I had a rough idea of how things worked, but there was definitely a difference between theory and practice. I did some work ahead, mostly to limit the stereotypical pain for her.
were you clueless?
04/23/2012
totally clueless.
04/24/2012
Well there was porn and research for me. I pretty much predicted how it would feel and was pretty spot on.
06/05/2012
clueless but figured it out quickly
06/05/2012
I was pretty knowledgeable already, it didn't take me long to figure out the rest!
07/29/2012
I did not really know much but figured things out.
07/29/2012
I knew about self stimulation and masturbation as well as oral but when it came to intercourse I wasn't all that experienced but I had someone who was
07/29/2012
I was really young for my first so I had no freaking clue what was supposed to be happening - it definitely didn't feel good. It was a shitty experience.
It some work but now I'm a sex-a-holic and have an amazing sex life...go figure
It some work but now I'm a sex-a-holic and have an amazing sex life...go figure
07/29/2012
Well I had the basics but I don't think she felt the earth move. I was so nervous and excited I didn't know what was going on. I have gotten better since then...God I hope I so!
07/29/2012
I handled myself quite well by her account. I had problems keeping it up because I was nervous (I had to swap between light play/ penetration constantly) which ruined that but fortunately following guides on how to give good oral paid off. She and I continued to see each other for a while and it seems I learned quickly.
07/29/2012
Clueless! The first time was a quick in and out. Then it was over!
12/19/2012
I was quite well prepared with Margo Anands Tantra book and some more sex ed. But anyway: Reading a book never made anyone an expert. I guess I'm still clueless.
12/20/2012
Pretty clueless and stressed out. I just couldn't get it hard. Fortunately she thought it was cute.
12/20/2012
i was young and clueless. still learning new things as i go
12/28/2012
I was well read.
01/14/2013
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Clueless...It was then I realized I wanted to know more and the learning began.
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kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
01/14/2013
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totally clueless, but it was fine.
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kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
01/14/2013
I wasn't completely clueless, I was just too uncomfortable to speak up then. Since then my partner and I have gotten much much better together.
01/14/2013
I knew how to do it. I could do missionary and I kind of struggled at figuring out how to have fun while being on top. Mostly, I hadn't quite figured out how to have fun sex until having over a year of experience, especially since my first long relationship was my only sexual experience for a while and he was quite boring.
01/14/2013
Had an idea but learned as I went!
01/15/2013
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i was pretty clueless and so was the guy bc it was both of our first times
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kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
02/12/2013
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my husband (boyfriend at the time) was very gentle and caring. it was a good experience.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
02/14/2013
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very clueless!
Originally posted by
kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
02/17/2013
I had no idea what I was doing. I was sort of pressured into doing it in the first place, but yeah it was weird for me. :|
02/19/2013
I wasn't completely clueless. The guy I lost it to didn't know I was a virgin until I whispered it in his ear, right before I got on top and popped my cherry. We did it twice that night. It was great.
03/01/2013
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I tried learning. By the time I had sex the first time my boyfriend and I had done everything buy for a year so I already knew a lot.
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kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
03/03/2013
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Actually, not exactly. After watching porn for years....I grasped several concepts very quickly.
Originally posted by
kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
03/04/2013
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Completely clueless. My husband was my first for literally everything. I hadn't even masturbated until I met him. - K
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kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
07/27/2013
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Holy cow was I clueless! I just let him twist and roll me however he wanted....it got better after a few years but man I was a NOOB!
Originally posted by
kawigrl
were you clueless during your first sexual experience or did you try to learn some techniques beforehand
07/27/2013
Totally clueless! If only I knew then what I know now!
07/27/2013