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What Do You Think of to Put off Orgasm?

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Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read a funny small article in Cosmo that asked guys what they think of to put off pre-mature orgasm. Some of the answers were pretty funny! One guy said he hates Broccoli so he thinks of someone shoving it down his throat

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I usually don't worry about it. I try to help her reach her first one first, then she wants to make me cum, so whether its 5 minutes or 20 minutes isn't an issue. However, if I needed to, I would likely think about yard work or doing taxes or something equally awful.
07/22/2011
Contributor: K101 K101
Never do it. I dont like putting it off. Lol
09/15/2011
Contributor: CPTInsanity CPTInsanity
When I was younger I had to do this more than I do now, but I would count backwards from 100. I figured if I made it all that way from the time that i felt like cumming than I did a pretty good job of trying to hold off. But now I rarely do this. If I'm feeling like I'm going to cum quick, then I will use her favorite dildo on my wife until she comes, and then I will make short work of finishing me off.
09/15/2011
Contributor: Illumin8 Illumin8
Interesting reading all the ideas here. Some are pretty funny!
09/15/2011
Contributor: LikeSunshineDust LikeSunshineDust
I sometimes have a hard time having an orgasm (no fault of J's), so sometimes I find myself thinking thoughts to make myself have one.
09/15/2011
Contributor: cheetahpita cheetahpita
I've never even considered stopping/putting off an orgasm! But I suspect it wouldn't be too difficult
09/15/2011
Contributor: Antipova Antipova
I don't delay orgasm by thinking about turn-offs (it seems like that would either sexualize my turnoffs, or put me out of the awesome sex headspace I was already in, and neither one sounds very good). Instead I sort of... grit my teeth and don't let myself cum til I know my partner's ready to?

Generally missionary and girl-on-top (and variants) it's easy for me to have multiple orgasms, but doggy style or anal I'll have an orgasm that's super-powerful, and I'll be too sensitive to continue. So usually we'll do something that gives me ~3 nice squirty orgasms, and then flip over, and I grit my teeth and hold off and let it build until we can cum together.
09/15/2011
Contributor: mizzmilla mizzmilla
I never really try to put one off..
09/15/2011
Contributor: duff duff
The more Os the better
09/16/2011
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
As Austin Powers says "Margaret Thatcher naked on a cold day!"

But in all seriousness, when I do try to delay I think about sports or something.
05/30/2012
Contributor: chuckthompson453 chuckthompson453
usually not really a problem for me, but there's always slowing down to prolong it
05/30/2012
Contributor: ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read a funny small article in Cosmo that asked guys what they think of to put off pre-mature orgasm. Some of the answers were pretty funny! One guy said he hates Broccoli so he thinks of someone shoving it down his throat

So this is a three ... more
I have a male friend that does multiples as in 2 times 2 is 4. 4 times 4 is 16. 16 times 16 is...he knows all the way into the millions. lol.
I find that girls don't necessarily need to practice this as our orgasms don't mean "end of show" like with some men.
05/31/2012
Contributor: elli elli
I focus on not coming My partner has a thing for orgasm denial and I'm usually happy to please (at least at first).
05/31/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
I've never seriously tried doing this because it just seems like it wouldn't work. Orgasms are so physical for me, I don't see how thinking of something different could prevent one (although thinking of something helpful can definitely get me over the edge if I'm having a hard time). If I want to delay an orgasm, I either ease up on the stimulation or relax my muscles--I seriously can't climax without my muscles pretty tense.
05/31/2012