you get used to it
Anal?
04/16/2012
Doesn't hurt at all if done right and well worth the effort.
05/03/2012
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Your question is oddly worded. Are you asking if you should continue what you are doing and just stay with vaginal sex? or are you asking if you should try anal? I am confused as to what I would be saying yes or no to. Personally if you aren't comfortable with it don't do it.
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
I have been with my man for 4 yrs and we are getting married this year. we have been talking about anal for a few weeks now and was wondering how bad does it hurt, how good does it feel, should we continue without doing it?
I had a very negative experience my first and last time trying so it's not for me, however I know people that really enjoy it because they had great first experiences.
05/03/2012
I have to be in a really specific mood for it.
05/03/2012
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I agree! LOL I voted yes, to try it...
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
Yes, try it.
No don't
or yes but it hurts like hell. Sorry I wasn't clear.
No don't
or yes but it hurts like hell. Sorry I wasn't clear.
05/03/2012
You should at least try it to say you did. We have been doing it for years, and it's hard at first every time and hurts a little if it hits the wrong spot but eventually makes her scream for more!
05/03/2012
I say try it and see if you like.
05/20/2012
you should go for it! maybe get a smaller toy to help warm up.
05/21/2012
Definitely go for it... but take it slow. It takes a lot of warming up/practicing/relaxing before one is ready for serious anal intercourse. Some men can easily get carried away and move too fast. Start with explorative anal "play" and when you are comfortable you can take the next step to anal "sex".
05/21/2012
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Yes, absolutely try it.
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
I have been with my man for 4 yrs and we are getting married this year. we have been talking about anal for a few weeks now and was wondering how bad does it hurt, how good does it feel, should we continue without doing it?
07/15/2012
personally i dont like it, id say dont knock it till you try it
07/15/2012
prepare, relax and enjoy...in that order
07/24/2012
not really my cup of tea, but others like it. i say go for it if you really want to give it a try.
07/27/2012
Yes. Take it slow and use lots of nice, thick lube.
07/27/2012
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I've been doing some anal exploration on my own, I have to agree with those who have said it before me: If done right, it shouldn't hurt. Go slowly, use lots of lube, take your time, stretch with fingers, use toys while getting ready so that way you can make sure you're ready, and have your partner understand not to rush or get to vigorous. If done right, it feels amazing, there should be no pain at all (the stretching might get uncomfortable if you're going a bit fast, but it should never hurt!).
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
I have been with my man for 4 yrs and we are getting married this year. we have been talking about anal for a few weeks now and was wondering how bad does it hurt, how good does it feel, should we continue without doing it?
07/28/2012
you should try it out use lots of lube and only when you feel up to it take it like baby steps smaller things then work your way up if u wanna try it
07/28/2012
you should try it out use lots of lube and only when you feel up to it take it like baby steps smaller things then work your way up if u wanna try it
07/28/2012
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If you communicate, take it easy and use plenty of lube it does not hurt and it can feel great. But you've got to talk!
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
I have been with my man for 4 yrs and we are getting married this year. we have been talking about anal for a few weeks now and was wondering how bad does it hurt, how good does it feel, should we continue without doing it?
08/03/2012
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You should try it. We love it. Start with some toys first.
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
I have been with my man for 4 yrs and we are getting married this year. we have been talking about anal for a few weeks now and was wondering how bad does it hurt, how good does it feel, should we continue without doing it?
08/03/2012
Yes!
09/01/2012
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so true!
Originally posted by
MaryExy
Gah, I have to say no. I'm so close to my next change to try, though! I know I enjoy anal toys, though. Just make sure to relaaaaaax and use lots of lube.
The first time I used my Pure Plug Large, it hurt as the widest part passed the ... more
The first time I used my Pure Plug Large, it hurt as the widest part passed the ... more
Gah, I have to say no. I'm so close to my next change to try, though! I know I enjoy anal toys, though. Just make sure to relaaaaaax and use lots of lube.
The first time I used my Pure Plug Large, it hurt as the widest part passed the sphincter. But I was VERY new to toys, and taking it out I was actually ok (this was after an hour or two of having it in I think). Since then I have had to trouble with pain.
Edit: no as in I haven't done it... I'm not sure what question we're responding to, though. Is it "Should you continue without doing it?" In which case I would say go ahead and try it if you guys are interested. Doesn't hurt to experiment, you sound like you can trust each other to stop immediately if it gets worrisome. less
The first time I used my Pure Plug Large, it hurt as the widest part passed the sphincter. But I was VERY new to toys, and taking it out I was actually ok (this was after an hour or two of having it in I think). Since then I have had to trouble with pain.
Edit: no as in I haven't done it... I'm not sure what question we're responding to, though. Is it "Should you continue without doing it?" In which case I would say go ahead and try it if you guys are interested. Doesn't hurt to experiment, you sound like you can trust each other to stop immediately if it gets worrisome. less
09/06/2012
It varies from person to person, but personally my strongest orgasms have been anal with some clit action.
09/06/2012
Anal can be great. I was mortified to do it due to not be comfortable and bodily functions. However, I recently bought butt plugs that helped with the transition. Now it can be amazing as long as I relax and he doesn't do it to hard.
Use plenty of lube and if you try it try not to be tense.
Use plenty of lube and if you try it try not to be tense.
09/07/2012
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As long as you are relaxed it only hurts during the initial penetration. The orgasm can be a little more intense than from just regular vaginal sex. but once you are comfortable and used to the feeling anal can feel amazing!
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
I have been with my man for 4 yrs and we are getting married this year. we have been talking about anal for a few weeks now and was wondering how bad does it hurt, how good does it feel, should we continue without doing it?
01/10/2013
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I'm not going to lie I use to think the idea was disgusting yuck yuck. I tried it n didnt care for it. It hurt it was not enjoyable to me at all. THEN i found someone who was into everything im into but he also liked anal. and let me tell you first time We did it it HURT! but about 1 min into it WOW!!!! 2 min I came. Now its part of our routine n It sometimes hurts but sometimes vaginal intercorce hurts so I SAY TRY IT!!! give it 5 times if you still dont like then its not for you.
Originally posted by
zensgirl10
I have been with my man for 4 yrs and we are getting married this year. we have been talking about anal for a few weeks now and was wondering how bad does it hurt, how good does it feel, should we continue without doing it?
01/11/2013
I say you can try and see if you like it.
01/11/2013
Anal can feel nice if both parties are ready for it. It's best to start out with some small toys and take it one step at a time and not force it.
01/11/2013
I can't really help with this one.
01/11/2013
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Just make sure you go very slow at first! And use plenty of lube. I also have a product called "booty ease" that numbs you down there just enough to make it more comfortable. Make sure you are as relaxed as you can be and try not to tense up...
Originally posted by
Nympho88
As long as you are relaxed it only hurts during the initial penetration. The orgasm can be a little more intense than from just regular vaginal sex. but once you are comfortable and used to the feeling anal can feel amazing!
01/19/2013
not my thing
01/19/2013