This questions is for the ladies. Would you be jealous of your man masturbating with a pocket pussy, and would it matter how realistic it was? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below
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Would you be jealous of a pocket pussy?
05/05/2010
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As far as I'm concerned? It's a toy. No matter how realistic it is, it's still just a toy. Honestly, it would be horribly hypocritical of me to expect him to be ok with me using realistic dildos, while being jealous of him using a realistic pocket pussy. For me, it's a non-issue.
05/05/2010
The question is similar to asking if men are jealous of their women's realistic dildos. I don't have a partner right now, but not only would I not be jealous, but I'd actually want to use the sleeve on him if I wanted to pleasure him. It's hot.
05/05/2010
I keep trying to talk my boyfriend into being interested in one, actually. Failing so far -- he doesn't see the point of using anything but his hand, and when he's with me, he wants me touching him. I think something would have to create very different sensations for him to think it was anything other than a distraction.
05/05/2010
I find it a none issue even. If were together were together. My husband loves me I love him. If either of us use toys who cares. Personally I think its hot seeing my man masterbate.
05/05/2010
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I agree completely.
Originally posted by
Luscious Lily
As far as I'm concerned? It's a toy. No matter how realistic it is, it's still just a toy. Honestly, it would be horribly hypocritical of me to expect him to be ok with me using realistic dildos, while being jealous of him using a
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As far as I'm concerned? It's a toy. No matter how realistic it is, it's still just a toy. Honestly, it would be horribly hypocritical of me to expect him to be ok with me using realistic dildos, while being jealous of him using a realistic pocket pussy. For me, it's a non-issue.
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05/05/2010
I have always masturbated more than my partner, except for maybe my current. However, in this relationship he rarely does it anymore. I have no problem with my guy masturbating as long as he doesn't lie about it and it doesn't affect his sex drive for me. I also don't want him to do it in front of me if I have no part in it. For instance if I am unable to have sex for some reason, I don't want him to then turn on the tv and go to town. I would ask him to go to the shower if he felt the need was THAT urgent. I would find it an insult that he couldn't wait for me. Distance is different. Go to friggin town!
05/06/2010
I masturbate using all kinds of toys many realistic, at times alone and often with my b/f watching. SO....simply put, why shouln't he also masturabte any way he wants. He has a masturbation sleeve, most times he uses it alone but as long as he has something left for me, go to it!!
05/06/2010
luvinluv
I agree witht the above, I hate when they lie about it!! And because of that I used to hate it when my BF did it, he would even do it in bed with me when he thought I was asleep!!! ARGHHH!!! But with my new partner, anything goes!!! I just want to see him happy and if he feels the need to masturbate, so be it!! We have no secrets and even tell eachother when we do it. He loves to think of me at home masturbating while he is at work:} And it turns me on when I get home and he tells me about the wiggle session he had home alone!!
05/06/2010
I think its awesome that my husband has toys that feel good and work well. Good for him! I have cool toys too. Seems fair to me. Sometimes we even use his toys in the mix of our play time. I've bought him some of those awesome masturbators too - so I have no problem with it!
05/06/2010
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My fiance loves the masturbator that I bought for him, and we've used it during our play time as well.
Originally posted by
Victoria
I think its awesome that my husband has toys that feel good and work well. Good for him! I have cool toys too. Seems fair to me. Sometimes we even use his toys in the mix of our play time. I've bought him some of those awesome masturbators too -
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I think its awesome that my husband has toys that feel good and work well. Good for him! I have cool toys too. Seems fair to me. Sometimes we even use his toys in the mix of our play time. I've bought him some of those awesome masturbators too - so I have no problem with it!
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And as long as he's still in the mood when I am, I really don't care how often he masturbates.
05/06/2010
I am incredibly secure in the knowledge that I, being a living, breathing, feeling human being am far more desirable than a hunk of rubber shaped like a vagina. Also? Masturbators can't tell jokes or give back rubs half as well as I can. The end.
05/06/2010
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You have such a way with words. ^_^
Originally posted by
Miss Cinnamon
I am incredibly secure in the knowledge that I, being a living, breathing, feeling human being am far more desirable than a hunk of rubber shaped like a vagina. Also? Masturbators can't tell jokes or give back rubs half as well as I can. The end.
05/06/2010
What's weird is I actually have only had two boyfriends that masturbated while we were dating. My current and my first when I was 16. All the rest didn't masturbate AT ALL (unless you count phone sex). I don't know how I ended up with guys like that but I found it interesting.
If it had been one of the guys who never masturbated, I would have wondered why they all of a sudden wanted to use one and then would have been alarmed but that has never happened.
If it had been one of the guys who never masturbated, I would have wondered why they all of a sudden wanted to use one and then would have been alarmed but that has never happened.
05/07/2010
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Yeah, way better than a p.p.
Originally posted by
Miss Cinnamon
I am incredibly secure in the knowledge that I, being a living, breathing, feeling human being am far more desirable than a hunk of rubber shaped like a vagina. Also? Masturbators can't tell jokes or give back rubs half as well as I can. The end.
05/07/2010
I wouldn't mind it at all. I have toys, so why can't he. I don't care how realistic it was, its a toy. Nothing is as good as the real thing.
05/07/2010
I really don’t mind him using toys or anything, I mean I use them! The only thing that I wouldn’t like is if I get the shaft or he knows that I want some play and doesn’t give but instead masturbates. As long as he’s not cheating or anything of the sort I’m okay with it!!!
05/07/2010
As long as its not interfering with me getting mine, its fine
I'm not a very jealous person at all.
I'm not a very jealous person at all.
05/07/2010
I've said it before and I'll say it again: toys are inanimate objects. Until they can wash my dishes and kiss me goodnight, they cannot replace a partner.
05/07/2010
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You could try asking him to review one for EF, that's how I got Sigel interested. Still working on Arch but he's a bit harder headed LOL.
Originally posted by
Elodie
I keep trying to talk my boyfriend into being interested in one, actually. Failing so far -- he doesn't see the point of using anything but his hand, and when he's with me, he wants me touching him. I think something would have to create very
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I keep trying to talk my boyfriend into being interested in one, actually. Failing so far -- he doesn't see the point of using anything but his hand, and when he's with me, he wants me touching him. I think something would have to create very different sensations for him to think it was anything other than a distraction.
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I have an open reltaionship it would seem just plain silly to not have a problem with the guys dating other women but be upset by a toy! Like Lucious Lilly it's a non-issue in this house. My issue is Sigel doesn't always like an audience when he's using his fleshlight! >.<
05/08/2010
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LOL I had that same sort of experience as well. Sigel was my first lover and he always masturbates in private or to get himself "ready" for me. Arch on the other hand will masturbate openly and then invite me to join in, watch or just ignore him while he does it. It's always my choice but it doesn't embarass him which I thought was wonderful. He always has time for me and all of us masturbate several times a day even when we are all together, yay for high sex drive!
Originally posted by
~LaUr3n~
What's weird is I actually have only had two boyfriends that masturbated while we were dating. My current and my first when I was 16. All the rest didn't masturbate AT ALL (unless you count phone sex). I don't know how I ended up with
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What's weird is I actually have only had two boyfriends that masturbated while we were dating. My current and my first when I was 16. All the rest didn't masturbate AT ALL (unless you count phone sex). I don't know how I ended up with guys like that but I found it interesting.
If it had been one of the guys who never masturbated, I would have wondered why they all of a sudden wanted to use one and then would have been alarmed but that has never happened. less
If it had been one of the guys who never masturbated, I would have wondered why they all of a sudden wanted to use one and then would have been alarmed but that has never happened. less
05/08/2010
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I tried, it didn't work . Though he's getting quite fond of using toys with me, so that's step one, I figure.
Originally posted by
Airen Wolf
You could try asking him to review one for EF, that's how I got Sigel interested. Still working on Arch but he's a bit harder headed LOL.
I have an open reltaionship it would seem just plain silly to not have a problem with the guys ... more
I have an open reltaionship it would seem just plain silly to not have a problem with the guys ... more
You could try asking him to review one for EF, that's how I got Sigel interested. Still working on Arch but he's a bit harder headed LOL.
I have an open reltaionship it would seem just plain silly to not have a problem with the guys dating other women but be upset by a toy! Like Lucious Lilly it's a non-issue in this house. My issue is Sigel doesn't always like an audience when he's using his fleshlight! >.< less
I have an open reltaionship it would seem just plain silly to not have a problem with the guys dating other women but be upset by a toy! Like Lucious Lilly it's a non-issue in this house. My issue is Sigel doesn't always like an audience when he's using his fleshlight! >.< less
05/08/2010
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I'm buying my husband one so I can watch. It amazes me how often he can get himself off in a day and I just like watching him pleasure himself, so he can go at it all day long if the poor little guy can handle all that attention.
Originally posted by
Two Loves
This questions is for the ladies. Would you be jealous of your man masturbating with a pocket pussy, and would it matter how realistic it was? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below
05/08/2010
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Same here for my partner.
Originally posted by
Elodie
I keep trying to talk my boyfriend into being interested in one, actually. Failing so far -- he doesn't see the point of using anything but his hand, and when he's with me, he wants me touching him. I think something would have to create very
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I keep trying to talk my boyfriend into being interested in one, actually. Failing so far -- he doesn't see the point of using anything but his hand, and when he's with me, he wants me touching him. I think something would have to create very different sensations for him to think it was anything other than a distraction.
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He has a nice pocket pussy but he won't use it. He has only let me use it on him and he hasnt used it on his own. I would so much love to get him a fleshlight but I know it wont be worth the expense since he will not use it.
I don't push him to use it but sometimes I suggest that he could use the pocket pussy for a change but he doesn't care for it. He hates that it is cold as he enters it and he finds it weird and akward to use.
So sad. He could get so much pleasure from a fleshlight.
05/26/2010
I'm not. They're just toys. As a matter of fact, I'm the one who first introduced Fleshlight into the bedroom and I actually get a kick out of either watching him use his toys (mutual masturbation can be hott) or playing makeshift "threesomes" on him with them.
05/26/2010
Victoria (EdenFantasys).I think its awesome that my husband has toys that feel good and work well. Good for him! I have cool toys too. Seems fair to me. Sometimes we even use his toys in the mix of our play time. I've bought him some of those awesome masturbators too - so I have no problem with it!
I wouldn't mind it at all it can be fun for the both of you
I wouldn't mind it at all it can be fun for the both of you
05/26/2010
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Too bad! I bought my b/f the Tanga Flip Hole and he just recently bought a Fleshlight. He runs warm water through them prior to lube and use.
Originally posted by
Naughty Student
Same here for my partner.
He has a nice pocket pussy but he won't use it. He has only let me use it on him and he hasnt used it on his own. I would so much love to get him a fleshlight but I know it wont be worth the expense since he will ... more
He has a nice pocket pussy but he won't use it. He has only let me use it on him and he hasnt used it on his own. I would so much love to get him a fleshlight but I know it wont be worth the expense since he will ... more
Same here for my partner.
He has a nice pocket pussy but he won't use it. He has only let me use it on him and he hasnt used it on his own. I would so much love to get him a fleshlight but I know it wont be worth the expense since he will not use it.
I don't push him to use it but sometimes I suggest that he could use the pocket pussy for a change but he doesn't care for it. He hates that it is cold as he enters it and he finds it weird and akward to use.
So sad. He could get so much pleasure from a fleshlight. less
He has a nice pocket pussy but he won't use it. He has only let me use it on him and he hasnt used it on his own. I would so much love to get him a fleshlight but I know it wont be worth the expense since he will not use it.
I don't push him to use it but sometimes I suggest that he could use the pocket pussy for a change but he doesn't care for it. He hates that it is cold as he enters it and he finds it weird and akward to use.
So sad. He could get so much pleasure from a fleshlight. less
He is not interested in a pocket pussy type at all, fine with me.
05/27/2010
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Once, I told him I could get him a nice fleshlight but he litterally told me he would throw it away without hesitation. So, he said don't waste your money.
Originally posted by
Liz2
Too bad! I bought my b/f the Tanga Flip Hole and he just recently bought a Fleshlight. He runs warm water through them prior to lube and use.
He is not interested in a pocket pussy type at all, fine with me.
He is not interested in a pocket pussy type at all, fine with me.
I found the best time to use the PP was when he is taking a bath. He can warm it up in the water as he relaxes then add silicone lube and use it once it is warm. I think he thinks that it is such a hassle to use toys for himself since he has to warm it up, we are very careful with how we use water, we try to be as environmentally friendly as possible.
But honestly, I think that he refuses to use toys that are especially for him to sort of stick to his own beliefs that we don't need toys and shouldnt really have to use them. I havent talked to him about it so its really all just an assumption.
05/28/2010
I had to think hard about this one. I don't really use realistic dildos so it was easy for me to scratch that option out. However, I'd feel really insulted with him having a pocket pussy. But, my boyfriend and I DO have a long distance relationship so... right now, I guess that's better than temptation from actual pussy right?
06/02/2010
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Aw, your post makes so much sense and I feel foolish for worrying now.. .
Originally posted by
El-Jaro
Yeah, way better than a p.p.
06/02/2010