Insightful breakdown of Prostate massagers:

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Does size matter???
I recently convinced my gf to peg me but she says she will feel more comfortable if we used a smaller dildo. I admit the one I have is pretty big...

How long did you take to achieve your first P-spot ONLY orgasm?
And what toy (if any) did it for you? Just to be clear, we're talking about P-spot orgasms absent any substantial non-P-spot stimulation.

Tips for prostate stimulation only orgasm?
We've mostly only used a strap on, but want to experiment with only massage to try and achieve an orgasm. Any helpful hints?

Oops, I should clarify that the question for the poll is "Have you had an orgasm solely from prostate stimulation?"

I asked "was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well?" as a secondary question, if anyone wants to jump in and leave a comment. I could phrase that question better too, "Was it just as satisfying as when your penis is stimulated and you orgasm?"

Also, for those who have a partner that isn't on EF, you can answer for them if you like. Thanks and sorry for the confusion!

It's much better than the one you get from sole penile stimulation. Much more intense.

Thanks to those who have responded!

My b/f has awesome orgasms from just p spot stim., esp when I am using a strap-on.

Yes I have, but in my experience it is completely different than a penile orgasm. A penile orgasm seems to remain constant in pleasure, until you approach orgasm, at which point the pleasure levels rise really high, really quickly, you orgasm, and then the pleasure drops back off again quickly. A prostate orgasm on the other hand, is more like continual waves of pleasure resonating over and over again each time it gets stimulated, that just builds higher and higher pleasure levels. Sometimes it even feels like a feedback cycle where the pleasure waves give rise to even more pleasure waves. There are times when it's so pleasurable that your body doesn't know what to do, and can just want to collapse or pause from too much! It's just incredible. From there I have had prostate orgasms that end in ejaculation, or without ejaculation. Without ejaculation, sometimes I can build to several non-ejaculatory orgasms, other times, not so. After prostate orgasm, the pleasure levels don't seem to drop so rapidly, but more taper off.

So, in short, a penile orgasm is more like a sharp spike in pleasure, where prostate stim is more along the lines of a gradual building of ebb and flow. I LOVE prostate play, but it does take more time and effort, and I'm not always in the mood.

Interesting! I just bought a prostate toy (the Rocks Off Naughty Boy) for my boyfriend and we are excited to try it out.

Not entirely from prostate stimulation, but I've noticed that as soon as the thing even gets touched, there is cum dripping out of him like a leaky faucet. I mean a LOT more than the regular pre-cum stuff, I mean this is like "did you cum? NO? what the hell is all this then?"

And then when he does orgasm, it's like SPLADOOOW! Never seen so much in my life come out of one dude.

Depends what kind of orgasm we are talking about I have as of yet to have an ejaculatory orgasm from anything involving prostate play. There is a lot of precum usually but as of yet no ejaculation. I have had non-ejaculatory orgasm and lot of them however. It is ejaculation not orgasm that has a refectory period in men. This means I can orgasm may times in short order and even have multiple orgasms from prostate stimulation.

My non-ejaculatory orgasm definitely feel different then ejaculatory orgasm, at their best they are longer stronger and better then my ejaculatory ones, at their worst I call them mini- orgasm because of how weak they are. They usually don’t take me long to reach either. I definitely feel differently after the different types of orgasms makes sense when you consider ejaculation would release a whole lot of chemicals orgasm alone would not. There is not as sharp a loss of desire after my non-ejaculatory orgasms it is more of a gradual loss and I’m usually satisfied with them alone.

Just for contrast purpose in addition to anal and prostrate play, I can also achieve non-ejaculatory orgasm by putting the Hitachi (Guys We Need To Stop Letting The Ladies Hog This Shit!) on my cock head and let it do its thing. Unlike my P-spot orgasm I need to top off my Hitachi sessions with an ejaculatory orgasm because the physical arousal doesn’t drop at all, I could be exhausted and sore but my erection will somehow persist. I’ve had over ten orgasm with the Hitachi and still needed to finish myself off with an ejaculatory orgasm. I’ve never tried finish myself off with an P-spot orgasm at the end of a Hitachi session thou…I’ve found my next experiment.

I had pretty much a hands free one with this.

Yes Yes Yes it is a wonderfull thing I have had several where I have ejaculated and some where I have not and it dose feel differnt. for the most part with me the orgasim i have from prostate stimulation dose not leave me with a limp willy and I can have a few of them and still give my wife a good fucking

Satisfying? It's heavenly! You're in control; he lies there and takes it, whether it's fingers or toy. It's more of an internal feeling than the external penis-type orgasm. It can be overwhelming for the man, building and building and finally exploding. Maybe you should tie him down first. Plus there are other things going on--control (you), giving up control (him), his trust, your enjoyment of giving pleasure, teasing, spinning it out--I'm getting excited! I just ordered the Euphoria Enhanced, and I'm eagerly awaiting its arrival.

I can orgasm from anal, without penile stimulation, with relative ease. When I'm very much excited and aroused, I can cum from penetration alone, from the in-and-out motion, by using a dildo on myself... there are times that I just really crave anal, to be penetrated, and using a bigger toy makes me orgasm from that alone, without ever touching my penis. The stretching and that completely filled up feeling creates an extremely intense pressure that, quite literally, just "forces me to cum". It's strange really, but I cum very quickly with that sort of play (in fact, there were times that I have orgasmed from the initial insertion, right when the dildo went in balls-deep... it was quite intense, I was very much excited and felt that I had absolutely no control). These orgasms from anal play, without any penile stimulation, feels incredibly intense. They build up, slowly but very surely, and when I finnaly orgasm it feels like my entire body is climaxing, not just my penis. My whole body twists and turns, on the verge of literally exploding, pulsating from the inside out. I think that one of the main differences from penile orgasms (at least for me, and comparing from masturbation only) comes from that loss of control... something (or someone, if that's the case) is entering you, penetrating you, fucking you, conducting your pleasure and taking control of your entire body (mind, soul?); your excitement just builds and builds until it finnaly collapses, rendering you completely helpless, forced to cum. You are left feeling fucked, violated, satisfied. Pleasured.

But here is an interesting thing: I dont like too much direct pressure on the prostate itself... I always seem to find prostate massage with my fingers a little "too much", almost painful even. I prefer indirect stimulation, from the perineal area and from anal play or penetration. The simple, in-and-out motion, without even aiming for the prostate, feels much better to me.

Well lets see, can I have orgasms with just prostate massage, YES, YES, YES. Are they as enjoyable as orgasms I have with penis stimulation, no they're ten times more intense and I don't lose all my sexual energy out the end of my cock when I have them so I can continue until I'm totally exhausted. If anyones read my reviews they definetly know I enjoy anal stimulation.
This all started 18 years ago when my wife Di first ran her finger around my tight butt and then slipped a wet finger inside. Anal play has been part of our sex life every since. For many years her finger was all my butt enjoyed but, about eight years ago I started reading and learning about prostate stimulation and bought my first prostate stimulator, the Aneros. By using it I learned the pleasures the prostate could give a man. Before Di's finger was just stimulating my anus but when I felt my prostate being stimulated for the first time with the Aneros it was unbelievable. After a little practice when I used it my body would begin to tremble, I would start making all kinds of sounds, grunts and moans, and the feelings that rose up in my groin were so intense I could hardly stand it. With every contraction of my ass on the Aneros I felt more and more like I was going to cum or pee everywhere but it never happened. I would have orgasm after orgasm like this until my whole body was exhausted and the most that happened with my cock was a lot of precum oozing out.
I moved on from the Aneros to larger dildos,eventually getting Di a strap-on. I enjoy being penetrated anally but it's not as stimulating as prostate massage. Deep penetration is a totally different feeling. Just recently Di has learned how to give me a good prostate massage without going inside my ass. She found a spot between my balls and my anus and when she rubs it just right gives me orgasms as good as when I used the Aneros. We know it's my prostate she's rubbing from the outside and she loves doing it because she can give me full body trembling oragasms over and over again until I'm totally exhausted and beg her to stop. She even like walking up behind me when I'
m fully clothed and she reaches between my legs and rubs that spot and gives me a quick orgasm that usually buckles my knees. The whole time she's doing this
my cock feels like it's going to explode but it never does more then ooze tasty drops of precum.
Recently we've started using glass dildos and I don't know if it's because they are so smooth or that they are harder then other dildos but my prostate has fallen in love with them. My favorite is a golden glass dildo called the Magic Wand. The main end does nothing for me but the handle has a up turned end on it and when I slip it into my butt its just the right size and when it hits my prostate I go toatlly crazy. I think it's because of the size about a half an inch in dia. and with it being at a 90 degree angle it hits my prostate perfectly. Once inside and on my prostate I slowly move it back and forth over my prostate but within seconds I start feeling like I'm going to cum and have a huge orgasm but it never happens, the cumming part, I have plenty of orgagsms. This is when my prostate takes control of my body and makes my hand tremble rapidly pressing hard into my prostate rubbing the end of the dildo extremely fast over it. I can't stop my body from shaking, I hear myself moaning and grunting uncontrollably, the faster I stroke the dildo the more my cock feels like its going to explode off my body, but no ejaculation and I've done this for up to an hour and a half and never had more then a few drops of precum with a little drop or two of white cum in them. But I have had lots and lots of orgasms. So yes I have plenty of orgasms with prostate massage, and when I have prostate orgasms they're ten times more intense and I can have a lot more than just one orgasm in a row the way I do with penis stimulation. Di loves it because it makes me multi orgasmic for her the way she is for me.

I still can't resist it some times. I kinda gotta get worked up then relax back down to get my anal toys. But I've had this glass dildo for forever and a day and i have yet to really have a p-spot orgasm. I've gotten amazingly close many times but for me it feels too damn good to just hold it all in. I orgasm much faster by regular masturbation, but prostate stimulation drives me insane!

So alas, I have not yet had a P-spot orgasm, but eventually, one of these days, I'll get my patience and actually try to not touch anything else... tie my hands and have my partner do it or something.

It really would be great to experience this. One day it will happen I'm sure!

For someone that has never experienced one, how do I look out for the signs that its about to cum?

The feelings become more and more intense, you might start to moan and wiggle, and if she keeps it up or speeds up you'll go off. Sometimes it helps to have you or her grab around the base of your penis and squeeze gently for a while. Not completely hands-free, but mostly.

I've been very close, and I get closer every time I try. Of course, it's also possible to over-stimulate the prostate. I find it works best to slowly build up to it. I usually like to start with slow light pressure, usually by means of a small butt plug or my wife's divinely long fingers. From there it's a matter of selecting a toy that is strong yet flexible, and also uniquely shaped to rub the prostate but not assault it.

I've never had any of my partners orgasm from just prostate stimulation.

I might be a poor choice to ask this question. Not only have I had the blessed euphoria of anal orgasm, but It's almost guaranteed when my partner tops me. It is nothing like an orgasm from penile stimulation. For me, it is completely uncontrolled and when it first happened to me it was almost too much. I can't say that I've ever had an anal orgasm and NOT had an ejaculatory reaction.

but like I said, I'm a poor choice to ask this question because apparently I'm an exception because of how many and how often I have the pleasure of experiencing it!

I voted for my husband. He hasn't tried to orgasm from only prostate stimulation, or even WITH penile stimulation. He's not much into that kind of play, although hopefully soon I can get him to try things out more.