I'm pretty advanced when it comes to sex toy know-how, but today I was looking at butt plug reviews and a whole bunch of people were saying this particular model is great for wearing all day. I had no idea that doing so was a thing that so many people do!

What is the point? To feel naughty? (Hey, naughty is good!) Doesn't it get irritating after a while?
I hope this doesn't sound at all judgmental...I am genuinely curious about what the appeal is of extended butt plug wear. (And, how great that there is a forum where I can even ask such a question! ) less

To feel naughty. To stay loose and open. To experience pleasure. My best friend is super kinky and loves coming in his boyfriend's ass and plugging it all up for the day. He's a bit into D/s and has used it both as a reward and as a punishment to his boyfriend. less

I'm pretty advanced when it comes to sex toy know-how, but today I was looking at butt plug reviews and a whole bunch of people were saying this particular model is great for wearing all day. I had no idea that doing so was a thing that so many people do!

What is the point? To feel naughty? (Hey, naughty is good!) Doesn't it get irritating after a while?
I hope this doesn't sound at all judgmental...I am genuinely curious about what the appeal is of extended butt plug wear. (And, how great that there is a forum where I can even ask such a question! ) less

Hubby and I have just moved into The Femdom arena. while we are new to the whole Kink scene we are taking on new things on a regular basis.
I have had him wear plugs to prepare and our most recent session was pretty intense,
I had him prepare throughout the day by moving from small to large while at work, and he would give me updates, then an hour befor getting home I had him move to a dildo, he had to have that in the whole drive home so that when we started our play I didn't have to worry about the streching time IT WAS ALREADY DONE!!!!

he walked in the door and he had large wet spots on his pants where he had precum so much the pants were soaked. that was a turn on for both of us.

he had a quick shower and clean out and we had an incredible session where I flogged, whipped, spanked, slapped, smacked, beat then pegged him for over two hours.

IF we had had to prepare him as we went it would have been alot longer to get him ready for our big toys, but wearing the plugs throughout the day gives a sense of excitement and exhilaration of doing the naughty and adds to the factor less

I'm pretty advanced when it comes to sex toy know-how, but today I was looking at butt plug reviews and a whole bunch of people were saying this particular model is great for wearing all day. I had no idea that doing so was a thing that so many people do!

What is the point? To feel naughty? (Hey, naughty is good!) Doesn't it get irritating after a while?
I hope this doesn't sound at all judgmental...I am genuinely curious about what the appeal is of extended butt plug wear. (And, how great that there is a forum where I can even ask such a question! ) less

I found your question (and then created an account here) today after searching for "wear a butt plug all day?" justly because I wondered if it were safe to do.

The reason I was looking it up is that I wanted to be ready for when my girlfriend would take me with our dildo. I assume that it would be an easier fit if I were "used" all day, before the time came.

Yes, just thinking about it makes me feel naughty too!

AND yes... how great that there is a place you can ask such a question!

So.. are you going to.. try it? less

I have been wearing a butt plug regularly since my wife’s birthday last November. She gets to make one request (demand, actually) of me each year on her day and this year she wanted to begin pegging me. The first time she tried to penetrate me it was uncomfortable to the point that she had to stop. This was mostly, I think, because I was nervous. And when a guy is nervous he is also tight!

After this frustrating - and painful - experience we did some research and decided that I needed anal training to prepare for the next time. We started with a very small butt plug that I initially wore for several hours. It came out before there was any significant discomfort and then went back in later in the day, again only for about three hours. We repeated the next day, with each period being plugged lasting a little longer. Sleeping plugged was actually very easy and comfortable after a few days. As others have suggested, make sure that the plug is clean and well lubed when inserting. Coconut oil is best as it goes on the plug as a greasy paste before softening inside you. It is slippery and all natural, which is presumably safer than silicone or some other synthetic lube would be.

After several days I began wearing the plug continuously, only removing it to allow for normal bodily functions. Even with a small plug, my sphincter comfortably stretched to accommodate the plug ang I became more relaxed and used to having something in my ass. After about six weeks we moved to a slightly larger plug. There was some initial discomfort but we used the gradual approach and removed it when things became uncomfortable. Again, clean and lube well when reinserting the plug.

Once it became comfortable to wear the larger plug my wife suggested that we give the strap-on another try. This tune was much better! I was still nervous, but my hole was loose enough now that the dildoe fit nicely. My wife was able to organs this time, although I was still too nervous and still getting used to my new position. But, after several more sessions I learned to relax and let my wife do the work while I concentrated on accepting the stimulation she was giving.

As of today, I have been wearing a plug for almost four months. I wear it 23+ hours a day very comfortably and have not had any issues with hygene or irritation. My sphincter has been stretched to the point that penetration with my wife’s strap-on is painless and, I think more importantly, the butt plug trained me to relax while being penetrated anally, which is crucial to enjoying the experience.

As a side note, for other couples who are interested in pegging, I would caution them to go slow and communicate with one another as you get started. From a man’s perspective, once you learn to orgasm through prostate stimulation you may not want to go back to penis in vagina sex. The feeling is unlike any other you have experienced. As for my wife, she enjoys controlling the rhythm and intensity of sex while penetrating me as she enjoys more intense and prolonged orgasms and gets to stop when she is satisfied. In conventional sex, the fun usually ends when the man orgasms. Once a man learns to organs through prostate stimulation he can enjoy sex longer like a woman dies. Although, this is just an assumption in my part. All I can say for sure is that the orgasm is stronger and I can enjoy the experience of being pumped by my wife after I orgasm.

In summary, butt plugs can be used for more than the uses covered in this post. But, for me and my wife, my wearing a plug has helped us enjoy sex in a new way that we both prefer now to conventional sex. My wife has suggested that I may not need to wear the plug going forward as I am stretched sufficiently now that anal penetration is comfortable. And we are having strap-on sex one or two days a week. But, I’m not sure if I stop wearing the plug if the sphincter will tighten back up (shrink to the normal size) between our time together. Besides, I enjoy the feeling of being plugged and, being a little submissive, like the fact that I am doing this for my wife. less

It is wonderful to see that the practice of long-term butt plug wearing takes on.

Dear James68, thank you for sharing your story. It's very thorough and extremely useful for guys who are considering to try pegging. Indeed, wearing a butt plug for a long time makes you more adjusted to having things up you bum, hence making anal sex much easier by eliminating a large part of the warm-up.

I'm a bit concerned by the fact that you tend to use coconut oil instead of a lubricant because coconut oil is way less thick I'd suggest the anal lube to be. It heavily depends on the type of butt plug you're using - namely its material. If it's silicone and you are sure you feel no discomfort, chafing or unwanted pressure - be my guest. If, on the other hand, you are now or plan on using a glass or metal plug, I would hope you'd reconsider and pick a specifically designed anal lubricant. With material so rigid and demanding as glass r metal can be, you'd want some sufficient coating.


Dear BP addictive, and what type of a plug material are you using? I suggest we compare experiences
And why on earth would you want to stop wearing it? less

It is wonderful to see that the practice of long-term butt plug wearing takes on.

Dear James68, thank you for sharing your story. It's very thorough and extremely useful for guys who are considering to try pegging. Indeed, wearing a butt plug for a long time makes you more adjusted to having things up you bum, hence making anal sex much easier by eliminating a large part of the warm-up.

I'm a bit concerned by the fact that you tend to use coconut oil instead of a lubricant because coconut oil is way less thick I'd suggest the anal lube to be. It heavily depends on the type of butt plug you're using - namely its material. If it's silicone and you are sure you feel no discomfort, chafing or unwanted pressure - be my guest. If, on the other hand, you are now or plan on using a glass or metal plug, I would hope you'd reconsider and pick a specifically designed anal lubricant. With material so rigid and demanding as glass r metal can be, you'd want some sufficient coating.


Dear BP addictive, and what type of a plug material are you using? I suggest we compare experiences
And why on earth would you want to stop wearing it? less

GingerAnn,

I appreciate the tip on trying other lubes. However, we have had no trouble using coconut oil. Maybe it is because we took it slow in making the transition to pegging. And the fact that I wear a silicone plug daily makes anal sex comfortable.

One more point to keep in mind (for the guys anyway) is to relax and let your partner take you at her pace. Relaxing and allowing her in and then maintaining that state of relaxation while she works you is the easiest way to enjoy the experience and, for me, orgasm almost every time, stronger and more intensely than during any other type of sex.

We are still relatively new at pegging. But, based on the past few months I enjoy getting pegged more than traditional sex. I would have never thought this would be the case. Glad that I am married to an adventurous wife!

If you also practice pegging with your partner - and I’m assuming that you are female - are you able to achieve orgasms while pegging your man? My wife does and claims that she enjoys more intense orgasms while pegging me than she can achieve during traditional sex. Thank you again for your comment and for sharing your insights.

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