You know how life is a journey and all that? It applies to sexuality too.

Sometimes labels are useful. They allow you to define your experience and fine others who are likely to have had similar experiences, or to find people who might want to date you.

Someone might hold on to a label because it's what feels most true to their lived experience. They are totally within their rights to do that. It's not actually okay to police someone else's sex life. I feel like I know a lot of people doing the "lesbian with an exception" thing (which I don't identify with personally any more, but WHATEVER) and you know what? Whatever. They're not betraying any kind of cause. What's actually hurtful to LGBT people is the overall de-legitimizing of their sexuality, is the dominant culture's insistance that people fit neatly into non-confusing boxes.

I think everyone should be able to love who they want to love regardless of gender, sex, and socially constructed labels. I think the labels are just intended to help other people understand, but only hold as much meaning as you allow.

I fall in love with people and plan to be true to myself no matter who that person is.

Sexuality is fluid. It's silly not to let yourself enjoy someone's company just because they don't mesh with your preferred label.

sexual orientation is fluid, and so is sex and gender! do what the fuck makes you happy and fuck the haters

(that is a metaphor. do not actually fuck the haters; they don't deserve it)

I am not a fan of policing the terms others use to describe their sexualities, especially because so many people have expressed annoyance, disgust, or confusion at my use of terms like "pansexual" and "queer" - I don't want to send that kind of negative energy to others. As long as people aren't trying to argue that everyone has to conform to their particular interpretation of what sexuality labels mean, I tend to leave them to define themselves and be happy. They certainly know more about their own orientations than I ever can, so why would I try to correct them?

Sexuality can be fluid, but isn't always. People should do what feels right and comfortable for themselves. I'm not a big fan of labels.

Who you are and who you want, although they can be related, are two different things.

some lesbians can "like dick" I mean I wouldn't consider someone has male lovers a lesbian somewhere in the queer or bisexual area