Yes with guys, no with girls
Did it hurt when you lost your virginity?
05/25/2011
My hymen broke when I was little after falling on a boys bike I remember that stung a bit but I don't count that as losing my virginity. When bf and I had sex for the first time at the age of 17 it didn't hurt I was tight but I don't remember any pain.
05/27/2011
It didn't hurt at all because he was very small!
05/27/2011
no, I was born without a hymen.
05/28/2011
It did hurt the first few times, but I didn't really bleed.
05/31/2011
Oh yeahhh it was horrible the first couple of times but especially the first time
06/02/2011
by the time i lost my virginity, my hymen was popped and i wasn't too stressed. i was pretty tight though, i think it was because i was a little nervous. so no it didn't hurt
08/21/2011
I was 16 and no it did not. Of course I was molested so maybe that made a small difference.
08/21/2011
It didn't hurt, but I remember it feeling strange.
08/21/2011
It hurt. I bled. The "normal" text book reaction I guess. After the first time I was fine though.
08/22/2011
definitely hurt, definitely bled, definitely was sore for 2-3 days after.
08/22/2011
It hurt extremely. I didn't really want to, but my partner did so I caved. The next time hurt but when I was finally into it mentally the 3rd time, it didn't hurt.
08/22/2011
It didn't really hurt for me at all. I didn't bleed at all. I'm guessing my hymen wasn't intact or something.
However, sometimes it's still a little painful because I have a pretty small vagina after 10 years.
However, sometimes it's still a little painful because I have a pretty small vagina after 10 years.
08/22/2011
Very much so! I hated it.
08/23/2011
Yes it did
08/28/2011
I only felt a quick sting, like the feeling of someone snapping a rubber band against your skin, around my vaginal opening. No pain otherwise. I did bleed a little that time (and a couple of times after), but it wasn't anything major or horrible.
08/28/2011
It was extremely painful for about the first 20 times or so. Then we found out I had health problems that cause painful sex and infertility. Now that we know we've found ways for it not to hurt as much.
11/16/2011
Oh god yes. There was absolutely no consideration on his part and I wasn't willing either so the odds were stacked against it being anything but agony.
11/16/2011
I was 16 and it didn't hurt at all.
11/16/2011
There should be an "other" or "unknown" choice. Unfortunately I was so drunk and nearly unconscious I don't remember. Did wake up sore the next morning though.
11/16/2011
Didn't hurt at all, he was, well, small. Second boy hurt so much though.
11/17/2011
Yes, it hurt but I didn't bleed or anything, and it wasn't as painful as I expected.
11/18/2011
nope, i guess he wasnt big enough... good and sad at the same time
11/22/2011
i kinda wish it wouldve hurt
12/01/2011
kinda. i can't really remember... i was 17, and not really into it, though i was in a relationship and i did think i was in "love." honestly, sex at any time (not only your first time) can be painful. you need to be relaxed, wet, and super comfortable and into it and content. the minute you tense up for any reason, it all goes downhill
12/01/2011
We lost our virginity together, and we made sure to go slow so she wouldn't be in any pain.
12/01/2011
Not really, there was only one time it hurt but it wasn't the first time
12/01/2011
With me, I wasn't exactly willing. But, honestly, I don't count that s losing my virginity. I count that as being with my current boyfriend. I trusted him and although I was nervous, I don't really remember it hurting.
12/03/2011
no it didnt hurt but the next day i was sore then the next time i had sex it was a little uncomfortable
12/05/2011
It stung a bit but not hurt.
12/05/2011