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Contributor: KRD KRD
I need to be big spoon. I'm not a cuddler; I get hot too easily and my man puts off a ton of body heat. So I need to be big spoon so I can slip away when I need to haha
07/25/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
Both both spoon each other but just for a little while. we get to hot!
12/25/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Man..I like both .
12/25/2012
Contributor: MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I prefer the little spoon. He likes to play with my hair while I fall asleep so me being the little spoon makes this easier. He's also a lot taller than I am so I feel really awkward as the big spoon and I think he does too lol If I try to be the big spoon he usually moves so he's the big spoon again.
12/25/2012
Contributor: bog bog
Depends on the person! Sometimes I prefer one or another. I like falling asleep as little spoon, though!
12/25/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
I like being the big spoon in a male-male arrangement.
12/26/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
I'm physically a boy and love being little spoon
12/26/2012
Contributor: Pururin Pururin
I'm a woman and I like being the big spoon. It's nice being the little spoon too. My fiance doesn't seem to care either way.
12/27/2012
Contributor: gothicwhispers gothicwhispers
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Originally posted by CoffeeCup
A number of men I have been with have mentioned to me that I am the first woman they have met who prefers being the big spoon. None of them ever said it in a negative way, in fact, they all seemed to think it was awesome that I like being big spoon. ... more
I don't prefer it, but I comfort my husband being big spoon if he's upset or needs comforting for whatever reason, or for a brief period of time just to snuggle up/hug. My husband just LOVES to cuddle and here and there, he will ask me if he can be little spoon and then gets all excited. It's cute.
03/02/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
My wife is always the little spoon unless I'm sick and she just wants to be close to me.
03/06/2013