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Do you think oral is considered as sex?
05/29/2012
I don't think it's sex, personally.
05/29/2012
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This, exactly!
Originally posted by
GirlOnGirl
If someone performs oral on me and afterward I'm questioning whether or not I just had sex, that pretty much ensures they won't be getting invited back!!!!
05/29/2012
Yes it is sex.
05/29/2012
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Here here!! The use of any part of the genitals in one form or another falls into the definition of sex.
Originally posted by
Ahatmadeofshoes12
All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex
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All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex between two women is not "real sex". For heterosexual and homosexual couples alike oral sex is just as real as any form of penetrative sex. I find it incredibly beautiful and intimate (sometimes even more so then penetrative sex) and so I definitely consider it to be real sex.
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Isn't foreplay a type of sex?
05/29/2012
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Oh, you got that soooo right!!!
Originally posted by
GirlOnGirl
If someone performs oral on me and afterward I'm questioning whether or not I just had sex, that pretty much ensures they won't be getting invited back!!!!
05/29/2012
I know that technically it is sex, and most if not all of the risks are the same or greater for oral sex. With women I consider oral sex to be sex, but with men I consider it more of foreplay. If someone asks me how many men I've had sex with, I almost always ask if they mean penetration or anything, and most often they say they only mean penetration. I do understand that it is still sex, just another kind of sex, which is why I try to always make sure it's clarified.
Edit: I don't mean to say that foreplay isn't sex also, by the way, it just seems to be a varying degree of sex to me. I mean, I also consider making out to be foreplay, but wouldn't consider that to be sex. I don't have a clear definition of what is sex and what isn't sex, which is another reason if someone is asking me specific questions, I try to clarify.
Edit: I don't mean to say that foreplay isn't sex also, by the way, it just seems to be a varying degree of sex to me. I mean, I also consider making out to be foreplay, but wouldn't consider that to be sex. I don't have a clear definition of what is sex and what isn't sex, which is another reason if someone is asking me specific questions, I try to clarify.
05/29/2012
definitely sex
05/31/2012
It counts for me.
06/01/2012
Oral sex is sex. Are you in contact with genitals? Can you contract an STI? Does it provide the intimate emotional connection associated with sex? If the answer is yes, it's sex. That's how I feel about it anyways.
06/01/2012
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I like this!
Originally posted by
SouthernBelle
Oral sex is sex. Are you in contact with genitals? Can you contract an STI? Does it provide the intimate emotional connection associated with sex? If the answer is yes, it's sex. That's how I feel about it anyways.
06/05/2012
It's not called oral SEX for nothing.
06/05/2012
I count it as sex.
06/05/2012
I consider it sex.If I had oral sex with someone and later that day someone asked me if I had sex that day I'd say yes.
06/05/2012
I think is is considered as sex
06/05/2012
yes deff.
06/05/2012
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of course
Originally posted by
Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
06/05/2012
To me it is
06/09/2012
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It is sex...but it isn't
Originally posted by
Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
It is a sexual act, but it isn't penetration.
So yes and no.
06/09/2012
Sex is whatever you decide it is!
06/09/2012
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Couldn't have said it better myself!
Originally posted by
Ahatmadeofshoes12
All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex
...
more
All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex between two women is not "real sex". For heterosexual and homosexual couples alike oral sex is just as real as any form of penetrative sex. I find it incredibly beautiful and intimate (sometimes even more so then penetrative sex) and so I definitely consider it to be real sex.
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06/10/2012
yep it is sex
06/10/2012
yep it is sex
06/10/2012
to me it is i mean after all i am gay and that for the most part is how we get down
06/10/2012
yes i do
06/24/2012
It's just a matter of semantics, I like how teeny boppers in trouble would say that it wasn't
06/28/2012
It is sex!
06/28/2012
it's sex.
06/28/2012
If it wasn't sex we could do it in public.
06/29/2012
Yeah, of course it is.
07/07/2012