The New Intimacy

The Naked Reader Book Club: Tasting Him and Tasting Her

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Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
I would say so. I wonder where on earth they came up with something like that. lol. I would have to say it must be from experience. Absolutely Insane!
I bet it was partially based on a true story. God, I remember back in high school, a friend of mine told me a similar story. She was at a party and she walked into a room at this guy's house, and there was this girl, masturbating with a wine bottle. The LARGE end of a wine bottle.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kristina Wright
Aw, thanks, Laurel!

True story about "Hold On, I'm Coming": My inspiration was the Motown soundtrack playing at Starbucks that particular month. I kept hearing those same old favorites playing day after day and I started ... more
I wondered what the inspiration was for that one since I actually know a person who gets wild when jazz is playing. I wondered if it was a sort of body memory or the lyrics, which are admittedly innocent like a cat. 1 part innocence and three parts naughtiness! LOL
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Splendwhore
I bet it was partially based on a true story. God, I remember back in high school, a friend of mine told me a similar story. She was at a party and she walked into a room at this guy's house, and there was this girl, masturbating with a wine ... more
Holy crap. I mean, I guess there's probably dildos out there that are just as large, but wine bottles are so...huge. People use some of the oddest things for masturbation.
06/22/2010
Contributor: clp clp
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Originally posted by Splendwhore
I bet it was partially based on a true story. God, I remember back in high school, a friend of mine told me a similar story. She was at a party and she walked into a room at this guy's house, and there was this girl, masturbating with a wine ... more
Hahaha... I would love to know what was going through her mind at that moment.
"On the on hand, I have this party. On the other, this bottle has been giving me sexy eyes... what to do, what to do...I know, I'LL HAVE BOTH."
06/22/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kayla
Basically, a girl is hosting a dinner party with friends and plans on making spaghetti with the last bottle of Prego spaghetti sauce they have. She walks into the kitchen to find her partner using the Prego as a masturbation sleeve. It's just ... more
Holy cow....adds an whole new meaning to "It's IN there" no? Talk about special seasoning...ok must stop!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by clp
Hahaha... I would love to know what was going through her mind at that moment.
"On the on hand, I have this party. On the other, this bottle has been giving me sexy eyes... what to do, what to do...I know, I'LL HAVE BOTH."
Lol, I have no idea. Kids are chocked full of hormones though, and often times, not too smart about what they'd willingly shove up or on their genitals.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Splendwhore
Lol, I have no idea. Kids are chocked full of hormones though, and often times, not too smart about what they'd willingly shove up or on their genitals.
Like gerbils apparently. A friend's mother works at an emergency room, and she says its a doctor's favorite game to talk about who has come in with what up their butt that week.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by Kayla
Like gerbils apparently. A friend's mother works at an emergency room, and she says its a doctor's favorite game to talk about who has come in with what up their butt that week.
light bulbs, screw drivers, remote controls, various kitchen "tools", veggies, fruits....the list goes on and on. I loved sitting in on those conversations.
06/22/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
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Originally posted by LicentiouslyYours
When I saw the title of that story, right before I started reading I was thinking it was about something else entirely. But, I really did enjoy that one too. I am a huge fan of the food scene from 9 1/2 weeks so this was somewhat reminiscent of that ... more
They does look fun! But yes like you said, messy.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
light bulbs, screw drivers, remote controls, various kitchen "tools", veggies, fruits....the list goes on and on. I loved sitting in on those conversations.
Ouch!!
06/22/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
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Originally posted by Splendwhore
I bet it was partially based on a true story. God, I remember back in high school, a friend of mine told me a similar story. She was at a party and she walked into a room at this guy's house, and there was this girl, masturbating with a wine ... more
I have been to a few parties too with a girlfriend. Oh my God! She used to get on the floor in front of everyone there and screw herself with beer and whiskey bottles!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
They does look fun! But yes like you said, messy.
I've been wanting to watch 9 1/2 weeks for an extremely long time. I've never gotten around to it, but it always makes me want to watch it more when someone references it. Someday, I need to cave and just buy it from Amazon.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
I have been to a few parties too with a girlfriend. Oh my God! She used to get on the floor in front of everyone there and screw herself with beer and whiskey bottles!
Wow! Talk about confidence. She sure wasn't the shy one, huh?
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by clp
Hahaha... I would love to know what was going through her mind at that moment.
"On the on hand, I have this party. On the other, this bottle has been giving me sexy eyes... what to do, what to do...I know, I'LL HAVE BOTH."
Lmao, I actually laughed out loud at that one. I love when inanimate objects make sexy eyes lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
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Originally posted by Splendwhore
Wow! Talk about confidence. She sure wasn't the shy one, huh?
Not at all. She was called quite a few names too. But you know what! She told me once, "I don't do it for anyone else. I do it for me. I like to have fun and love being the center of attention." I always had a different view of her after that. It was kind of daring, sexy, and fun!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by clp
I am very much in the same boat. While I love giving, I have a very hard time receiving. I think most of it is a matter of intensity, but also my brain has a mental block of that being the most intimate surrender I could offer another person. Of all ... more
It took me a long time to come around to getting it, and an even longer time to come around to giving it. I was just never comfortable with getting it, and had no idea what I was doing for giving it. That and I'm really not a huge fan of having penises in my mouth, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
Not at all. She was called quite a few names too. But you know what! She told me once, "I don't do it for anyone else. I do it for me. I like to have fun and love being the center of attention." I always had a different view of her ... more
Well, the important part is always being comfortable with yourself, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kristina Wright Kristina Wright
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
I am sitting back laughing right now. Even the ladies in the 16th century knew how to do it. I will have to check this movie out as well. It looks like a great one.
Dangerous Beauty is one of my favorite movies of all time. I highly recommend it if you enjoy historical films!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
Not at all. She was called quite a few names too. But you know what! She told me once, "I don't do it for anyone else. I do it for me. I like to have fun and love being the center of attention." I always had a different view of her ... more
That's incredibly brave. =) I almost envy her.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Jul!a
It took me a long time to come around to getting it, and an even longer time to come around to giving it. I was just never comfortable with getting it, and had no idea what I was doing for giving it. That and I'm really not a huge fan of having ... more
I've always been okay with doing it, but with my first partner, all I did was give - ever, so now I'm pretty much worn out on it. It just doesn't seem to have the fun that it did since I've given it too many times without any sort of receiving.
06/22/2010
Contributor: Splendwhore Splendwhore
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Originally posted by Jul!a
Well, the important part is always being comfortable with yourself, lol
True that, sister! ;D
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kayla
I've always been okay with doing it, but with my first partner, all I did was give - ever, so now I'm pretty much worn out on it. It just doesn't seem to have the fun that it did since I've given it too many times without any sort of receiving.
My last boyfriend was always trying to get me to go down on him even tho he wouldn't go down on me, so to spite him, I tried it once (because I told myself to at least give it a shot) and then never did it again, lol.

My fiance is a bit smaller than he was, which also makes giving him oral a lot easier, lol
06/22/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
I loved the book Tasting Her mostly because it's something that I simply adore receiving and I have a partner that is simply amazing at giving. He loved the stories as well since they are told from all different perspectives and it opened his eyes as to what it felt like to receive oral sex as a woman. It also helped him to be able to talk to one of his playmates who has problems relaxing. He loves her scent, taste and just about everything about her pussy but she wouldn;t believe him until he "borrowed" some of the dialogue from the book. She was able to relax and both of them had a great time!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Kayla Kayla
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Originally posted by Jul!a
My last boyfriend was always trying to get me to go down on him even tho he wouldn't go down on me, so to spite him, I tried it once (because I told myself to at least give it a shot) and then never did it again, lol.

My fiance is a bit ... more
I think I kept a count somewhere. My first relationship was a giant mess. I think I gave him oral like over 200 times, had sex about five, and was never kissed or got to receive. It was horrid. Bad choice from a young girl who didn't know better.
06/22/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
I never really liked it either in my past, But now my current partner and I give oral to each other all the time. It isn't really even "required" or expected or even requested. We just go with it. I spoil him with oral sex. Nothing is more intense then seeing him come from me using my mouth. I remember one time I grabbed him by the hand and pulled him into the bedroom. I put him on the bed, unzipped his pants, and sucked him off until he came. No talking, nothing. It only took about two minutes. He was so turned on and almost didn't know what happened. I still hear him saying "what the fuck was that," when I was done. I simply stood up and walked away out of the room. It was so intense! That is what makes giving oral so hot to me!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
(EF Review Program Mentor)
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Originally posted by ♥ Amanda ♥
I never really liked it either in my past, But now my current partner and I give oral to each other all the time. It isn't really even "required" or expected or even requested. We just go with it. I spoil him with oral sex. Nothing is ... more
Did he return the favor?
06/22/2010
Contributor: ♥ Amanda ♥ ♥ Amanda ♥
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Originally posted by Airen Wolf
Did he return the favor?
No. He had to be at work in like 15 minutes. I never expected him too. It was my gift to him. And it turned me on so much!
06/22/2010
Contributor: clp clp
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Originally posted by Kayla
I've always been okay with doing it, but with my first partner, all I did was give - ever, so now I'm pretty much worn out on it. It just doesn't seem to have the fun that it did since I've given it too many times without any sort of receiving.
Yes, yes, and yes.

While I don't expect to be paid in kind, I do hope that my partner has the wish to show appreciation for my talent and enthusiasm (as limited as it may be) in one way or another. One LTR consisted almost exclusively of my giving and giving and the empty hope of some day receiving. I've brightened up since those days and know what to look for, as well as to expect from that relationship forward.

The moral of that story, for me, was to fine-tune what my partner [italic|reaaallly} loves (luckily it tends to be gettin' head), perfect it, and making it absolutely damn clear what I'd like in return--sometimes sex, sometimes a cuddle, even just a sweet thank you. As long as we are both satisfied, I am more than happy to do so!
06/22/2010
Contributor: clp clp
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Originally posted by Kayla
I think I kept a count somewhere. My first relationship was a giant mess. I think I gave him oral like over 200 times, had sex about five, and was never kissed or got to receive. It was horrid. Bad choice from a young girl who didn't know better.
Sounds all too familiar.
When I cringe and look back... all I can say is, "at least its all uphill from here!"...and it absolutely has been. Cheers to the insight to move on!!
06/22/2010
Contributor: Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by Kayla
I think I kept a count somewhere. My first relationship was a giant mess. I think I gave him oral like over 200 times, had sex about five, and was never kissed or got to receive. It was horrid. Bad choice from a young girl who didn't know better.
The important part is learning from your mistakes tho, and now you know better
06/22/2010