when my man is completely flaccid and cold it can shrink down to just a couple inches but grows to just above average which is beautiful to me. I wouldn't want him to go through surgery. he's not all that happy with his grower either but I love him just the way he is.

I had never heard of this before.

Never heard of this, and I agree with everyone who says if it isn't currently causing any problems with your sex life or anything else, then there shouldn't be a need to fix it. If it really bothers him I suppose you could look into the options, but it doesn't sound like a harmful condition.

When I lived up north and worked on the beach as a life guard, with the water being cool sometimes cold you could see your member at regular size and when you entered the chilly water it would retrack so that just the head was showing. It was funny because most times you were wearing a speedo. and it seems the ladies werw aware of your srinkage.

I've never met anybody with this problem but, if confronted with it, I can say with 100% certainty it wouldn't bother me.

I've heard about this, but never met anyone with this condition (that I know of). If everything works just fine though, I don't see the point of surgery.

if it works just fine then i see no problem. I see no point in going to the extreme of getting corrective surgery for something like this.

no disrespect intended to your wife, but if I am reading your post correctly this is more of an issue with HER? She needs to not be so judgemental, everyone has some issue with a body part somewhere, but for her to be pushing you to do something that isn't even necessary is just totally wrong and makes me wonder what her priorities are?
This is totally normal to happen to men, as men put it I'm a grower not a shower, that is true for some men.
Do not feel insecure about yourself, this is normal, it works correctly, if it isn't broke don't fix it! Tell her to stop obsessing about it, it is vanity of you ask me. Not on your part, but hers..... again if I am reading your post correctly.

Never heard that lol

I hadn't heard of this until i saw it on a nude art model at school. everyone's junk is different.

Don't know of anyone, but if it works why mess with it. I'd leave it alone versus a cosmetic surgery that could do damage.

If it works just leave it alone!