How does your partner feel about your sex toy collection?

Contributor: Sensual husband Sensual husband
I buy most of our sex toys and love to use them with her and watch her please herself with them. She says she prefers my cock to the sex toys but sometimes I think she is just being nice. I know my cock can't vibrate and stimulate her clit for 15 minutes of longer.
08/10/2010
Contributor: SydVicious SydVicious
My Hubby is totally fine with my toy collection. He thinks it's funny that I get so into it. For the most part he was never as excited about a new toy as I was, but recently he has started to get a little more excited and has even started giving input on toys for us to use together. The only problem is, as my toy collection grows he says her forgets what I have and sometimes it takes him awhile to browse around to find the toy he is looking for. LOL
08/10/2010
Contributor: Sexy Machine Sexy Machine
We both have our own collection of sex toys.
08/10/2010
Contributor: sexyhellokitty sexyhellokitty
Hubby doesnt mind. He has his own toys too.
08/10/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Sensual husband
I buy most of our sex toys and love to use them with her and watch her please herself with them. She says she prefers my cock to the sex toys but sometimes I think she is just being nice. I know my cock can't vibrate and stimulate her clit for ... more
I have the same experience - but since sexual pleasure is 90+% mental - what she thinks counts!
08/10/2010
Contributor: usmcwife99 usmcwife99
He likes them cause I like them. He sais I need to buy more toys for him
08/16/2010
Contributor: Naughty Student Naughty Student
My partner hates it when I get a new toy but he doesn't hate the toy itself. He is not indifferent either.

Basically, he lets me enjoy my toys, sometimes suggests using them during sex but he doesn't like it when I get more then what I need. If a new toy is different or has a aprticular purpose my other toys cannot acheive then he is less grumpy about it. It's hard to say how he really feels about it all.
08/17/2010
Contributor: deadpoet deadpoet
This was a really hard to answer this question. My boyfriend is ok with us having our own sets of toys, but his says that he doesn't want toys to get involved in our sex. If that makes any sense to anyone
08/17/2010
Contributor: deltalima deltalima
He's a macho man so maybe his ego gets a little bruised by it.
08/17/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
I can tell when the sex is going to be especially good, long lasting and he'll really be into it. I'll come out of the bathroom (because we ladies have to primp before) and he'll have a naughty video on the TV and a selection of toys and lubes arranged on the bed, like a dessert cart at an expensive restaurant!
08/17/2010
Contributor: SexyySarah SexyySarah
My hubby likes my toy collection and he has just as big of one as I do, we like our sex toys "together" or alone.
08/17/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I can tell when the sex is going to be especially good, long lasting and he'll really be into it. I'll come out of the bathroom (because we ladies have to primp before) and he'll have a naughty video on the TV and a selection of toys and ... more
I do this as well. First I lay down the Liberator Throe - then pull out a variety of options to choose from. Sometimes I decide where to start - sometimes she knows what she wants and we start there.

I use to hide them under a pillow - so as not to 'offend' her - seems so quaint now - better to just be open about it.
08/17/2010
Contributor: DeliciousSurprise DeliciousSurprise
My partner doesn't mind my toys, per se, but she's a little put off by them. She asks me, every so often what I need her for, if I have all my toys. I just remind her that my toys can't make me breakfast or give backrubs and offer to let her play with them... Makes her right as rain every time
08/17/2010
Contributor: Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by DeliciousSurprise
My partner doesn't mind my toys, per se, but she's a little put off by them. She asks me, every so often what I need her for, if I have all my toys. I just remind her that my toys can't make me breakfast or give backrubs and offer to ... more
I want a toy that gives back-rubs!
09/17/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Victoria
I want a toy that gives back-rubs!
y wife bought me a HoMedics machine link - it does a pretty good job!
09/17/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I do this as well. First I lay down the Liberator Throe - then pull out a variety of options to choose from. Sometimes I decide where to start - sometimes she knows what she wants and we start there.

I use to hide them under a pillow - so as ... more
Hahahaha, My Man hides them under the pillow too, sometimes, or just presents them on the bed. Not sure what the hiding under the pillow is, but I do think it's cute. I think sometimes he wants to surprise me (I like to make love in the dark at night) and just...use the toy and have me guess which one it is.

I end up tossing them on the headboard and just letting the Wahl fall onto the floor, because one of us will roll on them and get hurt. Then, later, I sense him feeling around trying to grab one. Makes for an interesting "search" when we're done and he's asleep, and I'm trying to find everything and clean them. Sometimes something will get lost and I let it go until morning. Our famous quote one morning, "There's a butt plug somewhere in the bed."
09/18/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
College boys think toys are weird! Save for the ones that work instead of going to college and are just college aged.. at least in my informal polling in my local area :]
09/18/2010
Contributor: Trashley Trashley
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Originally posted by Tuesday
If a guy is intimidated by your toys then I say he is unworthy of you.

My husband is highly entertained by my toy addiction. He has a grin on his face whenever he hands a box to me or sees toys laying about.
I LOVE people like you, who think that other people always deserve the best.
Makes me feel all warm inside haha :]
09/18/2010
Contributor: mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
he seems to not care. i usually use em cause my hub doesnt wanna give it to me.
09/18/2010
Contributor: TechyDad TechyDad
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Originally posted by Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
My husband is always happy and excited about all of my toys. He jokes that I should just buy out Energizer, considering how many batteries I need!
Jenn, that's why you need to get some good rechargable batteries. Keep a spare set charged and ready. Plus, it is better for the environment than tossing tons of used batteries. We like Energizer's rechargables for all of our battery needs.
09/19/2010
Contributor: Riccio Riccio
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Originally posted by Sir
She probably likes it more than me. I love buying new toys for her, it's adorable, but she definitely is more "ohhhhh" over them.
Sir, her reaction is similar to that of the Love of my Life. I choose them and buy them; she initially protests that we more than enough. After we use the new one we laugh about her "Oooohhhhh! OOOOOOHHHHHH!!"

The latest addition was the "Swirled G;" she loved the experience and agreed that is different from any other dildo we have.
09/19/2010
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Riccio
Sir, her reaction is similar to that of the Love of my Life. I choose them and buy them; she initially protests that we more than enough. After we use the new one we laugh about her "Oooohhhhh! OOOOOOHHHHHH!!"

The latest addition ... more
Indeed -we have something in common! My wife always complains that we have too many - then tells me how much she likes my latest pick! Go figure!
09/19/2010
Contributor: softkkisses softkkisses
My husband loves all of its as long as he still get his share
09/20/2010
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Victoria
I want a toy that gives back-rubs!
The Wahl gives backrubs.....if someone holds it.
09/20/2010
Contributor: Jobthingy Jobthingy
He loves them. He gets so excited for toy shopping.
09/30/2010
Contributor: trios trios
I purchased some toys for my wife but she still gets annoyed. She's really not into sex like I am. Thought it would open doors for her to explore sex, but not yet!
09/30/2010
Contributor: Onanist Onanist
My wife is indifferent to sex toys, but doesn't mind me using them. With her lower sex drive due to menopause and my higher sex drive, she's comforted in knowing there's no expectations on her part to satisfy all my urges.
10/04/2010
Contributor: MrRainybowbow MrRainybowbow
hes fine with it
03/17/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
She wants me to try out some toys so i think she enjoys it
03/18/2011
Contributor: indiglo indiglo
He loves my toys, hell he's bought me at least half of them probably more than half. He wants to use them on, watch me use them, and understand which ones I like and why. He always asks "which one are you going to use this time?" with this grin on his face. lol
07/14/2011