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Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i'm not going to vote simply because... i have done that. it was horrible. it's not something i can plan out for the future, plan to do, but yes it happened.

i'll never ever do it again. my boy now, even if things did go sour, and as hard as it is to break things off when you've gotten in so deep with someone, the pain i put my partner and mySELF through is just not worth it.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Errant Venture Errant Venture
Absolutely not.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Crystal1 Crystal1
Cheating isn't going to fix the problem.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by SexyySarah
If you and your partner weren't doing so well in the bedroom and you had the opportunity to cheat would you?
If I am unhappy enough with a relationship to cheat, then I would not want to be disrespectful enough of someone I once cared about deeply to do it. I would rather end the relationship and start somewhere else with a clean slate. Cheating is unfair and hurtful to your own self, as well as the one you are cheating on and cheating with.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by BrokeNHorny
Not a chance. You should never let quick thrills endanger a relationship. Its just not smart.
Bingo. Well said.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
Just because things may go into a sexual rut, I would never leave behind all the love and intimacy and trust we've built together. I wuv my woobsie, even though he's a complete sadist and anime geek.
You have me rolling on the ground laughing with this comment. He is sure lucky to have found you!!!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by usmcwife99
same


I mean my line of work is probably 95% guys. Theres few females, and alot of the guys dont have much of a relationship, if any. Some do, but then afterall its one were they dont see her for a while and "just want some pussy" ... more
WOW...does not say a lot about those guys, now does it? Great bunch.
10/24/2011
Contributor: NycRuby NycRuby
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
WOW...does not say a lot about those guys, now does it? Great bunch.
NOPE. There is toys that can be used in the bedroom. Might as well use them if he is not good in bed.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Pink Jewel Pink Jewel
Nope!
10/24/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Im leaning on No but I voted depends cause anything is possible.
10/24/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
No. I'd communicate with my partner and we'd resolve whatever issue there was that was making the sex dull.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Peggi Peggi
I'd much rather just solve the problem! I mean, what good is it going to do us or the relationship to go behind their back and destroy everything we have? If things aren't working out then I would talk to him and see if we can fix whatever is going wrong in the bedroom or in the relationship, and if it can't be fixed, I would just leave them as soon as I realized it couldn't be fixed.

I would never hurt my partner. I have more respect for him, myself, and this relationship than to do something like that.

I've had EVERY opportunity in general and never once considered it, even when things were a bit rocky.
10/25/2011
Contributor: froggiemoma froggiemoma
no, I wouldn't.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
No I would not either. I have a hand and dresser full of toys. I can satisfy myself if things are not up to par.
10/25/2011
Contributor: Cherrylane Cherrylane
I prefer to do the whole open honest non-betrayal thing, personally.
10/25/2011
Contributor: SassySam SassySam
If I'm not happy and I don't believe the situation can be improved, I leave. I'm usually pretty causal with my relationships but if monogamy is part of the relationship than that's that.
03/09/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
No. My options in that situation are 1) work on the relationship or 2) break up. This is assuming we're monogamous in the first place.
03/09/2013
Contributor: Lover of Leather Lover of Leather
Nope, never would. Even if she would never ever find out, I would always know, and that is simply unacceptable to me.
03/09/2013
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by SexyySarah
If you and your partner weren't doing so well in the bedroom and you had the opportunity to cheat would you?
nope
03/09/2013
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
no never
03/09/2013
Contributor: Aishiteru Aishiteru
No, I'd rather work on making things better with them or just enjoy my toys.
03/10/2013
Contributor: ImaGodiva ImaGodiva
Never. My first marriage was very unsatisfying but I ended it (after 13 years) before I considered seeing anyone else. I met my current husband a month later and I have no need nor desire to cheat. I'm a one person person, through and through.
03/10/2013
Contributor: Living Doll Living Doll
No. I don't do that cheating thing.
03/10/2013
Contributor: RedGlitter RedGlitter
Call me old fashioned, but I don't believe in cheating.
If anyone isn't happy in their relationship, they should own up, not string the other along, and tell them they are no longer happy.
03/10/2013
Contributor: peachmarie peachmarie
Very nearly every person alive has saw someone attractive while they were in a relationship and thought "i wonder what that would be like" but it's not acting on it that matters. There are plenty of guys/girls that i have pointed out as attractive to my boyfriend and sure if i had the opportunity i'd sleep with them, it wouldn't diminish what i have with my boyfriend to ME but it would bother him, so i don't. If my relationship was so bad that i had to consider cheating on an emotional level not just a "hey he's cute" kind of level then i would probably just end things or take a good hard look on the relationship and try to fix it. Relationships are tough and humans are sexual creatures.
03/10/2013
Contributor: Chastity Darling Chastity Darling
No. Our relationship is built on more than just sex. We have trust, honesty, intimacy, commitment, love. There is no way on this earth I am going to betray him in such a way.

I have cheated before and it was fun for the moment but in the long run the guilt ate me up.
03/10/2013
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
No, I'm married to the one I want and love.
03/10/2013
Contributor: XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
No, I would not cheat.
03/10/2013
Contributor: SecondStory SecondStory
I wouldn't. In addition to being a dickish thing to do, I don't think I could deal with the guilt.
03/10/2013