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Did it hurt when you lost your virginity?

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Contributor: skeeterlynn skeeterlynn
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Originally posted by Gettinmymojoback
No pain no blood... guess I'm lucky
Same here. It was kind of uncomfortable, but it didn't really hurt. Then again he was also pretty big so he took it easy on me and went slow. Took a couple times for him to have it all the say in. If it wasn't for that it probably would have hurt like a bitch.
07/26/2012
Contributor: cutiefairyprincess cutiefairyprincess
It hurt but I dint bleed
07/26/2012
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
A little bit, but it was more like uncomfortable than painful.
07/26/2012
Contributor: cricket cricket
YEP
07/26/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
Honestly it felt like I was a thanksgiving turkey being stuffed
07/26/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
Not at all!
07/26/2012
Contributor: Itsnotabanana Itsnotabanana
Yep it did a lot
07/27/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
It didn't hurt or bleed at all. I guess I'm lucky.
07/27/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
nope. we took it nice and slow
07/27/2012
Contributor: quantumspork quantumspork
The first time I had penetrative sex, I'd already been using a dildo for a while (once I'd used that hard enough to make me bleed, and yes it hurt, although not unbearably). I find that certain positions hurt a lot less than others—doggy style and girl on top hurt a lot less than missionary for me, for example.
07/27/2012
Contributor: chelly411 chelly411
Yes it hurt so bad.... but the guy was really good about it. He knew it was my first time.
07/27/2012
Contributor: HB042 HB042
Indeed it did. I knew that it was going to, as I was very familiar with my anatomy, and it was a struggle to even get my thumb in there.I remember finding a dildo in my mom's room when I was about 14 or 15, and trying to use it so that when it came time to actually have sex, it wouldn't hurt. No go.

I was 19, and with the man I would wind up marrying, when it happened. We were already living together at this point (yes, I put it off that long). It was a clumsy slip while fooling around, and I HEARD it. What a horrible sound! I can only compare it to the sound that happens when you pierce your ear cartilage. A fibrous pop! I was so upset, I wasn't ready, I actually stiffened, and growled at him "get off me." and he did. I went to the bathroom to check on things and surely, I was bleeding. When I went back to the bedroom, he was passed out asleep, which was how he dealt with any tense situation. Totally not a pleasant experience.
07/27/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
nope
07/27/2012
Contributor: gloomybear gloomybear
yes but not much
07/27/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
No, thankfully.
07/27/2012
Contributor: kittychilla kittychilla
nope. lube.
07/27/2012
Contributor: MRB MRB
It hurt like a B!
07/27/2012
Contributor: FallFire FallFire
Yes, it hurt. However, this was because I am a petite girl and he was quite gifted down there. Talk about trying to stuff 10 pounds of fluff in a 5 pound bag. Fortunately, he was quite supportive. He knew it was my first time, so he talked me through it and let me go at a pace that made things as comfortable as possible.
07/27/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
I expected it to hurt but I wasn't really tense or anything so it didn't, but the time after that it pinched a little. It really was not a big deal to me. I never used penetration in masturbation before that and had only started using tampons the week before I had sex, so you'd think it would have. He was small though.
01/18/2013
Contributor: marriedlady123 marriedlady123
I was really sore-ugh I don''t know why people romanticize losing your virginity, it just isn't fun!
01/18/2013
Contributor: fizzygato fizzygato
No, it didn't hurt at all.

Someone used a metal dildo inside of me, and it didn't feel good or bad, but just like a lot of pressure. I was mostly scared I would bleed a lot and that it would hurt, and I think I worried so much that I couldn't orgasm, but none of that actually happened.

I kind of wonder if she just didn't go deep enough or something, because I've never used a tampon or anything, and there was no blood or pain, and I don't think I ever broke my hymen myself before.
01/18/2013
Contributor: sillylilkitten sillylilkitten
It hurt like hell. I cried. It took several tries to get it in because it hurt so much.
01/22/2013
Contributor: karenm karenm
No, since my hymen was stretched out already.
01/22/2013
Contributor: butts butts
LOL not at all! I had been masturbating since I was a preteen including penetration, I remember "popping" my own hymen and it didn't hurt, just freaked me out for a second. I did get sore (we both did) the first few times because we'd go for a really long time, but I wouldn't call that painful at all.

My mother convinced me it was going to be SUPER PAINFUL AND ID HATE SEX AND NEVER REALLY ENJOY IT, I'm still angry at her for telling me that (and the immense amounts of bullshit on top of that).
01/22/2013
Contributor: Love Lula Love Lula
Yes. The guy I was with was horrible and pushy and just rammed himself inside of me without any regard. It was awful.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Jennifer87 Jennifer87
For me it didn't hurt at all, but i think its cause i ad a pretty bad/painful injury down there when i was younger so my first time i didn't bleed like most people.
01/22/2013
Contributor: tortilla tortilla
Sure did
01/22/2013
Contributor: Nickki Hard Nickki Hard
I was young when I lost mine and it did not hurt, but after words I was sore for about a week. It was weird how I lost mine the first guy I slept with tore it, but did not break it all the way so there was very little blood. The second guy was about a year later and he tore it all the way. All in all it never hurt.
01/22/2013
Contributor: kaykay0427 kaykay0427
my first BF had a small penis lol so it really didn't hurt at all
01/22/2013
Contributor: KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
It didnt really hurt that much but I can't say that it was the most pleasureable. I didnt bleed at all but the second time was a lot better.
01/22/2013