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What Do You Think of to Put off Orgasm?

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Contributor: NymphetamineKiss NymphetamineKiss
I'm female, and I never try to delay an orgasm per se.

There are times I'll go really slow to build up to an almost unbearable tension, but I don't tend to try and think myself out of an orgasm.
10/29/2010
Contributor: Emma (Girl With Fire) Emma (Girl With Fire)
I don't do it as a rule. Once I'm turned off, I'm off for good. Which doesn't necessarily negate the loud and sometimes angry begging feeling coming from my vagina; but definitely my desire to proceed, and possibly my ability to reach climax.
10/30/2010
Contributor: ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
It's usually a lot of work for me to orgasm, so I almost never have to do this.
11/03/2010
Contributor: darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I don't really do this often. When I do, I don't really think of anything weird or gross, I just slow myself down a bit. My boyfriend says it feels better when we both orgasm at the same time, so if I feel like I am going to before him, I will just slow my movements down until he is ready.
12/07/2010
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read a funny small article in Cosmo that asked guys what they think of to put off pre-mature orgasm. Some of the answers were pretty funny! One guy said he hates Broccoli so he thinks of someone shoving it down his throat

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I'm female, and I do this occasionally sometimes it makes it that much better! I usually look away and just get out of the moment by thinking of random things.
12/07/2010
Contributor: Lurr Lurr
"Think about baseball, swing all night" I always sing a little rock n' roll in my head and if that still isn't enough, well then i'm already in the mood to do my best gene simmons to keep her going while i cool back down a bit.
12/08/2010
Contributor: zoobamafooba zoobamafooba
i think of gross saggy boobs.
12/21/2010
Contributor: KnK KnK
Quote:
Originally posted by Victoria
Hahaha. I almost said this!

No, seriously, I just stop the direct stimulation. If I get off too quickly, it's not as intense.
Yup, same. I've actually never thought of thinking about something else to put off an orgasm...is that worth it?
12/21/2010
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I just let it come and I enjoy it. Most times, I can go for another and hopefully it happens.
12/22/2010
Contributor: sbon sbon
I've never felt the need to put off an orgasm. It takes me a little bit to get there in the first place.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Envy Envy
If I do this it's not on purpose. It's just me worrying about things.
12/22/2010
Contributor: Beaners Beaners
Why on earth would I ever do this? If I feel like I'm orgasming too early, I know another one will be right around the corner.
12/23/2010
Contributor: The Awesome Penguin The Awesome Penguin
I've always tried to avoid this approach. Even if I don't last long on occasion, I would rather have fun and enjoy it entirely than think of something to put me off. My partner loves the look I have when she knows I'm loving it
12/23/2010
Contributor: Taylor Von Taylor Von
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I read a funny small article in Cosmo that asked guys what they think of to put off pre-mature orgasm. Some of the answers were pretty funny! One guy said he hates Broccoli so he thinks of someone shoving it down his throat

So this is a three ... more
I try to put it off. I seem to be able to have that really good O once the second is not the same as the first. I'm working on being able to control it better due to some times I put it off and I cant get it back. Still horny but the O is just a... o.
02/08/2011
Contributor: Taylor Von Taylor Von
Quote:
Originally posted by lamira
I do this especially for clitoral stimulation. I get off really easily with clitoral stimulation, but I want to enjoy it longer. Therefore, when I think I am about to climax, I either stop the stimulation, or stop thinking about the pleasure. I do ... more
I do the same thing and for clitoral stimulation, but some times I can't get the big O out after I delay.
02/08/2011
Contributor: SexyStuff SexyStuff
I try to do anything I can to finish before he does, not prolong! I guess I should show him this link.
02/11/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
I also "stop focusing on the pleasure". I do this almost every time and there were times when I even failed to orgasm because of overdoing it.
02/21/2011
Contributor: Mr.RightNow Mr.RightNow
i do math
02/21/2011
Contributor: BadassFatass BadassFatass
I've never really had a need to do this. Maybe I'll experiment.
03/01/2011
Contributor: Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
nothing in particular. maybe i'll just think of things i have to get done.
03/01/2011
Contributor: Epicurean Epicurean
Quote:
Originally posted by Love Buzz
Im always having to do the opposite, I need to think dirty thoughts and often verbalise them to reach orgasm
Ditto. I have to put myself in some hardcore dirty fantasies to get off at all. I WISH I had the opposite problem...
03/01/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
If I want to prolong things when we're having sex I usually just stop and go down on him for a little while. This gives me a chance to cool off a little while still being active.
03/01/2011
Contributor: sexyk515 sexyk515
i don't put them off
05/05/2011
Contributor: Rachel Nunez Rachel Nunez
I dont do this
05/06/2011
Contributor: Bonesdance Bonesdance
I'll occasionally try to think of something else if I feel that I need to slow myself down, but very rarely. Baseball is my favored topic, but this year my favorite team is playing so terribly that I'm afraid thinking about them would kill my erection.
05/14/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I do this rarely, usually when I masturbate because I can come really quickly when using certain toys. I pretty much just stop for a few seconds so I can last a little longer.

I've never had to do this with my husband. It takes a little longer than with toys but the orgasms are so much more intense that when it's time I don't want to stop!
05/14/2011
Contributor: AMGuidroz AMGuidroz
I am a famale and I never do this! Usually when my partner and I are having oral sex, it is always 69. So I am always focusing on what I'm doing to him and making sure he is enjoying it, rather than getting mine during oral. Sometimes I have to really think about it and focus on what he is doing to me, in order for me to get my pleasure.
05/19/2011
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
I just think of anything distracting
05/19/2011
Contributor: M121212 M121212
I only put off orgasm by reducing my physical pleasure, not by thinking something negative. I don't like thinking about turn-offs during sex.
07/13/2011
Contributor: averageguyextrodinarypleasure averageguyextrodinarypleasure
As a man when you're getting close to letting loose some things that happen is you hold your breath and your but cheeks tighten. When his happens I just try to reverse them, focus on breathing and relaxing your muscles. When I focus on that for a min or two it let's me prolong a little more
07/22/2011