Some women feel a sense of pity for that guy in the wheelchair and the sideways grin. But would that pity lead to sex?
Would you do a guy in a wheelchair?
09/02/2010
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I really don't see any appropriate answer there for me. If someone were disabled and I was attracted to the person, the disability wouldn't be a big issue, or at least not something we could work around. Would I be turned on by the disability? No. Would I have sex with someone because I feel pity about their disability? Never. That thought is actually pretty offensive to me.
09/02/2010
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I have to agree. It's a little offensive that you are implying that just because someone is having a sexual relationship with someone in a wheelchair, it must be pity sex.
Originally posted by
Tori Rebel
I really don't see any appropriate answer there for me. If someone were disabled and I was attracted to the person, the disability wouldn't be a big issue, or at least not something we could work around. Would I be turned on by the
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I really don't see any appropriate answer there for me. If someone were disabled and I was attracted to the person, the disability wouldn't be a big issue, or at least not something we could work around. Would I be turned on by the disability? No. Would I have sex with someone because I feel pity about their disability? Never. That thought is actually pretty offensive to me.
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09/02/2010
Yep, I do my husband every night and hes in a wheelchair. Its deffintily not as good as it use to be but ime lucky to have him.
I am intimate with him for who he is not just an orgasm.
I am intimate with him for who he is not just an orgasm.
09/04/2010
If I am attracted to him and everything works, why not?
09/04/2010
I don't do pity sex, but I would not be opposed to having a relationship and subsequently sex with someone in a wheelchair. So long as the essentials work, that's all that really matters!
09/05/2010
So are you asking if I'd have pity sex with a guy in a wheelchair or if I'd be comfortable having sex with a guy in a wheelchair? They're really too different things.
09/05/2010
I'm going to agree with Mistress Kay here, I'm lost. I don't have pity sex with anyone. Regardless of their conditions. Could you feel sorry for some of Americas worst serial killers because of their childhood, and thus have sex with them out of pity?
Now, would I have sex with someone I fell in love with, even if they had a disability? Yes. That's different.
Pity sex is bad. As my mother said, the only person you should have pity sex with is yourself.
Now, would I have sex with someone I fell in love with, even if they had a disability? Yes. That's different.
Pity sex is bad. As my mother said, the only person you should have pity sex with is yourself.
09/05/2010
First of all, I'd never pity someone who's in a wheelchair. And I would not look at them differently for being in one, either. It's not something that they can help.
Second of all, I wouldn't give them sex just for the sole reason of them being in a wheelchair. That would be a little creepy on my part, no? I do not sexualize a person based on something like that, or even really pay notice to it. They're a human being, plain and simple.
Second of all, I wouldn't give them sex just for the sole reason of them being in a wheelchair. That would be a little creepy on my part, no? I do not sexualize a person based on something like that, or even really pay notice to it. They're a human being, plain and simple.
09/10/2010
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Agreed.
Originally posted by
SydVicious
I have to agree. It's a little offensive that you are implying that just because someone is having a sexual relationship with someone in a wheelchair, it must be pity sex.
09/10/2010
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depends not on the chair but the person. if he is a jerk he wont get laid just cause he is in a chair. if hr is a good guy he would get laid anyone.
Originally posted by
Pandahb
Some women feel a sense of pity for that guy in the wheelchair and the sideways grin. But would that pity lead to sex?
09/13/2010
It depends.
09/19/2010
I'd make love to the man, not the wheelchair.
09/21/2010
I wouldn't do a *guy* in a wheelchair (operative word there being guy), but generally I wouldn't do a guy out of a wheel chair either... a girl in a wheelchair however, I would do happily.
09/29/2010
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Dito
Originally posted by
PassionQT
If I am attracted to him and everything works, why not?
10/03/2010
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This is an interesting question given that many people who do not have a disability suppose that individuals with a disability are not sexually active.
I once told my boyfriend if ever he would be in a wheelchair, it would not make a difference & that i would still be sexually attracted to him.
I once told my boyfriend if ever he would be in a wheelchair, it would not make a difference & that i would still be sexually attracted to him.
10/12/2010
If my husband somehow became wheelchair bound...absolutely, yes i would
10/13/2010
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If I liked the guy and we were mutually attracted then the fact that he is in a wheelchair wouldn't matter to me.
Originally posted by
Pandahb
Some women feel a sense of pity for that guy in the wheelchair and the sideways grin. But would that pity lead to sex?
10/13/2010
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If I were in love with him, yes.
Originally posted by
Pandahb
Some women feel a sense of pity for that guy in the wheelchair and the sideways grin. But would that pity lead to sex?
10/17/2010
When I was 17 years old I a sex with a boy that was in a wheelchair it wasnt bad
10/17/2010
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ooh la la
Originally posted by
ReadyAllTheTime
When I was 17 years old I a sex with a boy that was in a wheelchair it wasnt bad
10/21/2010
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Same here, it's all a question of attraction and acceptance of the person as a whole whether this person has a disability or not.
Originally posted by
Tori Rebel
I really don't see any appropriate answer there for me. If someone were disabled and I was attracted to the person, the disability wouldn't be a big issue, or at least not something we could work around. Would I be turned on by the
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I really don't see any appropriate answer there for me. If someone were disabled and I was attracted to the person, the disability wouldn't be a big issue, or at least not something we could work around. Would I be turned on by the disability? No. Would I have sex with someone because I feel pity about their disability? Never. That thought is actually pretty offensive to me.
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10/30/2010
If I was single and in love with him I definitely would. Disability's mean nothing.
11/01/2010
I don't care if he's in a wheelchair, as long as I am attracted to him both mentally and physically.
11/01/2010
i think it just depends on the person. everyone has their quirks. i have a nasty back injury and can't do what i used to be able to do. since it's an infirmity, you could argue BF is only having sex with me out of pity.
i think for me the only caveat would be that i'd have to feel we were both safe physically. i would have a lot of trouble having sex if i was preoccupied by the fear of hurting my partner so i'd need to know enough about their injury to know how to work around it.
i think for me the only caveat would be that i'd have to feel we were both safe physically. i would have a lot of trouble having sex if i was preoccupied by the fear of hurting my partner so i'd need to know enough about their injury to know how to work around it.
11/03/2010
Yes, it doesn't matter to me, as long as we liked each other.
11/11/2010
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you're totally right. It is more about safety for both parties/or all parties. and that if you/i am attracted to the person in the first place.
Originally posted by
CynicallyYours
i think it just depends on the person. everyone has their quirks. i have a nasty back injury and can't do what i used to be able to do. since it's an infirmity, you could argue BF is only having sex with me out of pity.
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i think it just depends on the person. everyone has their quirks. i have a nasty back injury and can't do what i used to be able to do. since it's an infirmity, you could argue BF is only having sex with me out of pity.
i think for me the only caveat would be that i'd have to feel we were both safe physically. i would have a lot of trouble having sex if i was preoccupied by the fear of hurting my partner so i'd need to know enough about their injury to know how to work around it. less
i think for me the only caveat would be that i'd have to feel we were both safe physically. i would have a lot of trouble having sex if i was preoccupied by the fear of hurting my partner so i'd need to know enough about their injury to know how to work around it. less
hells, my sister was married to a man who was quad and they still had a very good sex life before he died.
11/28/2010
My husband was temporarily in a wheelchair for awhile but we were doing it more when he was in the chair then we do now...
12/12/2010
If I liked the guy, him being in a wheelchair or not wouldn't matter to me. I wouldn't have sex with him out of pity, though.
12/13/2010
If I like him, I don't see why not. The wheelchair part doesn't matter to me.
12/18/2010