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Contributor: richsam richsam
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Originally posted by joja
I have noticed that although my partner doesn't seem to be intimidated by my toys, he definitely doesn't share my excitement about them. All he really has to say when I come bounding into the house with a new package in hand is, "Why do ... more
he dont care
02/19/2012
Contributor: Dreaus Dreaus
I'm responding from the other side of the fence. I (male) have a rather large collection of toys, my wife only has the one that she has owned for over ten years. She does not like the fact that I have so many toys, and I think that because most of my toys are anal toys, she thinks I'm turning gay or something. I have had to keep some of my previous purchases secret from her (she always finds out anyways)
02/19/2012
Contributor: pynkNymphette pynkNymphette
My hubby loves toys just as much as I do! =]
02/21/2012
Contributor: Paula Paula
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Originally posted by joja
I have noticed that although my partner doesn't seem to be intimidated by my toys, he definitely doesn't share my excitement about them. All he really has to say when I come bounding into the house with a new package in hand is, "Why do ... more
He used to enjoy the idea but we're long distance now and I can tell he's getting a bit jealous...
02/22/2012
Contributor: Lulia Lulia
My boyfriend was actually the one who got me into sex toys. I was raised in a fairly conservative household and my mother always told me masturbation and woman liking sex was something to be ashamed of.

Moving away from home four hours away for school and meeting him has made me feel so much more confident and less ashamed of my sexuality, so... Even though there have been a few left turns of him thoroughly corrupting me, I'd like to think the excitement is mutual. He insists on always playing together when we can, so it's not like sex toys and sex are separate.

Besides, he jokes we'll get an awesome credit on the visa for all the orders.
04/10/2012
Contributor: Angelica Angelica
I dont think he really knows, haha. Hes never really been in my room and the topic has never come up! Whoops..
04/10/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
She doesn't like that I have my toys, she doesn't want to think about me using them. And I have other toys I have to hid that fulfill needs she can't. She had her toys but never used them.
04/10/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
She likes them, just not as much as I do.
04/10/2012
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by joja
I have noticed that although my partner doesn't seem to be intimidated by my toys, he definitely doesn't share my excitement about them. All he really has to say when I come bounding into the house with a new package in hand is, "Why do ... more
I think I like my toys better than him.
04/10/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
He likes the fact that I have and use toys. Doesn't like that I use them when he's not home. He seems intimidated by how many I have. He likes to watch me use them and is getting to where he wants to start experimenting with them. So... I think he likes them?
04/10/2012
Contributor: wildorchid wildorchid
I picked other, because toys are a decision we made together. I generally use toys more. He only uses them when I am there, but he always tells me I need for for certain needs
04/10/2012
Contributor: sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
He enjoys the toys. He thinks I'm crazy but he likes trying them with me, watching me use them, and is even interested in helping me choose products to get.
04/10/2012
Contributor: Lisset Finnien Lisset Finnien
My bf has no idear I have them. I wish I knew how to approach him about them. Unfortunately he has a low sex drive and doesn’t seem to be interested in sex unless I am the instigator. I hate that honestly. I have no interest in being dom and that seems to be all he likes. So I take care of my needs by myself usually. I’ve become used to it.
08/27/2018
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Lisset Finnien
My bf has no idear I have them. I wish I knew how to approach him about them. Unfortunately he has a low sex drive and doesn’t seem to be interested in sex unless I am the instigator. I hate that honestly. I have no interest in being dom and that ... more
Time for a trade-in/up-grade. IMO life is too short to spend time with a partner that you lack compatibility with.
08/27/2018
Contributor: Swing Curious Swing Curious
Well, we built our collection together and continue to look at new ideas together so our consent is mutual. We choose what we're gonna play with together and when she's home alone and needs a release, like last night when I was called out, she knows I encourage her to play.
10/15/2018
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by joja
I have noticed that although my partner doesn't seem to be intimidated by my toys, he definitely doesn't share my excitement about them. All he really has to say when I come bounding into the house with a new package in hand is, "Why do ... more
He knows I have some and I hide others
11/03/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by frisky069
He knows I have some and I hide others
That's funny that you hide some of your toys.

I have bought 100% of the toys we have. She doesn't hide the fact that some work better for solo play than couple play
11/04/2019
Contributor: frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
That's funny that you hide some of your toys.

I have bought 100% of the toys we have. She doesn't hide the fact that some work better for solo play than couple play
Yeah, my husband is weird about it at times. When I first got with him he didn't like the idea at all that I had some. We have been together for 7 1/2 years now and he's had me throw some out so I hide some and the ones I think he'd be okay with I let him see ( he has come along way from not liking them though as I have had him use some on me now) lol
11/04/2019
Contributor: HotCherryPie88 HotCherryPie88
I am dating and keeping my options open so my toy collection isn't really a topic of discussion when I bring somebody home. The few times it has been talked about I have found that most people are open to using them or are ok with me having them (think I'm pretty typical). I'm not really into the heavy kinky stuff so I have a couple of vibrators and dildos. I haven't actively hid them from anyone but I also don't pull them out unless I am in the mood and I feel like its the right move for that person too. Most of the people I have dated haven't judged me about my toys.
11/05/2019
Contributor: HotCherryPie88 HotCherryPie88
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
That's funny that you hide some of your toys.

I have bought 100% of the toys we have. She doesn't hide the fact that some work better for solo play than couple play
My father loves the show gunsmoke!! I love seeing this picture!!
11/05/2019
Contributor: Sexymandy1 Sexymandy1
He likes my sex toy collection and has helped pick every one of them we both love useing them on each other
09/15/2020
Contributor: Marysee8 Marysee8
he doesnt mind ..he want a close up..and record it every time I go back to the us...he in canada...
09/15/2020
Contributor: Wickedly Yours Wickedly Yours
Quote:
Originally posted by joja
I have noticed that although my partner doesn't seem to be intimidated by my toys, he definitely doesn't share my excitement about them. All he really has to say when I come bounding into the house with a new package in hand is, "Why do ... more
It doesn’t bother him at all whether i use them with him or on my own.
09/16/2020