another one for me that I really like. Getting talked down to always gets my engine going.

Exhibitionism too ( though I haven't gotten to do that one yet. XD )
I have been accused of being an exhibitionist too... just because I start to do naughty things when I realize someone is watching. I figure if they're gonna watch me I'm going to make it worth their while. I guess the whole web cam porn thing fits here too.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Hmm... this is almost kind of tough to answer? Because some I've just worked into my daily life such that I don't even know if I'd call it "acting on a fetish" so much as "this is my life"...
I had that problem when I was with Cael. Everything was so normal somebody would say something I did was kinky and I'd have no idea what they were talking about. It all just becomes normal. I like that normal thing.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
Quote:
Originally posted by Loriandhubby
oh my, now for the most relieving thing i have ever said in public I swear ....

I love to be spanked on my clit with his penis...
Does that even classify as a fetish
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by Loriandhubby
oh my, now for the most relieving thing i have ever said in public I swear ....

I love to be spanked on my clit with his penis...
It's an excellent feeling, isn't it?
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by Incendiaire
I have a fetish for guys' armpits; I always find my way over there after I've been busily sucking on the nipples for a while.
Ooh, this is an interesting one. I do love to bury my nose in my boyfriend's pit area. Shame he doesn't like nipple stimulation.
02/23/2012
Contributor: shellbelle23 shellbelle23
Quote:
Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
We've sort of been playing around with choking too. Nothing too intense, but I kinda like having his hand on my throat
big time!! not too hard but it cranks things up
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
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Originally posted by Sapphire Pet
I'm Jealous!!!!!! That is such a beautiful art!!!
picks of his fav, the rope corset, can be seen on my blog nekomimi-BDSM.blogspot .com just look at page labeled Sir Phryxus' Handiwork
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
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Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
We've sort of been playing around with choking too. Nothing too intense, but I kinda like having his hand on my throat
Me too, it's something about the trust for me.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
Hmm... this is almost kind of tough to answer? Because some I've just worked into my daily life such that I don't even know if I'd call it "acting on a fetish" so much as "this is my life"...
I completely know what you mean. A lot of my daily life is like that, too.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
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Originally posted by Sbmsvschoolgirl
We've sort of been playing around with choking too. Nothing too intense, but I kinda like having his hand on my throat
Yeah, I'm still sort of "are you sure this is safe?" about breath play, but hands on my throat is sure as heck hot, both mentally and physically.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Serenesub Serenesub
Quote:
Originally posted by Antipova
It's an excellent feeling, isn't it?
*raises hand* Not alone I actually like normal spankings/paddlings there as well.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Hey pretty lady!
I thought I would cheer myself up by coming to socialize!

OH! I think my most acted on fetish is power play. I rarely think about it, because so much of it is psychological.

My favourite way to play is to make my partner want to hate fuck me. I turn them on and tease them at the same time.... so they feel they have something to prove Such great sex though!
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
I think my current favorite is sensory play. I enjoy being degraded, humiliated, punished, etc., but with the added element of being blindfolded, gagged, and/or restrained. My bf is happy to oblige! lol
02/23/2012
Contributor: Jake'n'bake Jake'n'bake
Quote:
Originally posted by ellejay
I was just about to post the exact same! I like your use of a car metaphor. My post wasn't going to be nearly as clever, lol.

I enjoy exhibitionism in the "I bet everyone in your house can hear what a (blank) you are and how much you ... more
Haha, thanks! I've secretly got a thing for cars involved in sex to, so maybe that's why that ended up in there... 8D

That's an interesting take on it! I've never thought of that but it actually sounds like a really awesome concept.


A couple other fetishes I enjoy is threats - like a "if you misbehave I'm going to <beat/tie you up/hurt you" thing.

I also like watersports in fantasy... not sure if I'd like it in action.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
OMG and toes! I LOVE IT when he sucks on my toes! lol
02/23/2012
Contributor: Loriandhubby Loriandhubby
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Originally posted by shellbelle23
public play sounds hot we just havent managed to do it. now the groping in public is right up there tho.
note to self.. look up the term nipple torture. sounds cool..
02/23/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
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Originally posted by Serenesub
Me too, it's something about the trust for me.
It's definitely all about the trust for me. The concept of "I could seriously hurt or kill you right now while I'm on top of you" is both terrifying and turns me on horribly.
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
Quote:
Originally posted by Serenesub
*raises hand* Not alone I actually like normal spankings/paddlings there as well.
Ungh yes, definitely not alone.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Rayne Millaray Rayne Millaray
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Originally posted by Emma (Girl With Fire)
I thought I would cheer myself up by coming to socialize!

OH! I think my most acted on fetish is power play. I rarely think about it, because so much of it is psychological.

My favourite way to play is to make my partner want to hate ... more
I do that too!
02/23/2012
Contributor: ellejay ellejay
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Originally posted by glassdoll
It's definitely all about the trust for me. The concept of "I could seriously hurt or kill you right now while I'm on top of you" is both terrifying and turns me on horribly.
I love the way you worded this. Our brains are very interesting, eh?
02/23/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
Fav fetishes include but are not limited to age play furries and Victorian era lifestyle.
02/23/2012
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
Quote:
Originally posted by Serenesub
I had that problem when I was with Cael. Everything was so normal somebody would say something I did was kinky and I'd have no idea what they were talking about. It all just becomes normal. I like that normal thing.
I seriously blankface occasionally, I'll be talking about sex with someone and realize that they think whatever I'm talking about is WAY OUTSIDE THE NORM, and I'll be like, "what? What's unusual about that?"
02/23/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
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Originally posted by ellejay
Ooh, this is an interesting one. I do love to bury my nose in my boyfriend's pit area. Shame he doesn't like nipple stimulation.
The hair there is so soft, and sometimes there's a nice manly musk coming from the area.
02/23/2012