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Would you forgive your partner if he/she had a sexual affair?

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Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Just a general question
Maybe. There are always circumstances that could change my view.
06/01/2012
Contributor: WhoopieDoo WhoopieDoo
I definitely would, though I highly doubt it would happen.
06/01/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
I wouldn't forgive them. I'd just let them go and start again with someone else. I don't give my trust to many people. So I take it hard.
06/01/2012
Contributor: booboo111926 booboo111926
no i wouldn't. i think all my trust would be gone and be impossible to gain back
06/12/2012
Contributor: xMila xMila
I wouldn't forgive him.
07/28/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
It would depend on the circumstances. I try to be a forgiving person, deliberate acts of malice aside, but I also don't want to settle for someone I can't trust, or who doesn't care about my feelings.
07/28/2012
Contributor: SadoMas SadoMas
nope buh bye
08/10/2012
Contributor: yevans yevans
I voted no, I think that if he cheated on me it would mean that he wanted something I am not. Since we have an open and honest relationship that would mean it was time to move on.
09/14/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Maybe, it would depend on the situation.
09/14/2012
Contributor: Wonderstruck Wonderstruck
Absolutely Not
09/14/2012
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
No. Both my husband and I went through a ex each who cheated on us. We're very against it no matter the situation. That and we both watched as it nearly destroyed my father when my mother cheated on him then divorced him (their remarried but he's still distrusting towards her, I can't say I blame him).
Hubby had a ex that really destroyed not only his trust but his credit, and my ex actually cheated on me with both genders when he was getting just as much sex from me and emotional support as he was from the other two.
09/14/2012
Contributor: Dixiemomma Dixiemomma
my Mister and i have a strict understanding that there is no cheating ... and cheating consists of ANYTHING you wouldnt openly tell the other about... we both agreed upon that right off the bat and he's given me no reason to ever doubt him... so i probably wouldnt forgive him if he broke that BUT i cant say for sure because i do love Him dearly and cant imagine life without Him
09/14/2012
Contributor: TrenchcoatHunters TrenchcoatHunters
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Just a general question
Nope
12/17/2012
Contributor: AliMc AliMc
Not a chance.
12/17/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
The question is would I forgive her. I would try and work out our relationship for many reasons and not just leave her, but forgive is a different story. Given the perfect situation, her asking for forgiveness and her remorse, I'd try to forgive her, but I'm afraid the betrayal would always be in the back of my mind nagging me. Is that truly forgiveness?
12/17/2012
Contributor: loveme loveme
I would forgive em, yes. But would I still be with them? Most likely not.. It would be almost impossible to trust them again. And with no trust or respect, there is no relationship.
12/17/2012
Contributor: roskat roskat
I don't think I'd be able to put it behind us.
12/18/2012
Contributor: MrWill MrWill
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Just a general question
I could forgive a purely sexual affair LOOOOOOONG before a purely emotional one.
12/18/2012
Contributor: Sirena Sirena
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Just a general question
It really, really depends.
12/18/2012
Contributor: MacNCheese MacNCheese
Quote:
Originally posted by butterflygirlxo
Just a general question
Sadly, I did.
12/20/2012
Contributor: xxSuzakuxx xxSuzakuxx
Depends
01/26/2013
Contributor: SneakersAndPearls SneakersAndPearls
I said maybe, but honestly I probably would. I'm a very forgiving person. However, it depends on the circumstances.
01/26/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
Hell no...period!
01/26/2013
Contributor: CountryPrincess CountryPrincess
I've always had the opinion that if you feel the need to cheat then you should just break it off and not be with the person anymore, I have a no tolerance philosophy. I've been cheated on by my ex husband and I wont put up with it
01/26/2013