All sex is sex. Penis in vagina sex is only a type of sex. It is not more "real" than any form of non-penetrative sex. Its completely unfair to frame sexuality in these terms since it basically deems that sex between two men, or sex between two women is not "real sex". For heterosexual and homosexual couples alike oral sex is just as real as any form of penetrative sex. I find it incredibly beautiful and intimate (sometimes even more so then penetrative sex) and so I definitely consider it to be real sex.
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Do you think oral is considered as sex?
02/07/2012
There's a part of one body going in another part of a different body.. yeah, its sex lol
02/08/2012
It is definitely.
02/08/2012
Yes, hence the term "oral sex".
02/09/2012
Oral is sex.
02/10/2012
If the purpose of an act is sexual pleasure then it is sex.
02/13/2012
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I think of it as a part of sex.
Originally posted by
Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
02/13/2012
I think that oral, fingering and playing with toys is all apart of forplay, not sex
02/13/2012
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My bf is always questioning that! It upsets me a bit! It totally is
Originally posted by
Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
02/13/2012
Yeah it is, some of us don't have/like penii, so fingers/tongue/toys will be considered sex in my opinion.
02/13/2012
yes.
02/13/2012
definitely sex
02/14/2012
yes
02/14/2012
yes!
02/14/2012
i don't consider it 'sex', but it is sexual. >.>
02/16/2012
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What about for lesbians or bisexual women? Are they all virgins?
Originally posted by
SparklyGlitter
I think that oral, fingering and playing with toys is all apart of forplay, not sex
02/17/2012
Oral sex is sex. It's not intercourse, but I wouldn't consider it anything else.
02/17/2012
of course it is sex thats why it is called oral sex!
02/17/2012
I think if genitals and fluids are involved, it is sex. To limit the definition of "sex" to just vaginal intercourse is really ignorant and exclusionary of so many people's sexuality.
02/18/2012
I would consider it sex, because you can catch STDs from it
02/27/2012
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Definitely sex. For me (as a dyke), it's one of the most intimate "kinds" of sex. I tend to save it for after I know someone well - it's the ultimate.
Originally posted by
Graniteal
I consider it sex, but how many of you out there agree or disagree?
03/06/2012
Definitely consider oral sex a type sex - I'm of the mind that if you think you've had sex, well, you probably have.
03/06/2012
i think its more like foreplay
03/07/2012
I think it is a type of sexual activity, but I don't think it is sex. For example...if a girl gets fingered, is that called finger sex? No...its a type of sexual activity, but it't not sex.
03/07/2012
it is same
03/14/2012
When I think sex I think Penis penetration two bodies coming togeather lol.
03/14/2012
If there is an orgasm, it is sex.
03/15/2012
I would say it is warm up or foreplay. Not technically considered sex.
03/16/2012
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Well said
Originally posted by
Gunsmoke
The term is 'Oral Sex' - doesn't that speak for itself?
03/16/2012
I think it's real sex; for some people it's not the most meaningful/personal kind of sex to them, but that doesn't mean it doesn't count.
03/16/2012