I have never cheated and would feel absolutely horrible about myself if I ever did. Though I suppose I can understand why people who are stuck in truly bad relationships would. Of course, I would just get out of the bad relationship.

Long ago, early in highschool. It was the only time I ever cheated. I didn't respect my boyfriend because he wasn't the smartest man around the town and we had nothing in common. I ended up fooling around with my friend just because I was so attracted to his mind after a year of dating my idiot boyfriend. We broke up soon after (and I told him what I'd done, I never could keep that kind of thing inside) and I've never cheated since.

I have never cheated on anyone. If I wanted something other than what Ive got, I'd leave before complicating the situation even more.

I did, not on my current wife though. It was my second wife, I know two wrongs don't make a right, She was running around on me and I say an oppurtunity and seized the moment. Along with it came the shame. The shame was that I was a better person and I stooped to her level. I would never do it again.

I think it is wrong to say that all cheaters are cowards or "I hate all cheaters". While I totally understand the sentiment, life is so much more complicated.

Growing up, both my parents cheated on each other for many many reasons. While I won't say that cheating is the answer, it is often the symptom of larger issues. I also think that some relationships can heal after cheating.

I can honestly say that if my husband cheated on me I would want to know all of the facts before completely writing him off and walking out the door.

No.

Have never cheated.

more than 22%? fuck that shit.

No way, I have never cheated. I don't understand it.

I had a reputation as a cheater. A pretty bad one, too. I just... wasn't satisfied with any one guy. It's not a good reason to cheat, but at the time, I just wasn't ready to settle down because I knew I wasn't going to be happy with what I had.

Until I met my boyfriend. I would never, ever do a thing to hurt him or o result in me losing him... and as he says, "I don't care where you get your appetite, as long as you come home to eat dinner."

Never have, never will. I feel like if someone has the urge to cheat on their partner, why are they with their partner in the first place? I love my fiancee, and I only have eyes for her!

No...

I've never cheated.

No cheating has always been a huge no no for me! I'm a very firm believer in 100% honesty and loyalty and I am pretty darn serious about it in all relationships not just romantic ones. I've never cheated, but in past relationships have been cheated on. It's such a disgusting feeling to be done that way. If you absolutely can't resist then it's not love anyways and the best option is to split up with the person before you cheat and hurt them worse. I don't think I could live with myself or forgive myself. I just couldn't hurt my partner like that. If you love someone you don't have the desire to cheat. Even with past men who I didn't love, I still wouldn't have ever cheated. I don't want to be responsible for a broken heart. Those things can damage people and cause problems in their future relationships and I just do not want to be at fault for that.

Nope, never have, never will!

I haven't cheated. I've been cheated on. By my ex - the one I just broke up with cause he wasn't paying attention to me. Apparently he'd been fucking another girl for two months.

I won't ever do that to someone.

i haven't. and would never. i only hope he feels the same way.

No, never, and even if I wasn't thinking about my partner, I have to get up and deal with myself everyday. I don't need that.

The worst I've ever done is a quick peck in a drunken stupor and cyber playing.

if you aren't happy in the relationship then get out of it. don't cheat.

Nah, I'm very open and will tell someone if I'm having thoughts that I think could lead to cheating and we can talk about it and see what we're comfortable with.

Nope. If I ever will, I will tell her first.

I cheated once, and immediately regretted it. I'd been with my current partner for about 2 months, but was still feeling some pain over my previous relationship (which ended with a rough breakup). When my ex called me and asked if I would come over so we could talk, I agreed, hoping it would bring me some closure.
I was naive and unsure about what I wanted, so when he kissed me, I kissed him back. We ended up sleeping together that night, and afterward, I slunk home like a dog that knew it had done something bad. I felt horrible and low. After making such a monumental mistake, I suddenly knew exactly what I wanted and who I wanted to be with, where my heart belonged. But I also realized that I might have destroyed that chance.
The next day, I struggled through my shift at work, then went straight to my partner's house to tell him everything. I was sure he'd be so disgusted at me that he'd tell me to leave, but he didn't. For 2 weeks, we barely spoke. For 3 weeks, he wouldn't make any contact with me, even if it was just holding hands.
He forgave me, but I still have yet to forgive myself. I hurt him, and despite how badly I want to, there is no way for me to take it back.

Some people believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater", or that cheaters are all the same. But in actuality, some just made a mistake because they weren't sure what their heart wanted, and now they have to live with the guilt and shame of that mistake for the rest of their life. If you could feel the mental punishment that a regretful cheater inflicts on them self every day, you would know that they don't need other people to bash and look down on them, because they do that on their own.

Nope. I could never do that to him.
Even though we haven't had sex in a while, that's why I have toys. I know he's tired from work, and I'm tired from school.
I could never imagine anyone else ever touching me the way he does.

I think if it ever got that bad, I would break it off before I cheated on him. What's the point of causing extra hurt?