Is all your sex kinky?

Contributor: Apirka Apirka
My sex is usually pretty vanilla. I love tying someone else up and candle wax and spanking and such, but my past partners haven't really been into that. They'll try it once for my sake, but unless I'm tying their hands up to just go down on them, they're not into it.
02/13/2012
Contributor: SmutGeek SmutGeek
Whether its breath play or spanking or just certain things SirPhryxus says most of our sex is kinky.
When its not is usually we're exhausted but too horny not to have sex. lol
Or we're in a more public location and need to be covert about it >.<
02/13/2012
Contributor: Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
I guess my guy and I are pretty vanilla.
03/27/2012
Contributor: funluvinmama funluvinmama
It is boring. I am not very comfortable in the bedroom. I need lots of help in this department. I won't do anal because it hurts too bad. I am not comfortable with oral because I always gag. It was my hubby who bought me my first toy, and the other 3 after that. It took me a week to get comfortable enough with it to let him use it on me.
I am here to get more toys and help with my sex life.
03/28/2012
Contributor: FruityCloud FruityCloud
It really depends, we try to be romantic and vanilla, but generally we have more fun being kinky and rough. I'd say 75/25 for kink vs vanilla. Bondage wise, it's normally some rope or my boyfriend's belt. We haven't tried handcuffs yet or any heavy duty hanging furniture or heavy chains yet.
03/28/2012
Contributor: MrGoodTool MrGoodTool
Sometimes I like it kinky, and sometimes I want to hold and caress and just love a woman! So I do.
03/28/2012
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
About a 85% 90% time period.
03/28/2012
Contributor: curious kitten curious kitten
No I am not into kinky.
03/28/2012
Contributor: Marcianpro Marcianpro
Quote:
Originally posted by SiNn
the kinkier the better
Agreed!
03/29/2012
Contributor: Boyqueen Boyqueen
Half and half, depending on the mood at that time.
07/11/2012
Contributor: Doah Doah
most of the time, we try to keep it exciting and different.
08/04/2012
Contributor: pyratess pyratess
mostly what would be considered vanilla but we can get pretty rough without breaking out any gear
09/30/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by carenautilus
Do you always break out the flogger and ropes (or whatever accoutrement and/or mindset applicable to you) when having sex? Or is it something you just break out occasionally? Something in between?
I think our sex qualifies as kinky, but it involves NO BDSM elements. You didn't have that as an option. Of course your post was in the BDSM area...but we don't look there. We are answering in Community Forum. Oh well. It's all good.
09/30/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
It depends on the mood.
10/01/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Husband really doesn't go for that much kink!
10/01/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
It really depends on how much time we have to play.
10/01/2012
Contributor: Pixel Pixel
With one of my partners, yes, all our sex is kinky on some level. With the other, our sex is rarely kinky.
10/01/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
I think since I have sex with a transwoman who still has a penis, all our sex is pretty kinky. particularly if we're having hetero-sex and our boobs knock. my favorite
10/01/2012
Contributor: Tianna Silver Tianna Silver
We're usually pretty simple and plain, but thanks to some new toys my hubby is coming around to being kinkier
10/01/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
Most of the time, not always - more so lately than ever before ^.^
10/01/2012
Contributor: sexfairy sexfairy
No absolute need of BDSM play to be kinky, in my opinion
10/01/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Maybe half and half, depends on the mood. But kinky is always fun!
10/01/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
Mostly
10/01/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
Most of my sex is vanilla, but not by my choice. My two primary partners are both really vanilla.
10/02/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
It's almost exclusively bondage, but we go vanilla from time to time.
10/02/2012
Contributor: sugar&spikes sugar&spikes
50/50
10/02/2012
Contributor: Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
yeah for the kinksters
10/02/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
Mostly vanilla with some kink added in.
10/02/2012
Contributor: butts butts
We USUALLY have some sort of kinky thing happening, be it choking, toys, bondage, etc. Sometimes just plain sex though.
10/03/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
Most of it is vanilla. But that makes the kink all that much more fun because it is rare.
10/03/2012