The vibrator desensitizing thing is a sex myth, which like most sex myths goes out of its way to shame women. Your body changes with age, that has nothing to do with the number of orgasms you've had or how you achieved them. Switching things up with different toys can help, because a different sensation is new and exciting. less

I don't think so...I think getting used to a routine can temporarily desensitize you. Switching things up and adding variety is a good way to avoid such things, and like others have suggested, your body changes with age, and your sexual responses and hormones change with it.

I've known women who can't achieve orgasm without the use of vibrators--they just need that particular type of intense, pinpointed stimulation to get there. We're all different and our bodies respond to stimuli differently, but I don't think that using a vibrator can desensitize you anymore than using your fingers to get yourself off can desensitize you. There might be a psychosomatic response that associates sexual pleasure with a specific act or item, but I still think that adding more variety to your sexual vocabulary is the best way to keep from feeling desensitized--and I think that includes keeping the vibrators in the equation once in a while, as well. less

We have been married for over 30 years, and we have used vibrators of many different styles for most of our married life during foreplay, but not exclusively. I have noticed lately, and my wife has confirmed, that her orgasms don’t seem to be as strong as they once were, and are harder to achieve. So the question is;
Do you think that it is possible that you can “de-sensitize” yourself by using vibrators too often? less