The New Intimacy

Have you ever had a friend with benefits?

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Contributor: ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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yea sometimes they are a good idea sometimes they arent....i think it is good if you want to be single and dont have feelings for them
01/18/2011
Contributor: vegan.guy vegan.guy
I haven't had one and I don't think I'd want one.
02/05/2011
Contributor: EvaChangeN EvaChangeN
used to have one, he became a stalker tho
02/09/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I've had this situation happen a few times. It was never really planned...and never went badly, now that I think of it.
02/10/2011
Contributor: Mistress M. Mistress M.
I love friends with benefits.
02/10/2011
Contributor: Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
I usually do Friends with benefits or plain ol fuck buddies. Big difference between the two.
I mean with fwb's I am friends with the person that I fuck.
Fuck buddied is just someone I fuck that I prefer not to be friends with. I usually have no respect whatsoever for fuck buddies, but I do for fwb's.

I prefer these two things over relationships.
02/14/2011
Contributor: toxie m toxie m
I had one when I was in high school and it was lovely. We were super close and intimate, but not together in any way. We were both seeing other people and there was no jealousy - one of the most positive and open sexual relationships of my life
02/15/2011
Contributor: Miss Jenn Miss Jenn
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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I said yes, bad idea... I had one when I was single... Maybe it wasnt the right person. He was just all wrong, in so many ways LOL
but would def be willing to give it another go with someone else if hubby let me Hah!
02/16/2011
Contributor: sexyintexas sexyintexas
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Friends with benefits are great as long as it doesnt get complicated.
02/22/2011
Contributor: kinky dude kinky dude
yes and it suits us both good, both full time uni students and just happy having a laugh all the fun without all the emotional baggage
02/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
Not my thing. For me it has to be love first, sex second.
04/04/2011
Contributor: link82 link82
Sometimes those are the best!
04/05/2011
Contributor: nicole07 nicole07
yes a long time ago
04/07/2011
Contributor: Joie de Cherresse Joie de Cherresse
Yea, I've had lots of those... and I called them "fuck buddies" too... ah my old single days, lol...
04/07/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
Fantastic for the first few months, then rapidly turns into a bad idea.
04/07/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
I had a couple at the beginning in college and was a slight problem because the girls did get a little to attached to me.
04/07/2011
Contributor: CarmenGore262 CarmenGore262
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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yes!!!
04/12/2011
Contributor: Willis2011 Willis2011
It was great!
04/13/2011
Contributor: neon neon
never
04/14/2011
Contributor: Fuck it. Fuck it.
I've done it before and am still friends with them. It just depends on the people. Sometimes it's a great situation, sometimes it's really unhealthy.
04/14/2011
Contributor: barrettbn2 barrettbn2
I did a long time ago
04/15/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
Yes but don't think I would again
05/21/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
A few of em', and tonight I just contacted one to propose we jump on the ol' fun wagon once again. I'm bad! I'm back on the shamelessly proposing to guys kick again.
07/11/2011
Contributor: Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
Its a bad idea but its so much fun too!
07/28/2011
Contributor: Airekah Airekah
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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This takes a lot of self-control in my opinion. I know there are a few movies that have come out recently that show FWB relationships as being something that works out, but most of the time the situation ends with one person developing feelings when they shouldn't or getting their feelings hurt when one of the two in this type of relationship end up moving on to "something real."
07/28/2011
Contributor: thebest thebest
yes
07/28/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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Yes, I ended up in a serious relationship with him. 14 years, now. Not sure it's such a good idea since they use the begining of the relationship against you when you fight.
07/28/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Yes it was a bad idea he ended up wanting to be more and I wanted to be with someone else!
07/29/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
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Originally posted by LavenderSkies
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yes, and i dont recommend them to anyone!
08/02/2011
Contributor: SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
I'm considering a new one, but there's a lot of risk with this one.
08/02/2011