I don't splurge on toys/lingerie unless we have money left at the end of the month - then I feel okay about it.

In the moment yes, I do think about other things I could be spending money on, but in the long-run I'm generally happy with the value I get from buying items.

Nope, I make sure it's something I really want and I have the money to pay for it

nope

yes sometimes i have bought things that i shouldnt have at the moment and it was just impulse and i felt bad after placing the order.

How about starting a monthly budget? That's been useful for keeping myself on track. Then I know when I can afford some goodies.

No...I probably did when I first ordered here but now not anymore.

Not when I just use my points!

not recently, but I understand how you feel.

no i dont use the rent money

no why would i?

Nope, never.

Never.. I get excited

never.

I do, because money is tight, but the last few things were free with my points, so I feel BETTER about it than I did before.
BUT I STILL get a bad feeling about it...I really don't know why...guess I'm worried that my fiance will think I'm trying to replace him! (lol) which of course isn't true...

I never feel guilty. I tend to look at things for a long time before I buy though.

I do not. I put money away to spend on "wants" and that is the only money I ever spend on EF (and points). So as long as your spend within your means I see no issue

Not at all.

I don't. I mostly try to pay with my points though.

There's nothing wrong with getting something for yourself once in a while. Overspending is another issue, of course. But even the very poorest person deserves something that's not a bare necessity once in a while. That's why I always tell people who criticize someone they perceive as "poor" they see buying a 'luxury' to shut up - they don't know if the woman buying an expensive tube of lipstick didn't scrimp and save for months and months in order to get something nice.

One way I cut down on the "guilt" is to only buy things after I have covered all my bills and put money in my savings. And one way I budget is to decide ahead of time which items I want and to buy something like a $5 gift card for that store every week. That way I save for a few weeks to get it, I don't spend the money I earmarked for it on something else, and I don't feel awful about how much I spent.

If you're worried about not making a lot and being unable to work a lot, work out a budget. Depriving yourself of absolutely everything but the barest necessities isn't going to do anything but make you miserable. Giving yourself a set amount of money to spend on things you want but don't need after you have covered all of your expenses will probably make you feel better. I have also found that doing that actually helps me curb "impulse" spending.

YES! all the time!

Not at all. I get excited

Why should you feel bad for sating one of the basic principles of being human? I mean, if you can't pay your rent and you just bought a $200 sex toy, yeah feel guilty. Otherwise...

nope! points!

Sometimes but I am more worried about weather I will like what I ordered when I actually get it.

All the orders I place know are with saved up points and gift cards no reasons for me to feel guilty about using gift-cards. I do feel guilty about a birthday present i bought for myself from another store.

I mostly just get lube these days (It's difficult for my partner and I to have sex without it due to... Size differences.) so I don't have any reason to feel guilty. If it weren't for the points/affiliate program I might feel a little bad about how OFTEN I order but with free shipping all the time it makes Eden cheaper than stores in town for lube.

Not really. The only reason I feel guilty is that I feel I shouldn't be spending money, but I rarely spend much.

Nope, considering I almost always get the item(s) for free or close to it.