I find that as I have become more experienced with anal stimulation I too have moved away from the "prostate only" methodology.

Sure, stimulating the prostate feels great, but it seems like it can become a revision of the same error many men make of concentrating on the penis to the exclusion of everything else. There are many other spots that feel good and are stimulated during anal play, and when they're all combined the effect is amazing. less

Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more I researched it seems to be true but that it is difficult to achieve.

If you have, was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well? less

Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more I researched it seems to be true but that it is difficult to achieve.

If you have, was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well? less

Yes I have, but in my experience it is completely different than a penile orgasm. A penile orgasm seems to remain constant in pleasure, until you approach orgasm, at which point the pleasure levels rise really high, really quickly, you orgasm, and then the pleasure drops back off again quickly. A prostate orgasm on the other hand, is more like continual waves of pleasure resonating over and over again each time it gets stimulated, that just builds higher and higher pleasure levels. Sometimes it even feels like a feedback cycle where the pleasure waves give rise to even more pleasure waves. There are times when it's so pleasurable that your body doesn't know what to do, and can just want to collapse or pause from too much! It's just incredible. From there I have had prostate orgasms that end in ejaculation, or without ejaculation. Without ejaculation, sometimes I can build to several non-ejaculatory orgasms, other times, not so. After prostate orgasm, the pleasure levels don't seem to drop so rapidly, but more taper off.

So, in short, a penile orgasm is more like a sharp spike in pleasure, where prostate stim is more along the lines of a gradual building of ebb and flow. I LOVE prostate play, but it does take more time and effort, and I'm not always in the mood. less

Yes I have, but in my experience it is completely different than a penile orgasm. A penile orgasm seems to remain constant in pleasure, until you approach orgasm, at which point the pleasure levels rise really high, really quickly, you orgasm, and then the pleasure drops back off again quickly. A prostate orgasm on the other hand, is more like continual waves of pleasure resonating over and over again each time it gets stimulated, that just builds higher and higher pleasure levels. Sometimes it even feels like a feedback cycle where the pleasure waves give rise to even more pleasure waves. There are times when it's so pleasurable that your body doesn't know what to do, and can just want to collapse or pause from too much! It's just incredible. From there I have had prostate orgasms that end in ejaculation, or without ejaculation. Without ejaculation, sometimes I can build to several non-ejaculatory orgasms, other times, not so. After prostate orgasm, the pleasure levels don't seem to drop so rapidly, but more taper off.

So, in short, a penile orgasm is more like a sharp spike in pleasure, where prostate stim is more along the lines of a gradual building of ebb and flow. I LOVE prostate play, but it does take more time and effort, and I'm not always in the mood. less

I have had the same experience with my b/f. The first time he freaked out, thinking he pissed. He lets go with a copious amount of pre-cum which is very similar to my ejaculate but earlier then his actual orgasm which is then often delayed.
I use a strap-on and usually my Leo dildo. less

Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more I researched it seems to be true but that it is difficult to achieve.

If you have, was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well? less

Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more I researched it seems to be true but that it is difficult to achieve.

If you have, was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well? less

Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more I researched it seems to be true but that it is difficult to achieve.

If you have, was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well? less

Absolutely. I'm getting better and better about it with time. It's a lot like singing: they keep trying to describe the feeling of what you should be doing, but until you do it you can't really figure out what you're supposed to be doing. After you feel it once, it gets easier and easier to seek it out. less

I can orgasm from anal, without penile stimulation, with relative ease. When I'm very much excited and aroused, I can cum from penetration alone, from the in-and-out motion, by using a dildo on myself... there are times that I just really crave anal, to be penetrated, and using a bigger toy makes me orgasm from that alone, without ever touching my penis. The stretching and that completely filled up feeling creates an extremely intense pressure that, quite literally, just "forces me to cum". It's strange really, but I cum very quickly with that sort of play (in fact, there were times that I have orgasmed from the initial insertion, right when the dildo went in balls-deep... it was quite intense, I was very much excited and felt that I had absolutely no control). These orgasms from anal play, without any penile stimulation, feels incredibly intense. They build up, slowly but very surely, and when I finnaly orgasm it feels like my entire body is climaxing, not just my penis. My whole body twists and turns, on the verge of literally exploding, pulsating from the inside out. I think that one of the main differences from penile orgasms (at least for me, and comparing from masturbation only) comes from that loss of control... something (or someone, if that's the case) is entering you, penetrating you, fucking you, conducting your pleasure and taking control of your entire body (mind, soul?); your excitement just builds and builds until it finnaly collapses, rendering you completely helpless, forced to cum. You are left feeling fucked, violated, satisfied. Pleasured.

But here is an interesting thing: I dont like too much direct pressure on the prostate itself... I always seem to find prostate massage with my fingers a little "too much", almost painful even. I prefer indirect stimulation, from the perineal area and from anal play or penetration. The simple, in-and-out motion, without even aiming for the prostate, feels much better to me. less

I soo envey you. I tried and tried and I can't cum from anal alone. I tried using the Big Boy prostate massager numerous times and ways to no result other than an intens orgasm after finally stimulating my cock. I too found the pressure it put on my colon and prostate so uncomfortable it bordered pain. I've tried accomplishing it with dildos but again, to no result without penis stimulation. And it wasn't a lack of trying. I would use my toys in my shower stall, sitting on the floor with my feet up in the air against the edges of the stall walls fully exposing my ass. I would set up my laptop on a chair and put in an anal-creampie montage porn that was 70 minutes long and do my best to keep pounding my anus for the entire length of the movie and all my will power to not touch my cock. One time I felt like I was almost climaxing but lost it. less

Quite some time ago, when I first started reading and experimenting with massaging my husband's prostate, I had read that a male can orgasm just from that (without stimulation to the penis). I wasn't sure I believed it at first, but the more I researched it seems to be true but that it is difficult to achieve.

If you have, was it just as satisfying as if your penis was being stimulated as well? less