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The Naked Reader Book Club: Tasting Him and Tasting Her

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Contributor: LicentiouslyYours LicentiouslyYours
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Originally posted by Kayla
I've been wanting to watch 9 1/2 weeks for an extremely long time. I've never gotten around to it, but it always makes me want to watch it more when someone references it. Someday, I need to cave and just buy it from Amazon.
I first saw it in high school (yes, i've just dated myself) and loved it! Looking back at it now, I get that it was filled with D/s and control themes that I didn't yet realize were what really got me going. Of course, it portrays these things in kind of a negative light, but it's still one of the hottest movies I've ever seen.

See it immediately!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Any that don't taste like spearmint? lol
I think all of the mint gums taste like spearmint. Which is icky. I suppose the mint flavored lubricant would work too though.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
No, they do. But if you are worried about using a mint... the lubricant is an alternative.
I'll think about it. I might suck it up and give it a go, I'd just hate to buy a lube, then hate it and have no real need for it after one use, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by Jul!a
That is an incredibly cute title. At least it made me think of Build-A-Bear, then I thought of naughty Build-A-Bears, then I started giggling, lol
Naughty Build-A-Bears.. that's fairly disturbing. o_o
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kayla
I think all of the mint gums taste like spearmint. Which is icky. I suppose the mint flavored lubricant would work too though.
I've found winterfresh gums, they're just a bit trickier to find, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Splendwhore
Naughty Build-A-Bears.. that's fairly disturbing. o_o
Omg, now I'm totally playing out a furries porn in my head, way to go, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
I first saw it in high school (yes, i've just dated myself) and loved it! Looking back at it now, I get that it was filled with D/s and control themes that I didn't yet realize were what really got me going. Of course, it portrays these ... more
I want to! I haven't gotten around to it quite yet, but I have a feeling that it'd be hot to watch. I heard about it when I was about 13 and everyone was talking about how it was a hot movie with some D/s themes. I tried to find it online, but I couldn't. I did end up watching "Kinsey" around that time though.
06/22/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
Are you still here Kristina? I am very interested in finding book selections with your stories in them.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I wondered what the inspiration was for that one since I actually know a person who gets wild when jazz is playing. I wondered if it was a sort of body memory or the lyrics, which are admittedly innocent like a cat. 1 part innocence and three parts ... more
So true. Music is so powerful-- I remember where I was when I heard a song for the first time or what song I was listening to during a particularly good night. Those Motown songs just kept running through my head and then I started to really listen to the lyrics... oh my...
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
I loved the book Tasting Her mostly because it's something that I simply adore receiving and I have a partner that is simply amazing at giving. He loved the stories as well since they are told from all different perspectives and it opened his ... more
Oh, what a nice story! It also goes to show that a book doesn't need to be labeled "self-help" to be helpful!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
So true. Music is so powerful-- I remember where I was when I heard a song for the first time or what song I was listening to during a particularly good night. Those Motown songs just kept running through my head and then I started to really listen ... more
I think music can definitely enhance a sexual situation as well. I know I love Marilyn Manson and Nine Inch Nails for that.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kayla
I think music can definitely enhance a sexual situation as well. I know I love Marilyn Manson and Nine Inch Nails for that.
I never quite pictured Marilyn Manson or NIN as adding to a sexual experience to be honest.
06/22/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
So true. Music is so powerful-- I remember where I was when I heard a song for the first time or what song I was listening to during a particularly good night. Those Motown songs just kept running through my head and then I started to really listen ... more
Music with guys with raspy but smooth voices put me in the mood. I love, love, love John Mayer.
06/22/2010
Contributor: sarahbear sarahbear
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I never quite pictured Marilyn Manson or NIN as adding to a sexual experience to be honest.
Psh, have you heard Fuck You Like an Animal? That song is so fucking sexy.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
No. He had to be at work in like 15 minutes. I never expected him too. It was my gift to him. And it turned me on so much!
Giving pleasure can sometimes be as arousing as receiving pleasure, don't you think? I see that idea reinforced in a lot of my own fiction (and, obviously, my real life!).
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by sarahbear
Psh, have you heard Fuck You Like an Animal? That song is so fucking sexy.
I guess that one could count, lol. Got any others? I'm drawing a total blank.

Ooh! Or what about The Bad Touch! It's at least kinda about sex, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Giving pleasure can sometimes be as arousing as receiving pleasure, don't you think? I see that idea reinforced in a lot of my own fiction (and, obviously, my real life!).
I think it's the idea that you're getting pleasure from your partner's pleasure. And I've definitely noticed that happening in my own life.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
I understand you completely. I don't think it is just you either. I get the same sensations. I have told my partner about my "tickle spot." That is the best way I can describe it. It feels so good, almost too good. And it down right ... more
I know I'Ve got a tickle spot as well, but I don't even know where it is exactly. Have not had enough oral sex performed on me to really be sure. :S
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kynky Kytty
I know I'Ve got a tickle spot as well, but I don't even know where it is exactly. Have not had enough oral sex performed on me to really be sure. :S
I almost always start out every session he's going down on me giggling. I don't mean to, but the whole thing tickles until he gets me warmed up. I've told him, and he thinks it's adorable and sometimes tries to make me laugh really hard, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Kayla
I've been wanting to watch 9 1/2 weeks for an extremely long time. I've never gotten around to it, but it always makes me want to watch it more when someone references it. Someday, I need to cave and just buy it from Amazon.
It's on I think it's Encore Drama next Monday at like 12am. I've been wanting to watch it for a long time and finally got around to searchig for it and now have my DVR set up to record
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Kayla
Like gerbils apparently. A friend's mother works at an emergency room, and she says its a doctor's favorite game to talk about who has come in with what up their butt that week.
Poor little animal
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by sarahbear
Psh, have you heard Fuck You Like an Animal? That song is so fucking sexy.
I have. It's especially good if you listen with the headphones because you can hear a lot of the whispering that's hard to hear in the actual track with speakers. It's a great sound.

And I suppose I prefer both of the two because most of my sexual experiences tend to be more BDSM-focused than romance-y. Jor and I tried the soft, sensual music once. We started giggling so bad it was just all over.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by Jul!a
I almost always start out every session he's going down on me giggling. I don't mean to, but the whole thing tickles until he gets me warmed up. I've told him, and he thinks it's adorable and sometimes tries to make me laugh really hard, lol
Same thing happens with me. Sometimes he gets insecure though when I'm giggling. It's not like I mean to! Sometimes I'll get really sensitive sometimes too, to where if he even just touches my thigh I'll burst out laughing and have to push his hand away. I feel bad sometimes.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Sundae Sundae
I've finally made it up early enough to participate in the book club this week!

About tickling, I seriously think I was born without the tickle gene, I just don't get ticklish these days anywhere on my body! It's a sad state of affairs.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
No. He had to be at work in like 15 minutes. I never expected him too. It was my gift to him. And it turned me on so much!
Hahaha, you're my hero!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Splendwhore
Same thing happens with me. Sometimes he gets insecure though when I'm giggling. It's not like I mean to! Sometimes I'll get really sensitive sometimes too, to where if he even just touches my thigh I'll burst out laughing and have to ... more
I always feel bad about it, but he keeps reassuring me. He used to feel a little self conscious about it but after a year and a half, he's figured out that I'm just really ticklish, lol.

I've got the same thing with my thighs sometimes.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by Sundae
I've finally made it up early enough to participate in the book club this week!

About tickling, I seriously think I was born without the tickle gene, I just don't get ticklish these days anywhere on my body! It's a sad state of affairs.
I hardly get ticklish either, unless it's in a tender area, or if I'm aroused. Lol! Weird, I know. My partner, on the other hand, is so damn ticklish! I can tickle him by touching him with a single finger. He laughs so hard he can't breath. He doesn't like getting tickled though, because it makes him tense.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Sundae
I've finally made it up early enough to participate in the book club this week!

About tickling, I seriously think I was born without the tickle gene, I just don't get ticklish these days anywhere on my body! It's a sad state of affairs.
Welcome to the discussion!

I am sorta ticklish. It honestly depends on my mood. If I'm in the bad mood, my body doesn't respond, but if I'm cheery, I can be ticklish on my feet. I find tickling to be more painful than pleasurable though.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by Kayla
I have. It's especially good if you listen with the headphones because you can hear a lot of the whispering that's hard to hear in the actual track with speakers. It's a great sound.

And I suppose I prefer both of the two because ... more
Lol. we've tried music before. Sometimes it can be really funny depending on the songs. ;D
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kynky Kytty Kynky Kytty
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Originally posted by Kayla
I have. It's especially good if you listen with the headphones because you can hear a lot of the whispering that's hard to hear in the actual track with speakers. It's a great sound.

And I suppose I prefer both of the two because ... more
You'd really have to read Pleasure Bound.
06/22/2010