My woman and I don't need toys to orgasm (solo or together), but we love including toys anyway. I get a significant amount of satisfaction making her squirm and scream from pleasure.

My boyfriend and I use them pretty regularly but not every time. In fact, he's usually the one who suggests it!

I think sometimes you just don't use toys, but I mean, most women only orgasm from clitoral stimulation. So if your having penetrative sex, you may not cum unless you also have clitoral stimulation, not to say it doesn't feel good but you may not finish. So why not use a vibe? wouldn't your partner want you to cum with them? I don't see a big deal in it. Guys usually don't have that issue, they put their dicks in and they know for the most part that it will always end in an orgasm.

I disagree.I think it's up to the couple.

once.... a year.... Why even say once a year is ok if you have to space it out that much? Why even have a sex toy if you can only use it once a year? What is the POINT? WHAT'S WRONG WITH SEX TOYS? I can't even begin to understand the logic behind this. Sexual satisfaction is part of being healthy, which can include sex toys too... I just don't understand why once a year...!?? We use ours very often, and we have no plan to stop, there's no reason to.

I think their okay to use them every day

That is ridiculous "advice" if you ask me. We often use toys in our sexual encounters, and it has helped, not hindered, our relationship.

Dr. Ruth = Quack

I totally disagree with her!

I don't use them every time I'm with a partner or every time I masturbate either but I would say I do bring em out the majority of the time.