Pay or not pay?

Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
While we were dating he always paid, and I was happy with that. Now it's all "our" money, so it doesn't matter anymore.
04/03/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
I prefer the man to pay. That's his job, lol. But every now and then I like to go stag.
04/03/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
My date should pay
04/15/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
I voted divide it up because it seems fair and me and my bf do that often but lately Ill just cover it even though he really should. hes just been struggling right now.
04/16/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
he pays will not allow me to
04/18/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I usally always payed with my ex and it made me go broke.
04/18/2011
Contributor: liilii080 liilii080
If it's in the first 3 dates, I do think he should pay, but after that we'll take turns. Or he gets the movie and I'll but the drinks.
04/18/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
I am a little old fashion. I believe the man pays. Even when we made money together I took care of some of his bills but he was always to pay when we go out. I also believe he should open the door for me. I like a gentleman.
04/18/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
When I make a dollar for every 73 cents he makes, I'll start paying....

Until then, I only pay on his Birthday.
Hee hee! Heck yea!
04/19/2011
Contributor: Lady Marmelade Lady Marmelade
I ALWAYS pay for myself.
04/19/2011
Contributor: Lithaewyn Lithaewyn
I'm married so... it all comes from the same place haha!

When I was dating though, I'd often choose to split the bill or take turns. It is always nice to have your date pay though.
04/19/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
For the first date, I always assumed that whoever did the asking should plan to pay. After that things are negotiable.
04/19/2011
Contributor: goawaybunnies90 goawaybunnies90
I take turns. It's only fair
04/19/2011
Contributor: w-o-name w-o-name
The guy should pay!
04/19/2011
Contributor: AngelicaU AngelicaU
We switch. One day I will, next time he will.
04/25/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Before we were married, I always used to pay. And I did it gladly!
09/15/2011
Contributor: Chilipepper Chilipepper
I always offer to pay or split, but the guy would always insist on picking up the tab. When I was married, I usually paid because I was the one with the steady job. I'm hoping that when Master and I become more serious, he'll ... whom am I kidding ... he's a stereotypical Englishman and will insist on footing the bill. Hell, he wouldn't let me carry the souvenir bags during his visit and he got the door for me all the time.
09/15/2011
Contributor: s<3x s<3x
I usually think the man should pay at least for the first few dates. But it really depends on the people involved and their economic situations.
09/15/2011
Contributor: wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I've always kind of thought that whoever did the asking should pay the ticket. However, my girlfriend pretty much decides that unless I offered to pay before we get there, she is paying no matter what She's kind of a gentle...woman like that.
09/17/2011
Contributor: ginainohio ginainohio
divide it up
09/16/2012