Have you ever had a friend with benefits?

Contributor: dirtythoughts:) dirtythoughts:)
I voted they're a bad idea....but also thought/think they're a good idea
One I had was with another girl. Now its sort of awkward between us. Especially because a good amount of people knew. Now I feel people are wondering if somethings going on if/when we hangout since I'm in a committed relationship now. In my opinion, its hard to be just friends with someone after you have sex. But to each their own!
06/12/2012
Contributor: gsfanatic gsfanatic
Nope, since I'm not sure I could handle the ambiguity
06/13/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
No. I tried once but I am not one to separate my emotions and sex so its impossible for it to stay "just friends"
06/13/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Nope, but I might try at some point.
06/13/2012
Contributor: Bodhi Bodhi
Yes. It ended up turning into a long term relationship.
06/20/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I think I'd get too attached to a FWB and it wouldn't work.
06/25/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
My first sexual relationship, at age 16-17, was a FWB situation. It was really excellent for me at the time, especially because we were very open with each other about our feelings and our needs.
06/28/2012
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
No, and I would never want to.
06/28/2012
Contributor: woodsdragon woodsdragon
I have in the past (college days) but I really don't recommend it...mainly because someone always ends up getting too attached and eventually feelings get hurt.
06/28/2012
Contributor: amazon amazon
Seemed great at the start, but after a while it became... complicated
06/28/2012
Contributor: Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
Yes I have had a friends with benefits. I feel it works perfectly.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Llahsram Llahsram
I have two current fuck buddies...going on three. It's great
06/28/2012
Contributor: Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
It even sounds complicated why bother.
06/28/2012
Contributor: Anne Anne
They're nice for the time being, but they come back to bite your conscience if you get into a serious relationship. I wish I felt the need to not rely on them in my single life. : [
06/30/2012
Contributor: True Pleasures True Pleasures
Nope, never had one.
09/20/2012
Contributor: Sangsara Sangsara
Best oral sex ever
09/20/2012
Contributor: SavingMyself SavingMyself
No and I wouldn't want one.
09/29/2012
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
He and I have both done the FWB thing...but, it just never worked out the way each one of us wanted, not bad but not great either.
01/22/2013
Contributor: IvyFayette IvyFayette
Tried it and it ended badly. We had been friends for a year or so before deciding to sleep together. It was great sex but he developed feelings for me when I wasn't ready to commit. We didn't talk after that and I lost a great friend out of it.
01/22/2013
Contributor: Stagger13 Stagger13
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Nope. Never.
01/22/2013
Contributor: mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
Yes I have. It's almost always the same guy every time I am single...he's gorgeous and we are super sexually compaitable and when we are both between relationships, we hook up. It's meaningless. He's like that guy you have that agreement with that if you are both alone and someday the stars line up right when you are super old you will be together if no one else ever comes along. We aren't good relationship wise (we have been down that very SHORT road haha). We want different things, we are on different life plans, we could never live together, and it's almost a miracle we are friends. We are best buddies when we are single, we don't talk unless we need really honest advice if we are in relationships. But it always worked for us because we were always on the same page. Sex was our equalizer, and it worked out fantastically, and all it meant was that neither of us had to have a bad day and come home and feel alone.
01/23/2013