have you ever cheated?

Contributor: shcoo shcoo
I stayed with a person who cheated on me. Later, I told him about a sexual encounter I planned to have (I had never been with anyone but him), and he gave his consent. So I went and did it. Later, he called it cheating and guilt-tripped me about it and said he was never okay with it. Ugh.

There's been some substantial online flirting as well, but usually it's all in a joking tone so I don't know if I "cheated" then.
05/23/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i saw a statistic in an eden cafe article stating that a men's health magazine poll showed that 22% of people cheat. i think it's much higher than that. be it a simple kiss, a fantasy world you've created with another, cyber dirty talk or ... more
Yep. I've cheated. I can honestly say if my feelings get hurt and the person I'm with isn't willing to talk things out (silent treatment or pretending like there is no problem) then it's hard to not go find someone else.
05/23/2012
Contributor: SkinFlute SkinFlute
5 years together and no cheating from either of us
05/25/2012
Contributor: Envy Envy
I never cheated, but have been cheated on. I would never cheat on anyone, if i thought the relationship was going south, I'd end it before moving on.
05/25/2012
Contributor: CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
nope
05/25/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
i do not have not and will not ever cheat
05/29/2012
Contributor: lovekink lovekink
Nope
05/29/2012
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
yes i have not proud of it but i did it
06/10/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, since I was cheated on
06/11/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I've been cheated on but I've never cheated. I'm loyal like that.
06/14/2012
Contributor: digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i saw a statistic in an eden cafe article stating that a men's health magazine poll showed that 22% of people cheat. i think it's much higher than that. be it a simple kiss, a fantasy world you've created with another, cyber dirty talk or ... more
nope
06/14/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
In a relationship there is trust and if you break it there isn't really a relationship to go back to, so it's best to love who you are with or move on. Don't middle road it.
06/14/2012
Contributor: Samantha B. Samantha B.
I've been cheated on, and I've cheated on someone.
not proud.
06/20/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
Even the thought of cheating makes me cringe. I wouldn't want to anything to jeopardize the amazing relationship my fiance and I have! If we are ever not feeling satisfied in the relationship, we talk about it and work it out. I honestly could never imagine being with another man. I am a happily almost married woman!!
06/21/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Would never do that to someone I care that much about
06/21/2012
Contributor: MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
No, never I think I'd kill myself if it would happen..
06/26/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
I'm guilty, and have felt horrible about it. I really don't believe a cheater is always a cheater. That's like saying a smoker is always a smoker. People are fallible, and can learn from their mistakes. I feel like losing someone they really care about is a hard lesson to face for most people, and there are people that don't want to feel the same remorse. In fact, there are a lot of cheaters who do learn that find themselves in stable loving relationships now because of the experience.
06/28/2012
Contributor: KRD KRD
When I was teenager I was dating a guy and really liked the guy I'm with now. We fooled around a bit and I've been with him now for over 10 years. So I'm happy I "fooled" around with him because it was one of the best decisions we've both made
06/28/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
No I have never cheated.
06/28/2012
Contributor: bh253 bh253
Never have, and I never ever will.
07/01/2012
Contributor: momoxd11 momoxd11
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i saw a statistic in an eden cafe article stating that a men's health magazine poll showed that 22% of people cheat. i think it's much higher than that. be it a simple kiss, a fantasy world you've created with another, cyber dirty talk or ... more
i did cheat and my bf at the time for gave me but we eventually broke up because i couldnt for give my self
07/02/2012
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i saw a statistic in an eden cafe article stating that a men's health magazine poll showed that 22% of people cheat. i think it's much higher than that. be it a simple kiss, a fantasy world you've created with another, cyber dirty talk or ... more
40 years as lovers. 35 as husband and wife. Mr. Bignuf here saying, I had a COUPLE chances (interestingly, at work) and NEVER DID. I think men cheat for sex, and there is NOTHING out there that I can't get...and get it FAR BETTER, from my wife, so NOT INTERESTED, thank you.

Mrs. Bignuf here now.(Thanks for the compliment, dear...I love you too).
and no. No cheating, ever. Would never do it out of sheer personal respect. If you are SO unhappy in a relationship, GET OUT, then have your flings. WHY cheat and diminish your own self worth??? Anyway, I never felt the urge or need to cheat anyway. I am very happy with my man and he loves me too. Who needs more?
07/03/2012
Contributor: Scorpionwally Scorpionwally
ive never cheated and never would as my father cheated on my mother
07/09/2012
Contributor: Zandrock Zandrock
nope. I have not
07/18/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
Never, only my partner.
07/18/2012
Contributor: ChickenFeathers ChickenFeathers
I have.. It's been years ago, but it still hurts my wife. Things still trigger emotions and memories for her. It's really hard to watch her go through it still.. Sometimes I just don't know why she even stayed..
07/18/2012
Contributor: cgerling06 cgerling06
My husband and I got together when I was 16 which now im only 24. We have been together for 8 years and married for 3. The first year of our relationship was great. But then he cheated on me and I figured I would get revenge back. yeah i know two wrongs dont make a right. He cheated on me with a girl that i really hated. At the time we were also living together. I went to visit my parents and while I was gone is when he did it. When I got back I was so mad. I cheated on his with one of his childhood bestfriends. yeah i know totally wrong of me. But it didnt just stop after the first time. I seemed to get my self into this world of mess, and basicly lived a double life for almost 4 years of sleeping around with his ex bestfriend. I thought I grew these feelings for him that I was basicly in love with him. My husband knew of the one time at the very start that i had cheated on him. but never knew about all the other times. adventually my husband found text messages that we were having and confronted me about it. I didnt lie about it. no need to. i knew i was caught and actually i was glad i was caught cause i didnt know how to get my self out of the situation i was in. because his ex bestfriend would tell me if i stoped talking to him then he would tell. and which at the time my husband was only my boyfriend. i didnt want my husbands feelings hurt. we talked about everything. we got help to save our relationship and boy did we both have to work on that. a year later we got married. we have now been married for 3 years. its one hard lesson i have learned in life.
07/26/2012
Contributor: Upyourreviews Upyourreviews
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i saw a statistic in an eden cafe article stating that a men's health magazine poll showed that 22% of people cheat. i think it's much higher than that. be it a simple kiss, a fantasy world you've created with another, cyber dirty talk or ... more
I have, but I have never felt guilty about it because the guy I was with didn't care about me at all, and the guy I cheated on him with was the only man I've ever loved. I suppose circumstances should be put into play... you really never know the bigger picture.
07/26/2012
Contributor: LunaLuthor LunaLuthor
Quote:
Originally posted by aliceinthehole
i saw a statistic in an eden cafe article stating that a men's health magazine poll showed that 22% of people cheat. i think it's much higher than that. be it a simple kiss, a fantasy world you've created with another, cyber dirty talk or ... more
No but i've been tempted, i am always very honest with my partner about it
07/26/2012
Contributor: AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
No, I've never cheated and never been truly tempted. It's not that I haven't found other men attractive, it's acknowledging my attraction and making zero attempt to act on it. Which, in turn, means the attraction doesn't grow much less to a point where I even think about starting something.
07/28/2012