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Contributor: stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
clueless
07/27/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
I was very clueless and so was my partner, but we figured it out after a couple more tries.
07/28/2013
Contributor: Billie Bones Billie Bones
I had watched porn and through I knew what I was doing. Lesson learned: watching porn (at least mainstream boring porn) doesn't teach you much.
10/11/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
I'm a great hands on learner.
10/11/2013
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I was, yet I wasn't clueless. I've read up information on sex...but I was more expecting I'd have to please a woman, but I ended up with a man (my current boyfriend of course). So I was pretty awkward trying to do it with a guy finally.
10/28/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I had watched alot of porn and was pretty adventurous before actual penetrations so i was more laying there waiting for the horrffic pain the fireworks that they show in every movie but neither really happened so my boyfriend (now husband) finished and we went and watched tv. neither of us knew what to do cause there is such a build up to whats supposed to happen but really it was like oh well we had sex were not virgins anymore. But afther that we were more comfortable and took off!
10/28/2013
Contributor: Slutty Girl Problems Slutty Girl Problems
Always been interested - researched TONS beforehand! Lol!
10/28/2013
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
I was clueless. My GF at the time knew a little from watching her parents.(She told me.) She directed me through it. Boy was it super tight. She asked me when we were done, " Mann,did you feel it coming out?"

I still remember to this day .

H.
10/28/2013
Contributor: Shadowvvolf323 Shadowvvolf323
Clueless! I've repressed the memory really :/
10/29/2013
Contributor: Lucifer the Cat Lucifer the Cat
I was 14 and totally clueless. My first blowjob was a disaster! I hadn't really figured out that dicks don't really like being scraped by teeth... yikes!
10/29/2013
Contributor: justforfun4824 justforfun4824
not completely clueless
04/03/2014
Contributor: BlackOrchid BlackOrchid
I knew what I was doing, and what to expect. I was the one who had gone and bought the condoms and when it was time I guided his penis into me. I was ready, lol! I probably could have orgasmed the first time I had sex if he lasted longer than 2 minutes, but it was his first time as well so can't complain.
04/04/2014
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
I learned by doing.
04/04/2014
Contributor: CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
I learned stuff about what to do and such but doesn't really mean I was or am good at it-- sex is ridiculously awkward and a bit difficult for me.
04/04/2014
Contributor: The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
Quote:
Originally posted by kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
I don't know if I can say I was clueless. The funny thing is masturbation kind of allows you learn how to control your orgasm if you do it enough. And although I had not really done it that much I had an of what was going to happen so I had an idea. The truth is though for a guy, the first time you actually feel a woman's body there really isn't anything to prepare you for how good that feels. So truthfully there really isn't a way for a guy to go in prepared.

My first time was with a girl who knew it was my first time so she made no bones about making me cum right away and saying lets go again 5 minutes later. I mean lets face it ladies you know if its our first time we just cant put up a decent fight LOL. (She had mercy upon me) As the next two days went on I kind of learned the ropes.

I was really lucky, I was with a friend turned lover that basically planned to have sex with me and watch movies for the whole weekend. I went from zero experience on friday to leaving that Sunday dehydrated, relaxed and sore. (Every guy should be so lucky!)

The funny part of all of it was that she says even to this day that I initiated it and I insist that she did. I took a shower at her place (I drove 3 hours to see her after mid terms)came out into her hallway to ask her a question about something and she took that as game on. Less than a minute later I was being "experienced" LOL.

It was actually a fantastic first time. I am the exception to the rule. All of my friends had a horrible first time with somebody they now either hate or avoid. I was very lucky with that.
04/04/2014