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Contributor: asandahl asandahl
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Originally posted by mistressg
I am wondering, do you ever feel weird about using toys with a new partner? Do you just spring it on them and throw something into the mix, or do you have a talk about it?
I had a woman watch me fuck a fake pussy and had a great time. It was kind of strange at first, but it was lots of fun!
04/18/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Never been an issue. I suppose I just find the right partners.
06/19/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I have felt kind of weird before, but not always.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Bex1331 Bex1331
I've only used toys with my current partner, and it wasn't weird we just started doing it.
06/19/2012
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
I'm married, and not planning on having a new partner anytime soon.
06/19/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I've been dating the same guy for a while, but it wasn't weird in the beginning. We were very open to each other.
06/19/2012
Contributor: sexydelphia sexydelphia
we both like toys. sometimes we'll talk about which one we want to use to get the other person fired up. other times its a surprise
06/19/2012
Contributor: Jordan B Jordan B
Never been with anyone else other than my current GF, so I wouldn't know.
07/02/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Its kind of awkward at first for me I use to be a Pleasure Party Consultant when I was with an ex of mine so we were pretty open about it but with my past 2 partners its been awkward my ex husband wasn't into it and my current ex boyfriend was iffy at first
07/02/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
Whats a "NEW PARTNER"??? Married 34 years together 40 as of today!
10/28/2012
Contributor: Kat and Aaron(aaron) Kat and Aaron(aaron)
Depends on the toy.
10/28/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Quote:
Originally posted by Rory
Whats a "NEW PARTNER"??? Married 34 years together 40 as of today!
Congrats.
10/28/2012
Contributor: Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I am a woman and am comfortable with my man.
10/28/2012
Contributor: CS2012 CS2012
He knows that I have them but we haven't talked about using them together yet.
10/28/2012
Contributor: Why Not? Why Not?
Generally I use the toys and he doesn't, so sometimes I feel awkward introducing a new toy or using a toy in front of him. It's more that I don't want him to feel awkward.
11/02/2012
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
Its something I've never felt too weird or apprehensive about.
11/02/2012
Contributor: mistressg mistressg
Quote:
Originally posted by Why Not?
Generally I use the toys and he doesn't, so sometimes I feel awkward introducing a new toy or using a toy in front of him. It's more that I don't want him to feel awkward.
Been there before.
11/02/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
I am in a committed relationship and we use toys together all the time. I felt a little weird at first, but now I am very comfortable with my partner
11/03/2012
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by mistressg
I am wondering, do you ever feel weird about using toys with a new partner? Do you just spring it on them and throw something into the mix, or do you have a talk about it?
I sometimes talk to my husband about an item before purchasing it and other times I order stuff and when it shows up convince him to use it with me. Otherwise I think he'd say no due to being nervous about it.
02/08/2020
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
I have not been reticent about bringing toys into session even with a new partner... of course I have NOT had any new partners since I met the woman who is now my wife. However, before I met Wifey, I was seeing a transgender woman. When her and I were getting amorous and I put on my then favorite cockring, she said to me "That's so gay". When she saw the hurt look on my face she followed up that comment with "But that's NOT a bad thing".
Now with Wifey, toys are as they should be just fun for both of us.
02/09/2020
Contributor: Zabina Zabina
I've been with my SO for over 30 years, so I really can't answer this question as written. I do, however, feel weird about introducing new toys. I don't want SO to inadequate since that is not the case. I just like toys.
02/09/2020