GingerAnn,

I appreciate the tip on trying other lubes. However, we have had no trouble using coconut oil. Maybe it is because we took it slow in making the transition to pegging. And the fact that I wear a silicone plug daily makes anal sex comfortable.

One more point to keep in mind (for the guys anyway) is to relax and let your partner take you at her pace. Relaxing and allowing her in and then maintaining that state of relaxation while she works you is the easiest way to enjoy the experience and, for me, orgasm almost every time, stronger and more intensely than during any other type of sex.

We are still relatively new at pegging. But, based on the past few months I enjoy getting pegged more than traditional sex. I would have never thought this would be the case. Glad that I am married to an adventurous wife!

If you also practice pegging with your partner - and I’m assuming that you are female - are you able to achieve orgasms while pegging your man? My wife does and claims that she enjoys more intense orgasms while pegging me than she can achieve during traditional sex. Thank you again for your comment and for sharing your insights.

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@James68, it does make me happy that you've found your own approach and that it works for you - this is what matters, and not how different it is from the textbook approach I'm familiar with.

With anal, staying relaxed and not rushing things is the key to success, so you are correct and you are doing everything right.

It's absolutely natural that you enjoy pegging so much. First of all, it's a new experience, and we tend to get a bit addicted to sexy things that are new to us. I sincerely hope this experience will encourage you to try other things and, maybe, have a couple more of those insights

Your assumption was right - I am a female, and I have stated here on the forum before that pegging is our next goal. My fiance and I are talking about it. getting in the right state of mind and physically preparing - aka he had just started out some anal training, wearing a butt plug for some time and so on.

And here we are coming back to the topic, @Gunsmoke
My fiance is having his first taste of anal and he is on the fence about it. On the one hand, it feels peculiar to have something up your butt for some extended periods of time. Yes, it's very sensual and sexy and all, but there is a little issue we've stumbled upon.

He likes to sit with his legs up, sort of relaxed squatting all the time. He can't help it, and the plug keeps popping out We've tried a couple of different styles and some tight underwear, as well, but nothing seems to work. He doesn't feel comfortable restricting the ways he can feel comfortable and sacrificing it to the butt plug, so we're a bit overwhelmed and frantically thinking what to do next. Any tips? My only hope is now a plug with a cock ring - I've guessed it can stick in a little bit better with additional support, but I'm not sure less

@James68, it does make me happy that you've found your own approach and that it works for you - this is what matters, and not how different it is from the textbook approach I'm familiar with.

With anal, staying relaxed and not rushing things is the key to success, so you are correct and you are doing everything right.

It's absolutely natural that you enjoy pegging so much. First of all, it's a new experience, and we tend to get a bit addicted to sexy things that are new to us. I sincerely hope this experience will encourage you to try other things and, maybe, have a couple more of those insights

Your assumption was right - I am a female, and I have stated here on the forum before that pegging is our next goal. My fiance and I are talking about it. getting in the right state of mind and physically preparing - aka he had just started out some anal training, wearing a butt plug for some time and so on.

And here we are coming back to the topic, @Gunsmoke
My fiance is having his first taste of anal and he is on the fence about it. On the one hand, it feels peculiar to have something up your butt for some extended periods of time. Yes, it's very sensual and sexy and all, but there is a little issue we've stumbled upon.

He likes to sit with his legs up, sort of relaxed squatting all the time. He can't help it, and the plug keeps popping out We've tried a couple of different styles and some tight underwear, as well, but nothing seems to work. He doesn't feel comfortable restricting the ways he can feel comfortable and sacrificing it to the butt plug, so we're a bit overwhelmed and frantically thinking what to do next. Any tips? My only hope is now a plug with a cock ring - I've guessed it can stick in a little bit better with additional support, but I'm not sure less

GingerAnn here's how I got to whete I'm at today being a butt plug full time wearer 24/ 7 365 a day. Two and half year's ago I started dating my current girlfriend on the fourth or fifth date she said she had a secret to tell me if we were going any farther with our relationship. She told me that she wears butt plugs all the time. I was grateful for that because I was into anal sex and I'm saddened to say this but back then I was a giver only. Well after a couple of months she said I should try some toy's and butt plugging. I said no well the women's rule won out I gave in. She had bought a Jelly plug first it felt great after a month of getting use to it and learning the use of a lot of lube then one day after I was able to wear it for about 12 hour's at a time I felt the safety handle starting to slip into me deeper. We quite using it a switch to silcone. The first one was a Ass - Gasm cock ring plug with a 3.5" insertable length and with a grith of 4" used for 2 to 3 months felt great to. Then the girlfriend upgrade my butt plug to a anal fantasy deluxe perfect plug. Its 4.5" insertable with a grith of 4.1 and 1.2 width. At this point into the timeline I'm only able to wear only 100 to 110 hrs per week because of my job also I'm about six or seven months into plugging. I'm at this time I'm able to transfer to another department which gave me the opportunity to go full time so I did and for doing that the girlfriend got me a present a new one this one is the large butt plug insertable 5" grith of 7" it took my a couple of week's to get it where I could wear it. I should also say I switch in between plugs sizes every couple of days. Now on my six months of being full time wear my girlfriend has done it again new on but it not going to be able wear it for any length of time. It is intimidating it's called Titanmen master tool #5 the insertable of 5" isn't what's scary it's the grith of 7.75" and the width of 2.25. Im sure after time and lots of lube I'll will be able to wear it for play time.
I'm in love with my girlfriend for herself and showing me the ways of living butt plug full time and other anal toy's and game's play.
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@James68, it does make me happy that you've found your own approach and that it works for you - this is what matters, and not how different it is from the textbook approach I'm familiar with.

With anal, staying relaxed and not rushing things is the key to success, so you are correct and you are doing everything right.

It's absolutely natural that you enjoy pegging so much. First of all, it's a new experience, and we tend to get a bit addicted to sexy things that are new to us. I sincerely hope this experience will encourage you to try other things and, maybe, have a couple more of those insights

Your assumption was right - I am a female, and I have stated here on the forum before that pegging is our next goal. My fiance and I are talking about it. getting in the right state of mind and physically preparing - aka he had just started out some anal training, wearing a butt plug for some time and so on.

And here we are coming back to the topic, @Gunsmoke
My fiance is having his first taste of anal and he is on the fence about it. On the one hand, it feels peculiar to have something up your butt for some extended periods of time. Yes, it's very sensual and sexy and all, but there is a little issue we've stumbled upon.

He likes to sit with his legs up, sort of relaxed squatting all the time. He can't help it, and the plug keeps popping out We've tried a couple of different styles and some tight underwear, as well, but nothing seems to work. He doesn't feel comfortable restricting the ways he can feel comfortable and sacrificing it to the butt plug, so we're a bit overwhelmed and frantically thinking what to do next. Any tips? My only hope is now a plug with a cock ring - I've guessed it can stick in a little bit better with additional support, but I'm not sure less

I'm pretty advanced when it comes to sex toy know-how, but today I was looking at butt plug reviews and a whole bunch of people were saying this particular model is great for wearing all day. I had no idea that doing so was a thing that so many people do!

What is the point? To feel naughty? (Hey, naughty is good!) Doesn't it get irritating after a while?
I hope this doesn't sound at all judgmental...I am genuinely curious about what the appeal is of extended butt plug wear. (And, how great that there is a forum where I can even ask such a question! ) less